Hey! I'm Andrea.. my cousin has a column here, DarkChocolate794.
I've been giving advice here for a long long time. I've been through more than you'll know. I've managed to stay normal thanks to Jesus.
I'm nowhere near perfect. I'm a busy girl,so I don't have much time to get on as I used to. I'll hit you up immediately if you inbox me.
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Ok theres this song, could you tell me whos it by(like the singer or w/e) and whats the song called?thx!
Hey laidys drop it down,
Just wanna see yall touch the ground,
Dont be shy girl go bananza,
Shake your body like a belly danca...
(sorry about the spelling lol)
if you could give me the lyrics too that would be awsome, oh and garanteed 5's (link)
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Bellydancer by Akon
and go to azlyrics.com to find the lyrics
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After you put toothpaste on a pimple, is it supposed to tingle? Does that mean its working? (link)
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Yeah it is suppost to tingle, and for me it burns, and I think that means it's working, it's always worked for me, but you have to keep it on for a long time, and I usually make a very interesting concoction to get rid of my pimples.
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ok i like this guy... alot, i mean i have never ever felt this way about any one.... what do i dooooo?
pleez help, ill rate 5's
lone confuzed lover (link)
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If you feel so strongly about him you should ask him out!
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well me and my bffl went to the mall and met the most awesomest guy there so we planned to go there every weekend to see him.we both like him and he says he likes us both...well i was talking to him on the phone and he said between you to i would pick you but then he acts like he likes her sooooo much...ok my bffls past history is she likes boys..like she is supper boy crazy and if a guy acts like he likes her than she automatcilly likes him back..well i like him sooooo much!! and i dont know if i should go out with him or no because she " likes " him to and because he seems like a player..what do i do?? (link)
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Take him, because if she does, you won't have him and it's not your job to make her happy by handing over a guy you like! If she gets mad it's her problem-she should've taken the guy first, and she probably wasn't your friend anyways. If he likes you and he's not taken, take him before she does so if she tries to get him while he's taken (with you) you would know you have reason to be mad at her, and that she was never your bff. Go out with him if you like him even if he seems like a player, because after you're finished with him, you can give him to your friend!
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Every guy that I like only thinks of me as a 'good friend'. What should I do? Should I act different, telling them that I like them doesn't seem to make a difference. I don't like being just everyone's friend,...I want more than that... (link)
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Flirt and pretend you don't care that they think of you as just a friend. They'll come around if you're charming and make them like you.They won't even realize when they stopped thinking of you as just a friend, but don't be anything you aren't because it turns them away.
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does anyone know an exercise for ur butt? and theighs? lol it sounds funny but im serious (link)
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Squats and lunges help a bit.
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I'm not religious at all. I don't believe in committing 'sins' or waiting until marriage for sex. I've just noticed so many questions about religion and people get so worried they're breaking the law. I go by the quote, "Live and let live" and I don't judge anyone. Masturbate, have sex before marriage, (if you're in love!) curse, support gay marriage even! Shouldn't we stop thinking about making mistakes and just do what makes us happy? (link)
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No. people who are religious want to go to Heaven and dont think like you. They forget about what they like so they can get to Heaven so you can do everything you want. its their choice. Some people dont want to make mistakes.
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you know how there are those list of things for guys to do/ways to get to a girls heart?
does anyone have one abou guys for girls? lol thanks (link)
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I have a lot for you.Well this is what I would want for a guy.
He would have to do something over the top that risks tons of humiliation and his friends on his back for. That would show me he doesn't care what people think but that he wants to be with me nomatter what. He would also have to know how to make me laugh really hard. He has to be a bit persistant. Like if I say no to him once he has to try again. He has to be brave. He has to make the first move. He has to be the one to ask me out. Not his friends or anything. He has to do something sweet when I wouldn't expect it, like gifts on valentines day, but also gifts on friaday the 13th, and surprises for no reason at all, and it doesn't have to be over the top. It can just be a note passed in class, not a huge card with chocolate (which is always nice though) it can be a rose petal instead of a dozen roses. He has to be chival. He has wait for me to open the door for me. Wait in my living room and talk to my dad as I get ready, pull out chairs for me, stuff like that. He can't touch me like grabbing my butt, but he can put his arms around my shoulder or hold my hand IN PUBLIC, not just when we're alone. When I'm cold outside, hand me your jacket, when I'm cold inside, DON'T GIVE ME YOUR JACKET. Go for random dates, like taking a walk to a candlelit dinner outside, but don't tell me *that one really scored my boyfriend points* and finally, show me off to your friends when I'm in my wifebeater,booty shorts, and hairnet with rollers, and when my hair is done and I'm wearing my hottest outfit. It never fails. Good luck!
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Okay I asked the question earlier about my blood on my pad ( from my period ) was brown. Well now I checked again and it's so dark its black. Is this STILL normal or do I need to talk to my mom about this ? (link)
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It just means you havent changed your pad in a long time. I would suggest you change your pad. If that's not the case blood is clogged up there and hasn't came out for a while and is just coming out so don't worry. Either way it's old blood and its nothing to worry about.
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I keep breaking out around my face is there something that will work? I have tried almost everything. (link)
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www.burtsbees.com
They have tons of natural things for your acne.
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So my acne is really red. What kind of makeup do i put on to make it close to my skin color. I don't know what to use...I have really dry skin too. (link)
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If you go to
www.burtsbees.com
You can find many different natural things for your skin and acne.
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13/f
uhh what should i get//make for my parents...? im stumped! i have noooo idea. my mom said she doesnt want any appliances like coffee makers or vacuums (b/c we get her that like ever year *giggle*) i want it to be like kinda a surprise...and my dad.. im clueless! btw do you guys know where i can get cole?!?! i want it for my lil sis =)
ill rate 5's for any attempts!
btw..ill be happy with a website for ideas too!
thanks! (link)
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You could get your mom earrings or a neclace, and you could get your dad socks, a tie, or some cufflings.
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I dont know what i did to my knees but they feel weak. i cant stand well or bend my legs. They need to be straight. my right knee hurts BAD, and my left kind of hurts.
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Go to your doctor and see whats going on if this keeps happening.
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OK this is really ticking me off. I stopped my period the 27th and i JUST got it back today, which is the 8th..im getting really ticked because my periods NEVER regular its always early but this is the EARLIEST. I'm getting really frustrated because my periods getting in the way of plans and i dont know its just SO ANNOYING! what can I do about it??
X0X0X*STACiA* (link)
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nothing sadly.
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how do i make my tummy flatter and get skinnier thighs? please help. what can i do? (link)
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Crunches and mountain climbers.
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How do you stop being vain? (link)
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Smile and try not to say things you wouldn't want to hear yourself, nomatter how much you want to.
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I haven't started my period, but wanna ask 2 questions for when it comes:
1) Do you bleed all the time or is it like discharge, and comes out everyonce and a while.
2) It says you supposed to stay very clean when you have it. Itake baths cause my shower doesn't work. When I take a bath would thewater get all blooding during my period.
If you have any other info about it;;please tell me =) I'll ate 5 for good answers (link)
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Blood slows down in water, but I wouldnt take a bath unless I was wearing a tampon wich I am terrified of.
On your period you drip all the time. All day.
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I know that 13-year-olds are too young to fall in love. But does that mean you can't say "I love you" to your boyfriend? (link)
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You can say it, but girls will have more attatchment to that then guys will, and most likely at 13 i love you means a totally different thing than i love you when your like 25
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My parents have been telling me Santa Claus is real..I mean I am trying to believe but my parents have given off to MANY clues. I asked my mom the other day and she gave me the whole pep talk. Is Santa Claus real or is it his "helpers" who live w/ me? (link)
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Your parents just want to steal his milk and cookies. He isn't real. Set out your milk and cookies and stay awake all night. Your parents breath will smell like a bakery in the morning.I never believed in him.
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I have really curly hair so I straighten it twice a week just about. Is that really bad for my hair. Like i know that its bad to straighten your hair but how bad is that?? I have some straightening stuff thats my sisters that i use before i do it i guess it supposed to help... (link)
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Get a relaxer and use it sometimes, because it lasts long, but its not really good if you use it too often. It's better then irons.
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