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is he trying to turn me on?
me-16/f him-17/ okay so here's the thing, there's this guy i've liked for quite some time, he has a really good relationship going, they're perfect for eachother so i try really hard not to flirt with him. but he does just the opposite, he's always flirting with me (he's a really big flirt, his girlfriend doesn't mind) and when we hang out outside of school he's always pushing or rubbing me in some way that really REALLY turns me on... and he bites me alot too... which i think is just soooo hot!!! well anyway, my question is, do you think he knows how much all of this turns me on? and also what can i do to not be turned on... because i really don't want to mess up his reationship. and we're kind of drinking buddies and i get even more sesitive and horney when i drink... and the will power i have when i'm drunk isn't soo great... thank you sooo much in advance!!!
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As soon as you said that he pushes and rubs you... he's trying to sleep with you, trust me i'm a guy i've tried these things myself. i bet you anything that he knows that this is truning you on and from my point of view it's doing the same thing to him. Somethings you can do to keep yourself from getting turned on is when he tries it again just get up and leave. About his relation you aren't messing it up he's doing a find job all by himself. all that i can say is that i think you need to find yourself a new drinking buddy because if he's doing this to his current gf then just imagine what he'll be doing to you if you two ever get together.
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If his relationship gets screwed up it would have nothing to do with you. If he wants to end it, he wants to end it. If he wants to do anything with you, it's his choice just as much as it is yours so it's not like it would be your fault in any way. That said, you shouldn't let him do those things to you anymore that are turning you on. I mean, it's one thing if he leaves his girlfriend for you or leaves and then you make a move. It's quite another if you encourage him now, while his relationship is going strong (as far as you know). By letting him do and say so much to you, you're telling him that it's okay, when it's not because of the way that it is making you feel. You could be and are encouraging him probably without even realizing it. What you need to do is tell him to stop. If he keeps bugging you about why or refuses to stop, tell him what's up. Just be totally honest. If you're honest, you can do no wrong. It wouldn't be encouraging him to be honest. It may encourage him, but that would be his own fault not yours. This is a tough situation to be in so I wish you lots of luck in getting through it. :)
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As much as you like him you need to tell him what he is doing is wrong. And if he doesn't stop stay away from him until he gets the message and most likely will stop.
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You are so much like me and a guy i know its not even funny. You need to try and stay away from him. If he asks you why, tell him the truth. There isn't much you can do to be unaffected by a guy that turns you on, so the only good thing to do is to keep away from him till it stops. This isn't uncommon so you are not alone.
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