about

My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

advice

I have a little crush on Adam Brody from the OC. Is it normal to get a crush on an actor as long as you don't go nutso (which I don't)?

Defenetlly. All girls do it. Completly normal. =)

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HEy well i was looking at other peoples xanga site and i found this one really cut back ground and i cant figure out how to make it my background on here. so just wondering if you new how
thanks so much
Sarah_xO

Do you have photobucket? Well if you do, put the picture in there and then copy the url code and then go to column settings and paste it in there. It's easy. If you don't have it, just sign up. It's free.

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On AIM, what does the world "meh" mean?

Me.

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this question may be a little weird, but, i just need to know as many possible showering ruitines as possible.
1)How often do you shower?
2)girls- when you shave, when do you? Because i find it kind of hard to shave with the water frmo the shower head running over my legs and the shaving cream being watered all off
3)when it comes to shampoo, conditioner, soap, shaving, etc, what do you do first..like in order?
haha thank you guys itll help!

Odd question lol.

1- I shower everyday. Sometimes twice.

2- I shave everyday. You should turn the water off or down so it doesn't spray all over. It'll help.

3- First, I shave. Then body wash. Shampoo, then conditioner.

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I masterbate alot how can i chill out on doin it cause i do it alot

Keep yourself busy and just do other things. There isn't really anything wrong with doing it a lot, but still. Just keep yourself busy & don't think about sex as much.

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Okay, ummm. I am 16 and my boyfriend of 5 months broke up with me in july. i was very heartbroken because i loved him very much. well i thought i did. people keep telling me it wasn't love, but i still think it was. my first question is is it possible to fall in love at the age of 15 with someone you only know well in the last 5 months? because people told me it was impossible but i think they are wrong.

my other question: I miss my ex very much and I really want to be with him again. The only problem is he has a girlfriend now. I have heard rumors that they wont last long. I want him to know that I still like him and want him back. How do I go about doing this in a way that may make me seem not desperate? should I wait until they break up or confess my love to him while he still has the other girl in hopes that he will break up with her for me?

oh yeah the reason he broke up with me was because he was going to be really busy and he didnt want me to have to wait around for him while he was busy and vice versa.

Oh yes, it is possible. I can say I've expirienced it and trust me, we're not dumb and we know if we love and care for someone.

You're in the same situation as me. You will have feelings for your ex for a while, and that just shows how much you love him. Rumors are rumors, but no one actually knows how long they will last. Telling him how you feel is up to you. I think that you should tell him when they break up because it would be really mean if he just broke up with her for you again. He might still have feelings for you too, but he might think you are being jelous and want to break them up. Happened to me in a way. You should defenetlly tell him how you feel. Whenever you feel like the time is right, tell him. I hope everything works out with you and him in the future!!!! Best of luck.

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Hi, I have this friend, lets call her Taylor. Well, Taylor is really annoying. Taylor got really mad. I don't really know why though. Well, I try to cheer people up when the get mad at me telling jokes, buying them junk, ect. She even got mad at me for trying to make her happy!!!! Well we have had many fights. I don't really like Taylor that much anymore. I am trying to break away from he but whenever I try she pulls me in closer. I am getting tired of this. It is like she is living off me. Also she has zero respect for anybody, her mom, me, rules, friends, even little chilren. I don't know what to do anymore. I think my PMS is getting to me. I don't really know.

- Breaking Away

Have you ever just talked to her and asked her if something was bothering her? Something at home, maybe her friends. You never know the reason she is acting this way. I think it was really nice of you to try and cheer her up but she shouldn't of pushed you away and she shouldn't of acted really bratty. If you don't want to be her friend, just don't be. No one deserves to be treated like she treats people. She can't make you be nice to her and be friends with her. Tell her that you don't want anything to do with her until she starts acting nicer and has more respect for people. It might sound mean, but she needs to hear it.

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okayy so me and this guy andrew have been dating for about 3 months and we've done a lot and have gotten really into eachother.. so i thought but it was all summer and once we got back to school he stopped calling and stopped comming over and to me that isn't hard to come over we only live 2 houses down! so in school my friend jack started likin me and i sort of starting like him a little bit to but i still had a lot of feelings for andy. Now tomorrow in school jack is asking me out so i've heard but i don't want to turn him down again cause it would be like the 20th time i have turned him down. But i still really like andy, however, i don't think andy really likes me anymore but it's really hard to get over him. So i need help.. should i go out wiht jack? or should i try and stay with andy?.. and im sorry i know its confusing

Before you make any decisions you need to talk to Andy first. To tell you the truth, those are signs that something is up. He eather likes you as a friend right now or he heard something or rumors. Ask him what's going on. You really don't need to be going out with someone who will treat you like that and just stop calling you. That's really low. Tell him if he is going to keep acting like that, that you guys should just try being friends. Now, if you like this other guy Jack then yes you should go out with him. He likes you and you like him so maybe you should give him a chance. He could really be worth it. If things don't work out and you still have feelings for Andy, you never know what might happen.

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did you ever read little women? how does beth die (if she does)

please & thanks =D

No I haven't. I'm sorry. Is it a good book though? If so, I'll read it next.

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my boyfriend really wants to have sex...i think i love him and i really want to too. i am just so nervous...she i wait?or should i just go for it?protection? andy advice...?¿

" I think I love him ". From saying that, you aren't sure and you don't love him. Who cares what your boyfriend really wants. I know you care about him, but think about yourself first. You aren't ready. You're nervous and you aren't sure what you want. By the way, how old are you? I think you should wait until you are 100% ready and no doubt about it. You should always use proteciton. For right now, you should wait. Don't just do it because he really wants to.

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I was wanted to know if girl like guys that are kind, nice, and polity. anserw and i give high rating.

Of course. No girl likes a guy thats a jerk and treats them like dirt. Girls love when guys are nice to them, call them, treat them good.

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OMG! SHE GETS HER BACKGROUND FROM XANGA LAYOUTS! XANGA XANGA XANGA!

ohmygod, sorry ♥ i just had to get that out of my system. you should like put it huge in your info section or somethingg .. haha =P

Haha, thanks! I get them all the time and it's getting pretty annoying. They should read the previous questions. I can't put it in huge font because the html doesn't show up. =(

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what eyeshadow colors would look good on me? my skin is light tan. i have dark brown eyes. my hair is currently..black. people told me greens and purples but i dont know.. i like other colors >.

Any color would look great. Greens,browns,golds,plums,dark blues and grays will look really good. My eyes are brown and my hair is brown and those colors look the best.

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kk well this is like theee lamest question in the world.. but here it goes
how do you dance? like i mean grind.. when i try i look like such a stupid idiot and it's so embarassing
i rate 5's for good long answers thankx so much

Dancing is just moving your body and following the beat. Move your head and then your body. There is no way on how to dance. You can try watching music videos and look at some of their moves. Everyone thinks that they look like a dummy when they dance. It's not true. Just have fun with it.

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Does anyone know any really funny songs i can download on my ipod? thanx i rate high for anyhting.

Try Hollaback Boy. It's really funny!

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Alright so i have a boyfriend we`ve been goin out for like... 3 weeks ...well 3 days after we went out he kissed another girl on the cheek , see but thats what bosnien's do i guess imean it aint like he made out with her so i forgave him .. because he swears hes always loved me and he wouldnt do anything to hurt me.. well the other day .. i broke up with him because someone told me he cheated on me .. soo i broke up with him and then we got back together then just yesterday he came to see me and he broke up with me because supposively one of my best friends told him that i told her i didnt need a boyfriend i just needed one to say i had one and to Play with his head.. and then i started cryin in front of him..and we got back together.. so do you think he is worth my time or should i say goodbye? please help - thank you ...


p.s i dont know how this works..

p.s.a and im 15 and a female? ..hehe

Look, you should never listen to what other people say. Especilly if it's one of those things "I heard" or "She said" things. I'm not saying that it's wrong that you broke up with him the first time, but you really should of talked to him about it and listened to his side of the story first. I don't think he would cheat on you though. I mean, kissing a girl on the cheek isn't neciserally cheating, but it's really no big deal. If you really like him, and he likes you, don't break up with him or say good bye because you will regret it. You need to talk to him and explain to him everything that has been going on. I know you probablly didn't mean to break up with him or anything, but I bet you were worried because you care about him. I think if you gave him the chance he might actually be worth your time. Talk to him and tell him that you shouldn't listen to other peoples opinions. Don't let them get in your relationship and tell you "Oh my god! He's cheating on you!" Those things aren't true unless you have proof.

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you said hey in my inbox so im saying hey back

hey

My as in who? But hey anyways.

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Heyy, This is a REALLY weird question. but I was wondering if there are brown contacts that make your eyes brown (artificially)I really want brown eyes! mine r greenish blue and I hate it! do you know? If so tell me where to get them, and if they have them! Thanks so much! lol sry bout the weird question thankssss! i rate 5 , and by the way you give AWESOME advice! xox Kayla

Yes they do have brown contacts. They have any color. Purple, blue, green whatever. I think you have to wear contacts to get them. Not just because you want to change your eye color. I have brown eyes and I wish I had blue or green!! You're lucky. Brown is so common lol. Anyways, you should talk to an eye doctor or go to Walgreens and find them. & thanks!!!

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how do you put a link up on your aim profile to this?

Huh? Do you want to put your advice column link in your profile? Just copy the url. Get back to me about this because your question didn't make sence.

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is it possible for a sixteen or fifteen yearold to like a thirteen yearold girl?

Yes it is possible. Anything is.

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