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Hey everyone! Me and my boyfriend recently broke up. He asked me if I still wanted to go out. I had been meaning to break up with him because I was starting to feel uncomfortable. He was trying to make me do stuff I didn't want to do. There is also a 3 year difference between us and I think that is one of the main reasons why I was starting to feel uncomfortable. Anyway, I work with him and even though he was the one who suggested breaking up, he ignores me when I try to strike up a conversation. I understand that he might be feeling hurt, I don't understand why he is acting like everything was my fault. I still think he's cool, but I think we make better friends than boyfriend and girlfriend. I really value his friendship. How can I make him feel better about this whole situation and help him realize than even though it didn't work between us, he still is a great person?
Thanks!
Jenn
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You have to tell him exactly how you feel. Let him know that the break up was really no ones fault. You just felt uncomfortable about the age difference and you weren't ready to do some things. Let him know he is a great guy and co worker and you still want to be his friend because you still like him as a friend just not as a boyfriend.
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Hey jenn I think you should really get a hold of him and tell him your feelings of the situation and let him know everything. I'm sure for a while things at work might be awkward cuz he still probably has really really strong feelings for you, but in time those will start to fade out. I think you just need to talk to him and tell him how you feel! Good luck hope things get better!
-holly-
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be mature and he is deffinatley not being mature. so just talk to him and catch him while hes doing something else. talk to him and make him talk to you
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