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First fight with boyfriend
I have been with my boyfriend for 8 months now, and we have had our first fight. I had asked him to come to a friend's party with me, which he refused to do, because he didn't want to. It's been 5 days and I have not heard from him. Should I contact him or wait for him to contact me? What should I do?
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I say you should be the bigger person and contact him as soon as possible. You've been dating for 8 months. It would be silly to throw all that away over a silly fight like that. Apologize to him for trying to make him come to the party and I'm sure he'll apologize for being so stubborn. The key to getting over fights is being able to talk it over and allow the other person to express their opinions.
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i would definetly go and contact him he is most likely waiting for your call.
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its totally normal to have fights with your boyfriends or the ones you love. and this is your first fight. (didnt read the advice below so sorry if im repeating) but i mean you should contact him becuase it might just end. text him and be like i miss you. or something. or i love you. or hey baby. havnt talked ot you in a while. with a sad face or something. show him that you still want to talk to him or that you miss him
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It's your first fight, who cares. You both are over reacting about it and yes, you should talk to him. Communication is a big deal in relationships so in order to make it work, you have to talk. If you both continue not talking to each other, your relationship most likely will go down hill. I don't think that he wants to admit that he was wrong and neather do you, but you shouldn't wait any longer. Make up and get over it. He'll be glad that you talked to him about it first. It'll show that you care about the relationship.
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I think you should wait a little longer. I have a hunch he cannot admit he was the one who was wrong easily. He knows that the reason you fought was over his refusal to attend the party. This is his problem and not yours. He's stubborn and likely cannot admit it.
He will eventually call you or talk to you at school about it. Like the previous poster said don't apologize for a single thing as this is his fault and childish behavior that caused this.
The other thing is if he doesn't contact you in a few days you're totally free and better off without him as your relationship was built on sand and not a rock. Think about it do you really want a boyfriend who takes a massive powder over an invite to attend someone's party and then doesn't contact you again?
Wait a few days and see if he approaches you or calls you. If he doesn't move on as you have just learned what kind of person he is and that things would not work in the future.
He will probably cool down though and approach you and hopefully admit he was wrong. Give it until Friday and then if he doesn't call you put the word out you're single again. If that doesn't trigger a reaction or an apology nothing else can.
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Well, talk to him at school and maybe he'll tell you what's up. Maybe he's grounded, try to get as much information from him as possible.
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talkk to him.
seriously.
but i mean it's the 1st fight you know.
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Call him. Talk to him about it. Its not your fault that he didnt want to go so unless you bugged him about going you dont have anything to apologise for. DO NOT under any circumstances lower yourself into apologising to a guy for something you dont need to. You teach people how to treat you and if you just apologise willy-nilly he will think you will apologise just to end a fight.
Hope i help and not cause more trouble :-)
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call him, if he didnt want to go, then it should of stoped there, you cant force anyone to go somewhere that they dont want to to go. maybe even say sorry. hope i helped<3
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