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boyfriend probs
ok well i hav known this guy chris for a while now and weve been friends with benefits for like a realllllly long time now...weve gone through alot.....and we finally made time to see eachother on a regular basis (we go to diff skools) and he asked me out sept 25....i seriously think im love...i know we havent been goin out for very long, but weve acted like it for so long...he is everything i WANT! and well i have a few probs....1..he smokes weed...he just started...last time i went to his house...he was high and he told me he loved me...i didnt know if he ment it...so i didnt say nething back..and i kinda changed the subj....well wat shuld i do bout that? and my other 1s are....he doesnt like to talk for a while like on the fone...he never has....i mean hell call me EVERYDAY which is gr8 but we only talk for like 2 mins....i try to keep him on the fone but he kinda is just like o well ill call u tomrrow n stuff like that....and we make plans in like 2 mins! its nice but i wanna talk longer but idk how to tell him this i dont wanna make him feel like he HAS to talk to me for 20mins or watever....ok n my other one...i think i love him....ive NEVER felt this way bout ne 1..i want to tell him i love him...but im scared.....wat shuld i do...plz help i just dont now....im scared of rejection...i have a REALLY hard time trusting guys bc theyve ALL screwd me over or hav only gone out with me for bets or watever....so when he doesnt call i think he hates me n i get really sad...idk i just need help wat do u guyz think of this?? =\
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well since you really love him the you should help him with his addiction to weed or whatever . make him stop! lol and iits alright u dun need to talk to him ont eh hpone for 20 min. if you see him a lot thats all taht really matters. atleast you guys keep in touch.the onyl thing wrong with this is taht he smokes weed. hun my advise is to make him stop or leave him. srry iif i was to harsh . lol
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ive gone through that.Im not saying you should propose marriage or anything but tell him how you feel about him. If he is everything u WANT let him know that in a suttle way. Too much emotion scares some guys. The phone thing.....mention that you think you two should talk on the phone more. Most guys dont like the phone cuz well think about it the phone talk thing is kinda known for girls to do.
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ok well maybe he just isnt one of those guys that likes to talk on the phone adn he calls you bc he knows it makes you happy. try to have more confidence its always good. thats what everyone tells me. and with that whole love thing ask him how he feels about you and see what he says and when you are on teh phone and hes about to leave say i love you babe and see what he says back. with that smoking thing i dont like it too much when guys do it either but it doesnt bother me a whole lot just talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. good luck with that! tell me how it goes! -kayla
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