The name is Kayla.
I'm totally cool with giving anyone advice. It's what I love to do. So ask away.
Hm. I'm 16. Brownish - red hair .. green/blue eyes .. 5 ft.
I love life. I've experienced many things in it.
Live it to the fullest, but never regret .. you can never take back anything you've done.
E-mail: KaylaH1303@yahoo.com
Gender: Female
Location: Georgia
Occupation: School
Age: 16
Member Since: October 5, 2004
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hi my names jessica im 12 yrs old and i really want to find the perfect guy for me but its not happening does any one know what i can do to find the one?
p.s if u have anymore ideas i m me at lilhottie921012 (link)
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alright well your only 12 yrs old .. you have plenty of time to find the perfect guy. i mean im 15 yrs old and im still looking. i really wanted to have a high school sweetheart but i doubt thats gonna happen. just have fun with everyone date around and eventually you will find the right guy. all you can really do is be yourself and he will come to you. hope i helped! -kayla
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alrite..well my problem started a while ago. so let me start at the beginning.. i used to be able to do anything in front of anyone and be okay with it..i love being stupid! it's fun.. i never used to get embarrassed.. but lately i have been getting embarrassed about EVERYTHING!! if someone asks me for a hug, i get embarrassed..if i feel like i'm being judged (which is all the time) i get embarrassed.. and sometimes even when i don't feel embarrassed my face turns red.. and i can tell b/c i feel my face getting hot.. which makes me think about it, and then i end up getting embarrassed b/c my face turned red (for no reason)and then it gets even more red, and i hate it..i'm so afraid to even talk to people sometimes b/c i'm afraid they will say something or i'll mess up and get embarrassed and then they'll laugh at me..i'm never comfortable around people anymore, espcially meeting new people! and idk what to do!!!!!!! help me pleeeeeeease! (i also never feel good enough, and i think i'm fat and ugly..but i only weigh 107 lbs and people tell me i'm gorgeous/hott/pretty/beautiful all the time) but yeah i just need help on how not to care what people think about me..sorry this is sooo long!! (link)
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ok well personally i think that you are yourself and you cant change who you are. so just try not to get embarrassed bc if they were your friends they wouldnt be mean or make fun of you adn even if they do im sure they are just playing around. but i think its just something your going through right now and it will pass over. just try to have lots of self confidence and be yourself again. i hope i helped! -kayla
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ok so love this guy soo much! and he's one of my really good friends. i wanna tell him i like him more then a friend//but i dont know if i should cuz i dont know if he likes me back as more than a friend and i dont want to create something akward between us! please help me. should i tell him i like him or not??? (link)
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well just tell him that you like him and see what he says and if he doesnt like you then just act like nothing happened and act like you did before. i hope i helped! -kayla
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I have a major crush on this guy at my school. I've known him for awhile because i cheered for his football team for 3 years. I like him a lot but.. he likes my other friend. She's my, well one of, my best friends, and she's falling for him to. Should I still like him or like what should I do? (link)
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man that really sucks. well i dont think that you can change who you like you can only move on .. just maybe see where the guy and your best friend end up and if they do go out then try to be happy for them dont act like your mad bc it will make the guy not like you anymore. then when they stop liking eachother ... go for him and see what he does. hope i helped! -kayla
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So I am going out with this guy and my family doesn't know about it because they dont like him. I've mentioned this in my other questions. Well it seems like we are in an ongoing competition to make the other one jealous and its getting on my nerves! im not trying to make him jealous but he really doesnt like one of my close guy friends! He says I talk about him all the time and i know for a fact that i don't! and even if i did hes just my friend! So he deals with this buy talking about these different girls he's been with! Well i guess i just don't know what to do about it! Can you help me out? (link)
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just tell him that you only want him as a bf not your friend and you dont even like your friend as more than that. then tell him you dont like it that he talks about girls that hes dated and done stuff with bc you dont even try to make him jealous and its getting annoying. i hope i helped! -kayla
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how do u make out?? i know w. ur lips but like do always use tounge r like kiss each others lips??idk! i have a b/f who tryed to make a move on me but i like turned my head its like cum on kiss me but when he goes to do it im like really scared..i guess its b/c idk how (link)
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alright well when you make out you dont just kiss eachother on the lips you have to use your tounge too. so just when he goes to kiss you kiss him back and when he goes to use his tongue you know it and you just do the same thing back. hope i helped! itll get better! -kayla
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okay i have a big problem! i was all excited because i just got my cartlidge done! but i came home and told my best friend! and she asked what ear i got done and i told her my right one! and she said that if a girl gets just her right cartlidge done...that means shes a lesbian?! omg i'm all upset now! is that realli what rumors say?! because i'm definitly NOT one!
i'll rate you a 5! (link)
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thats bullshit that only has to do with guys when they get their ears pierced bc some ppl only think its right when girls get it done. dont listen to her i have plenty of friends that have their cartlidge pierced on their right and friends that have it on the left like i do but it doesnt mean anything. dont get paranoid ... your supposed to get it pierced on the ear that you dont sleep on so it doesnt hurt. hope i helped! -kayla
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Okay well i told one of my ex bf that i loved him like in the end of the converstion and hung up before he said anything now today when we were chattig i told him that my brothers were making fun of him and he got all tough boy like and he never acts that way ad what not.he began cussing and he know that i hate when he cusses.so i told him ill stop talking to him and then he was like okay bye.so now we arn't talking and it sucks. i miss him and he seems like he doesnt even care about me should i just let it go i dunno!help (link)
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i think he was just overwhelmed by when you told him you loved him adn he didnt know what to do or say or how to handle it bc maybe he didnt exactly feel the same way. so maybe you should just try talking to him about it or just forget the whole thing and act like nothing happened. i hope i helped! -kayla
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i have my own advice page, and i give others my advice. but sometimes we need some advice too!
well, i like this guy that i met from my camp...(he's my ex) lets just call him.....Z...well, z and i loved each other A LOT. and we dated for a long time, and then we broke up because of long distance...and then i still like him now...but he likes another girl from my camp.....shes a really good friend of mine, and she knows how much i still like him, and thats why theyre not going out yet.... i really want to get back together with him, but i dont know what i should do. my other friend from camp tells me that he still likes me, but im not sure..WHAT SHOULD I DO? (link)
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wow to be honest i think you should just move on and like someone else bc if it didnt work out the first time bc of long distance then im sure it wont work out the second time. long distance relationships are hard to keep up with and you dont get to see them a lot. just stay single for a while and look for another awesome guy like your ex. good luck! hope i helped! -kayla
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I'm 15 years old and me and my ex boyfriend dated for a long time (more that 7 months) He knows everything about me and I know everything about him! NOw he is going through a lot of hard times and is beggingin to get very depressed and he treats me like shit! I mean we are still best friends but everytime I try to help him he just kills me with rude comments and brings stuff from the past (I wasn't to great of a person before but now I'm a very good christian and a wonderfull person) -> Not in a concieted way! But anyways all I want to know is should I keep helping him or just let him do his own thing because at bibble study they were talking about how sometimes you should put yourself before others! and I think this might be one of those times!Please help! **By the way you give great advcie** Keep it up! (link)
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i dont think your conceited lol so dont think that but umm i think that you should let him know that hes treating him like shit. be like dude im trying to help you out here adn i dont like it when you treat me like shit and if your gonna keep doing that then maybe i should just forget helping you. i mean i know yall love eachother and all but its not right for him to do that to you when your trying to help. oh by the way im glad your a very good christian now thats always a good thing ... i am too and im 15. hey dude IM me sometime if you just want to ask for regular advice or talk lol you seem pretty cool. and thanks i love giving advice. -kayla
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Okay, well me and my boyfriend are pretty close. His friends are my friends and my friends are his. So we all go places and hang out together all the time. Well, it kind of seems like whenever we are together, me and him cant get away from each other! I mean dont get me wrong thats not a bad thing, but I'm starting to think that my friends are thinking that I need to stop being around him so much, and I dont have time for them. I love my friends, and i love my bf, but how can I balance all of those relationships? When me n him are together sometimes we get all kissy and we are hugging and everything and sometimes it feels weird becuase my friends tell me its so cute, but I think they are annoyed. What can i do?
I Will Rate HigH! ThAnKs!
sIgnEd,
*cOnfUsEd* (link)
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ok well maybe instead of kissing all the time in front of your friends and stuff then just hold his hand or dont even touch eachother just walk with eachother and stuff i mean its good to do stuff like hugging eachother in all but if you think your friends are getting mad then just do stuff like that and i dont mean the whole time yall are together just short periods of time. i hope i helped! tell me if i did! -kayla
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ok well theres this new girl in our school and me and my best friend have known her sence we were in third grade and now we're in 7th and like shes a really big flirt and shes really annoying and like everyone talks about her and pretends to like her..and she flirts with everyone! like my boyfriend plays football..and everyday he has practice right after school cept on Fridays and like she'll walk home with him and shes been over his house and stuff and I'm afraid she is like gonna try to do something with him..like I've talked to her about it and stuff and I trust my boyfriend..(-she has a boyfriend to and I dont think he would like her over my boyfriends house-)am I just paronode or should I worry about it..please help! (link)
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well i think you do have a reason to be paranoid bc i probably would be too but trust your bf ... you dont have to trust her bc she is who she is but if your bf didnt like you and wanted to do stuff with other girls then he wouldnt be with you. so talk to him about all of that and see what happens in the end. try to think positive ... he is yours ... not hers. i hope i helped! -kayla
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I have a boyfriend who I adore, I'm only 13 so I don't wanna have sex or anything but what are some good intimate things that we can do? We already put our arms round each other, kiss, hug and he puts his hand on my ass but it's getting boring, any ideas? (link)
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ok wow maybe dont go as far as some of those girls did bc idk just wait til high school or something you dont wnat a bad rep before then its no good. maybe just give him a hickey or something those are always fun or he could give you one or yall could lick eachothers ears maybe you could feel him or something but no hand jobs of giving him head just wait for that.hope i helped! -kayla
ps. let me know what happens if you wanna
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ok. There's this guy I like let's put his name "Andy". And I really really like Andy. And my friend Daniella told Andy that I like him. So now Andy knows I like him. And now my whole church knows I like him. But the other day when Andy, Daniella, Danny, Luke, and I were hanging out, I told them I was over my crush on Andy. Then Andy goes, "Why the hell do girls say they're over a crush on one guy and onto to another crush? Is it to make their old crush jealous?" I got upset, slapped him, and ran into the church bathroom. Does he like me or is he just an a$$hole? Please answer. I'm a 13 year old girl and he's (Andy)a 18 year old boy (I dunno if that makes a difference.) I rate good! Signed- SaD gIrL (link)
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ok well no offense but i dont he really does if he did he wouldnt be suck a hole in the ass and plus hes 18 it is WAY illegal for him to even consider dating you. but that was good of you to slap him ... just move on to another guy like you said you were anyway haha and find one your age .. then bring him to church when "andy" is there and see what happens lol. good luck and i hope i helped! -kayla
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Well i broke up with tthe guy i have been going out with and now he is making my life miserable! he is spreading rumnors about me and telling my secrets to everyoine and its pissing me off!!!! how do i get him to stop??? (link)
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first off you should confront him about it but if that doesnt work then be a bitch back adn start shit about him like tell his little secrets to someone that you know will tell everyone and he will get way pissed off! i hope i helped! -kayla
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I was great friends with a group of people last year. We did everything together and we were the best of friends. This year, I got friendly with some new people and I started dating one of them. I love him more than the world and I have so much fun with this new group of people. The thing is, my old friends don't see me anymore and we don't hang out as much. Now my best friend of all is really upset with me and we aren't chatting at all. I don't know what to do, I love my boyfriend and I wanna spend every breathing minute with him and our friends but I'm leaving my old friends behind. (link)
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why dont you try including all your friends together and letting your old friends get to know you new friends and vice versa. then yall will all be friends and can all hang out! i hope i helped! -kayla
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ok well i hav known this guy chris for a while now and weve been friends with benefits for like a realllllly long time now...weve gone through alot.....and we finally made time to see eachother on a regular basis (we go to diff skools) and he asked me out sept 25....i seriously think im love...i know we havent been goin out for very long, but weve acted like it for so long...he is everything i WANT! and well i have a few probs....1..he smokes weed...he just started...last time i went to his house...he was high and he told me he loved me...i didnt know if he ment it...so i didnt say nething back..and i kinda changed the subj....well wat shuld i do bout that? and my other 1s are....he doesnt like to talk for a while like on the fone...he never has....i mean hell call me EVERYDAY which is gr8 but we only talk for like 2 mins....i try to keep him on the fone but he kinda is just like o well ill call u tomrrow n stuff like that....and we make plans in like 2 mins! its nice but i wanna talk longer but idk how to tell him this i dont wanna make him feel like he HAS to talk to me for 20mins or watever....ok n my other one...i think i love him....ive NEVER felt this way bout ne 1..i want to tell him i love him...but im scared.....wat shuld i do...plz help i just dont now....im scared of rejection...i have a REALLY hard time trusting guys bc theyve ALL screwd me over or hav only gone out with me for bets or watever....so when he doesnt call i think he hates me n i get really sad...idk i just need help wat do u guyz think of this?? =\ (link)
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ok well maybe he just isnt one of those guys that likes to talk on the phone adn he calls you bc he knows it makes you happy. try to have more confidence its always good. thats what everyone tells me. and with that whole love thing ask him how he feels about you and see what he says and when you are on teh phone and hes about to leave say i love you babe and see what he says back. with that smoking thing i dont like it too much when guys do it either but it doesnt bother me a whole lot just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. good luck with that! tell me how it goes! -kayla
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My friend katie and lisa and this other girl carly, were waiting after practice for their rides and carly had Katies cell phone and she threw it on lisa to get her to pay attention. Since Lisa wasn't paying attention, she didn't catch it, so it bounced off her stomach and hit the ground and it kinda broke, some pieces came off and the front is all messed up. Carly acted liek it was nothing, and didn't really apologize. My questions are:
1. Do you think Carly should pay a small price to get it fixed or for consulation? Or have her apologize.
2. If so, how should katie approach her and ask for either money or an apology?
Thanks (link)
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well what the hell was she thinking? she should totally pay and apologize! that wasnt her phone and she did it and still didnt apologize. katie needs to tell her that shes really mad and her phone is broken and she think she should pay and that shed really like an apology bc its not working very well or something ... if shes too shy then have her friend tell carly how mad she is! and make it seem really bad. that really sucks! tell her i said sorry about that! i hope i helped! -kayla
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ok my friend really liked this one kid Jordan but hers black and shes white..and he asked her out and she liked him but she said no? she tells me that its because they're to close of friends but me and her are so close that I can tell when shes lying and it seemed like she was lying..so I think that she turned him down because shes black and because supposly people would make fun of her but they wouldn't..I dunno what to do becuase Jordan told me to talk to her but I dunno what to say..and if I believe her? please help! (link)
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well i think that if she does like him then thats all that matters ... it shouldnt matter what other ppl think and if she cares that much then she obviously didnt like him that much ... talk to her about it and tell her to be str8 up with you bc you know when shes lying. GOOD LUCK! i hope i helped! -kayla
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ok me and my boyfriend haven't made out yet and everyone is telling me to make the first move! lol how do you really make it lmao?! I never did before and I don't wanna but I'm gonna! any suggestions? please I need help! lol thank you sooo much!!! (link)
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well i know its really hard and honestly i HATE making the first move bc thats the guys job but hes probably scared so whenever yall are talking adn your close to him like you would want him to kiss you then ... kiss him ... thats probably what hes waiting for too and hes just too shy. GOOD LUCK! i hope i helped! -kayla
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