|
Drinking + hooking up
This weekend I am going to a couple parties and am going to be drunk at all of them. I'm debating over whether or not I should hook up with some people. I would like to, but I don't want to worry about the "aftermath". It's with mostly people I don't know, and I'm not going to have sex.
Should I do it or not? What in your opinion are the consequences?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well if you make the decision not to hook up with anyone, then you should relate that to the aount you dirnk because hwen you drink, you probably wont think about your previous decisions, depending on how much you drink. If you want to, then go ahead. Its not really my place/business to tell you what to do because I dont know you or your situation. A few months ago, I wasn't drunk, but I hooked up with someone I didn't know and did something sexual that some people consider a little out there (not intercourse or oral) and everyone found out after he told and I got a lot of crap for weeks and it sucked. So whatever your decision, just think about and relate it to the amount your going to drink.
]
Since you don't mean you'll be going all the way, there should be very little consequences.
If you are referring to just making out with a few people, it's all in good fun, right? Make sure that since you are under the influence of alcohol that you will be in a safe enough place near people while having a bit of randy fun. Since you won't know these people, do NOT go to any secluded areas with them. If you are going to play around, don't get so intoxicated that all your good sense leaves you.
Also, remember that even if you don't have sex, you can still contract stds if you perform unprotected oral sex. Just in case the fun gets a little heavy, pack a flavoured condom just in case.
<3 foxy
]
personally, I would do it. not with more than 1 guy in a night, because my friend has done that and all the guys hate her and call her a slut. but don't set your goal to that, have fun and see where it takes you. because its not fun going to a party knowing someone wants to hook up with you, believe me. it also wouldn't be fun if the whole night you had your mind only on hooking up with a random guy, have fun, dance, drink, and I'm sure a guy will come to you.
]
If i could go back in time i'd hook up more and worry about the concequences less. Thats about the extent of my advice because i dont want to tell you to go and make out with every guy you see.. just dont limit yourself, is probably what im saying.
]
I'm not sure what you mean by hooking up (since your version of hooking up is probably different to the version here in the UK) but either way you'll need to be careful your not so drunk that the person you're hooking up takes advantage of it. Then there's making sure that the person your hooking up with knows what the score is i.e. you're not after a one nighter and you're just after some fun while at the party.
I think other than that the only problem you might have is people talking which isn't really anything you can do about. You might get people saying how you was all over one guy at one party and another guy at another party etc, etc, etc. I'm sure you're all too familiar with how people can talk because they have nothing better to do, hehe.
It's really up to you either way though but personally I'd say go out, drink (to a safe level obviously - even with me being older I still only drink to the point I am in total and full control unless I'm in a big group of people I can trust with my life) and just have fun. :D You don't need any hook ups to have fun but if you must then just be certain they also know what the score is otherwise you'll have them causing endless crap (you leading them on, them wanting more etc).
Have fun! :D
]
well i wouldn't do it just because i'm not like that.. the consequences are that you can be taken advantage of and possibly raped since you so proclaimed that you'd be drunk, or it could just go way too far without you realizing it.. also, you'd probably be labeled a slut.. plus, fooling around with people you don't know is very dangerous and just flat out a bad idea.. do what you think is right though.. but i would watch yourself and once you decide what you do and don't wanna do, tell a friend to stop you if you go farther than you intended to ♥ hope i helpedddd =)
]
More Questions: |