I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, and we have had our first fight. I had asked him to come to a friend's party with me, which he refused to do, because he didn't want to. It's been 5 days and I have not heard from him. Should I contact him or wait for him to contact me? What should I do?
Call him. Talk to him about it. Its not your fault that he didnt want to go so unless you bugged him about going you dont have anything to apologise for. DO NOT under any circumstances lower yourself into apologising to a guy for something you dont need to. You teach people how to treat you and if you just apologise willy-nilly he will think you will apologise just to end a fight.
Hope i help and not cause more trouble :-)
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This weekend I am going to a couple parties and am going to be drunk at all of them. I'm debating over whether or not I should hook up with some people. I would like to, but I don't want to worry about the "aftermath". It's with mostly people I don't know, and I'm not going to have sex.
Should I do it or not? What in your opinion are the consequences?
If i could go back in time i'd hook up more and worry about the concequences less. Thats about the extent of my advice because i dont want to tell you to go and make out with every guy you see.. just dont limit yourself, is probably what im saying.
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whats circumstantial evidence?
All evidence except eyewitness testimony. One example is physical evidence, such as fingerprints, from which an inference can be drawn
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Okay I am going to say my biggest fear....I am afraid of death. I'm scared of dieing. What can I do to stop thinking about it??
Death is scary for everyone, some moreso than others. Yeah it is true that we could die tomorrow, but we could also live till we are 100. No one knows when they're going to die and no one can tell you to stop being afraid. It is ok to be afraid of what you dont know. Go and see a psychic or get your tarrot cards read. It might give you some peace of mind.
I hoped i helped, and didnt make it worse..
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how come i start to yawn when i sing
Someone once told me that yawning is because you're short of breath. Try to breathe deeply and hypothetically, you shouldnt yawn as much.
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I am going out with this girl but i dont know if she really likes me. we have been goin out since easter but she still avoids me alot and it makes me mad. i dont know what to do or how to confront her about it bcuz i dont talk to ppl.
Hi there. If she's ignoring you, she's either too shy or she really doesnt like you. I'd say talk to her. If she admits that she doenst like you, then horay for you, go find someone better. There REALLY ARE plenty of fish in the sea. Make it your life's mission not to get stuck with someone who doesnt care for you the same as you care for them.
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I saw this movie a really long time ago and I can't remember the name of it but I really want to see it again. Maybe someone will know the name. Heres what i remember of it.
It starts out my showing this girl being murdered by this other girl
than it goes to 2 years earlier
the girl that was murdered, Ill call her Lisa ,somehow became friends with this popular girl who had a boyfriend. Her boyfriend became attracted to lisa and raped in her this barn.
The popular girl saw and thought they were having sex so she hated lisa and did horrible things to her. Like try to kill her. They all went against lisa. And there was one scene were they were at the movies and they shoved her and beat her up pretty badly.
The day she was murdered,she was about to go live with her father because of everything that happened. the popular girl and her friends prank phone call her mom and say she needs to come into work , so she does. They break in and murder lisa.
Im sorry if this is confusing and doesnt make sense, but thanks in advance if you can help me! Or if there are any like search websites for movies.
I googled sone key words and came up with this website.. http://www.pandys.org/escapinghades/triggeringmedia.html
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ok so you know those moving pictures people have on their myspaces. like cars going by or a book turning pages. you know?? well onj photobucket what do you type in to get that.
also is there a website for that??
thanx(:
OMG ok, i dont know but when you know can you PRETTY PLEASE tell me??!!
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k well i might hook up with this guy at the movies, and like wed make out. and i dont know how because i never have.
can anyone tell me like how to make out, like could i pratice on a pillow or something.
that sounds lame, but like if i cant he might not like me.
Wow, that answer before me pretty much sums it up. I'd just have said, there isnt really an instruction manual on making out. You just launch yourself into it. I didnt have my first kiss till i was 15 and it wasnt as big a deal as i thought it was. He wont not like you if you aren't a great kisser. Just tell him he'l have to help you perfect your style, so lots and lots of kissing ahead for the two of you...
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I'm 13.
Me and my bf have been going out for 2 months and total on and off for a year and we havent kissed.
He is a shy guy and the only things he does is put his arm around mea nd hug me everyday. I'm having my 2 best guys friends to talk to him about what he should do to his girlfriend (me) and I dont know if thts bad. But I'm crazy abt him but shoudl i wait for him or just kiss him. PLEASE HELP ME LOTSSSSSSSSSSSSS.
When you see him next, just say "i'm going to kiss you" and do it. If you just plant one on him he wont have time to react and the shock may be too much for him.
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ok last night i wore a pad
and i got a little blood on my underwear
and i have ben throwing a lot of underwear out
because they are stained too much
how can i try to clean them
ok, firstly, i hate it when people say to use chemicals to get blood out. COLD WATER is best. If its summer, have a cold shower and take your nickers in there with you. Don't waste your time using chemicals. Its silly.
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How can I get tan and not get burnt?
Fake tan!! You can buy it in a tube, in a foam, in a spray.. Its fantastic!
But you dont need to be tanned to be beautiful. Just remember that.
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me-16/f him-17/ okay so here's the thing, there's this guy i've liked for quite some time, he has a really good relationship going, they're perfect for eachother so i try really hard not to flirt with him. but he does just the opposite, he's always flirting with me (he's a really big flirt, his girlfriend doesn't mind) and when we hang out outside of school he's always pushing or rubbing me in some way that really REALLY turns me on... and he bites me alot too... which i think is just soooo hot!!! well anyway, my question is, do you think he knows how much all of this turns me on? and also what can i do to not be turned on... because i really don't want to mess up his reationship. and we're kind of drinking buddies and i get even more sesitive and horney when i drink... and the will power i have when i'm drunk isn't soo great... thank you sooo much in advance!!!
You are so much like me and a guy i know its not even funny. You need to try and stay away from him. If he asks you why, tell him the truth. There isn't much you can do to be unaffected by a guy that turns you on, so the only good thing to do is to keep away from him till it stops. This isn't uncommon so you are not alone.
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My mom gets drunk at least twice a week, sometimes up to 4 times a week. Today she is drunk. Tomorrow is my 17th birthday, so I got the mail to see if I received anything, and I did, but I hate opening presents early.
I went to the bathroom and when I came out, the envelopes and package had been opened by my mom and she asked if I wanted to open them tonight.
I don't know what to do..I really don't like her right now. Opening my gifts for my birthday is ruined because of her. I've told my mom's parents and her sister about her getting drunk, and they've all talked to her. She won't stop. She says she's getting help every week..it isn't helping.
What do I do about her and my birthday? :(
This is a tricky one. My mother was very similar to yours, but i told her that her getting drunk was hurting me and that i was ashamed of her. Using psycological comments may help make her see how she's affecting you. Good luck :]
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okay so i've been going out with my boyfriend for 11 months and i have a problem. i don't talk to his parents that much, like i say hi, how are you? but not usually a conversation. it's not because i'm ignoring them it's just i don't know how to start a conversation with them. i almost feel awkward talking to them. if anyone can help i would appreciate it! thanks
Firstly it depends on your age. When i was 16 i met my boyfriend and i was exactly like you to the point where they started to dislike me. To break the ice we ended up having a bbq and a couple of (naughty underage) drinks and really loosened up. If you know what they do for a living ask about that. Ask how their day was, ask about what your boyfriend was like when he was younger, that sort of thing. Stay away from things that they could get passionate about or it might start something big.
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this must be the worst problem I have. I'm extremely sensitive. Is there any ways to not cry? I try to take deep breaths and calm down but it doesn't work.
Like I haven't went shopping for a year and my dad said he'd take me today but he changed my mind. big deal. But I kinda teared up and had to make an excuse to stay upstairs for the rest of the day or else he'd think I'm mad at him or something and maybe it'll hurt his feelings.
The worst thing is that when I start I can't stop and then it gets really ugly with the hicupping and stuff.
please help..
wow that sux. Maybe you're just a really sensitive person. I used to cry easily too until i went on anti-depressants. I'd talk to your parents about it if i were you. You could also talk to a doctor about it too.
i hope i helped.
xoxo katie
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what is the easiest time for a girl to get pregnant?
The best time to get pregnant is right in the middle of your cycle. Right in between when your period stops and when it starts. Its called ovulation :-)
xxoo katie
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i think i have a problem or something.
its like no matter what i eat, im always hungry ! and i can never stop eating. i will just eat so much that my stomach starts to hurt & i feel like im going to throw up.
its been like this for a few weeks now and i dont know what to do.
i dont want to gain any weight because its bathing suit season, but i just cant seem to stop eating. Like i will eat a meal, and then go snack.
so is there anyway for me to stop eating 24/7?
or what are some really filling foods?
thanks !
I have the same problem. I find that if i drink lots of water and drink as much as i pee i dont feel as hungry. You just need to learn to stop eating when you feel the food in your stomach.
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I had sex on the last day of my period (like i was still bleeding lightly but we both wanted to anyway), he came inside of me figuring i couldn't get pregnant since it was my last day. true?
Yes you can get pregnant AT ANY time of the month. Even at the beginning, middle AND end of your period. My advice to you is to go on the pill AND use condoms. Male sperm is more potent in precum so the withdrawl method is just stupid.
It may be fun in the moment but just remember one night of fun can lead to a whole lifetime of responsibility.
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Hello...
I have a teen daugter she is 13 and she goes to the mall all the time which I don't mind.But she always brings home clothes and says their her friends or something like that and I found 1 price tag in her room...she has a history of shoplifting but do you think shes at it again ?
Signed,
Questioned
I was doing the same things when i was that age and used the same excuse. I would almost guarantee that she is shoplifting. It is so hard to get out of, because it is extremely addictive. She needs to get caught. I have no idea how you can achieve this but once she gets caught it might snap her right out of it.
xoxoxo katie
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