punkrockprincess's advice column

YES! I have to tell you something IMPORTANT too. I've been practicing how I'm going to say it, and to be honest, I'm kind of nervous. I'm scared of what you're going to say! I'm scared of your reaction. But if I don't talk to you about this, then we're just going to keep fighting and fighting over and over again. And I'd rather have you say something I don't want you to than to be in another dumb fight and not talk to you for week. I LOVE YOU! And I'm sorry for making it such a big deal but it really hurt me.

♥ ALWAYS,
Maria

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well lately my friend has totally been flirting with my boyfriend.She knows she does it but she just shrugs it off.I hate it!!like we will be walking in the halls together and she will come right between us and rather close to him i might add.i dont wanna ruin our friendship, but me and this guy really love each other.we've been together through thick and thin.Please help me and i hope this wasn't to long.

Talk to your boyfriend about it and tell him that it bugs you! If he really cares about you, then he'll just shrug her off!

♥ Always,
Maria

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couple of nights ago i had sex with one of my best friends we were really into the moment and we did it without a condom i pulled out way before i came and she orgasmed and the next mornin she started her period. i know im prolly being paranoid but i always hear theres a chance of a girl being pregnant even if the guy didnt cum so if anyone knows how high the chance of her being pregnant is please tell me thank you.

Since she started her period, then she's not pregnant. And since you didn't let out any semen in her, then she's not pregnant. I don't think you have anything to worry about.

♥ Always,
Maria

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holy shit i said i was sorry! and i fucken mean it. i am sorry! and i dont wanna loose you again. i love you so much

kurtis

Sit on it and twist biotch! I hate you right now!

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are you mad at kurtis

That's a yes!

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Okay so I went to this party last night and this guy that was there was like "why the hell are YOU here?" because I'm straight edge and I don't do drugs and stuff.. And he kept insulting me and saying crap and it really pissed me off because we have mutual friends and he thinks I'm a "loser" because I don't do drugs and drink and have sex and stuff.. So what should I do to keep myself from kicking his ass? because he's really really starting to piss me off.. And I'm going to have to deal with him for a really long time.. So yeah.. Sorry if this is long.

Ignore him. You can't let what someone says about you bug you. The only thing that matters is that you're doing what you want and you're not letting anyone change your mind about these kinds of things. You should be proud of yourself! And by getting in a fight with him, you'd be sinking down to his level.

♥ Always,
Maria

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i really liked this guy, then he cut his hair and i just dont have any feelings for him, but i think he does for me... hes still nice and all, but do i sound jujmental?

You kind of do. But it's not like that hasn't happened to me. Some guy I liked chopped all his hair off and I thought it was horrible! But I still liked him. It's just hair! Don't stop liking him just because of his hair! It'll grow back! You can't go that far in a relationship if everthing is based on how a person looks. If that were the case, there would be no relationship that would last since everyone has their bad days.

♥ Always,
Maria

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This is for all you lovely ladies out there.
- What types of things do you like to hear.
Example. "You're beautiful"
What other things do you like being told.

Thanks!

Telling a girl that she's gorgeous will get her anytime! Simple I love yous and I miss yous are always welcomed!

♥ Always,
Maria

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14/m
ok so i was talking to the girl that i used to like and still kindof do, we havent seen each other in a while cuz we go to dif schools but weve stayed familiar over the internet. i asked her yesterday if she wanted to make out or sumthing next weekend when we are gonna be at a bonfire at my house and she said YEAH! and talked about how she liked me and stuff.. so heres my question.. - how far do u think i can get with this girl?

Well obviously by asking this question you don't have all the much respect for her. Don't try to get her pants right away! It just shows that your horny and that she can be a tramp. Girls like it better if you show some respect. If you do that, then you'll be getting it so much better than if you got it right away. But just because she was excited about making out, that doesn't mean that she wanted anything more.

♥ Always,
Maria

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Okay, one of my friends who used to be a really good friend of mine is mad at me. She says I follow her every-where, and do every-thing like her. But I don't, I wish we could just be friends again, but she won't even talk to me. I don't know what to do, I'm so confuzed! Please help! I rate!!

Thanks, a desperate friend!

Maybe the two of you just need some time apart. Maybe like a week or two. Not that much though! It sounds like you two need some room to breathe to do your own thing. It's not always a bad thing. And if you don't think you two need this break, then I'm sure she does. Just give her room to breathe and let her do what she wants. Eventually things will get back to the way it was before.

♥ Always,
Maria

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I have a big eating disorder, and no, it's not anorexia.. it's the total oppsite. I'm addicted to food.. :( But mainly 1. Chocolate. I've lost alot of weight, but then I drastically gained it back because I just can't stop eating chocolate. It's weird, I have to have at least a peice of something chocolately every day, or else I don't want to eat because nothing seems appealing. I bought my boyfriend a ton of chocolates for our 1 year anniversary, but he left them at my house and doesn't want to get them untill this upcoming weekend... and my God i've eaten a ton of them. There's at least 300 chocolates in there, and i've eaten like 30. I can't stop eating. I just have completely no will power anymore, and I need some motivation. Someone please help me. I'm running out of solutions.

Even though it's his present, I would throw it all away! I would buy him something else so he'll still have a present. And if you're really that much of a chocolate addict, I hope you won't go in the trash and still eat it! And if you would, then go to the big ol' trash dumpster!

♥ Always,
Maria

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A year or two ago i went out w/ this girl. i liked her, she liked me. i dumped her ,because i relized that she wasn't that actractive, and she hated me. she wouldn't talk to me look at me etc. now i see her in the halls and at dismissle. now she really actractive. i don't want to go out w/ her or anything, i just want to be her friend again.what should i do?

p.s. she has a boy-friend now

It was such a jerky thing to do!! You shouldn't break up with someone because they don't look that great! I would never talk to you again if I were her! It's guys like you that make girls go the long distance to look good! How would you like it if some girl that you really liked dumped you because you were ugly???? You wouldn't like that too much, huh? I don't think you deserve to talk to her until you prove that you're not such a low piece of shit. I'm sorry, but that was a shitty thing to do. I think you shouldn't talk to her and realize how much of a mistake you made.

♥ Always,
Maria

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i dated this guy but the timming wasn't right .. anyways we have been talking and we are going out on friday.. actually i'm going over to his house .. my question is even though we have been through that and we have done stuff physically ..its like our 1st date since like 6 months ..are we supposed to catch up were we left of or start again? i mean physically

I think you should wait it out until you know for sure the feelings are the same as before. Make sure it's what he wants too. If the feelings are the same, then go for it. And if it's not, then I would advise you to wait until they are. Don't just have sex with the guy just to have sex. Have sex with him because you feel a genuine connecion with him. But if just having sex for the hell of it is what you want and what he wants, then I guess go for it.

♥ Always,
Maria

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ok there is this guy name josh and we went out over the summer then broke up a day before school started. I still like him. we havent tlaked in a while but the other day we did a little bit. Last week my friend asked him would he ever go back out with me, and he just smiled. but he has a girlfriend. Also, alst week someone asked him would he ever go out wth this girl name brooke nad he said nnooo .. but he didnt say yes or no when someone asked about me. Then wed. at church, he sat near me but not right next to me .. it went me, his friend murphy(murphy likes me) and then josh and we talked in a group for a little bit. Do you think he still likes me? what should i do? im 14 and female

I'm in the same EXACT situation as you right now! And it sucks! But what I think you should do is tell him how you feel! Be up front about it and don't second guess yourself! I think this guy still really likes you but doesn't know how to tackle the situation. Sometimes you have to take life by the horns..ya know? Tell him that you still have feelings for him and DON'T hesitate saying something. Tell him everything! And if it turns out that he was just playing with your head, then at least you'll know he's an ass and you can forget about him! Gee, I really need to learn to take my own advice. But good luck!

♥ Always,
Maria

PS. And if he does like you, make sure he asks you out AFTER he breaks up with his girlfriend! NO ONE derves to know what being cheated on and being played for a fool feels like!

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hey maria. sorry for friday. i'm sorry for making you feel that way. it's just that you're playing all these mind games with me and i'm just confused. and with her, i dont get mind games. i know how she feels. but that doesnt mean i like her. i think she's just some girl. but i swear i still love you. i love you. im sorry i was being a jerk

kurtis

Hey. Yea, well you should be sorry. And that's not the only reason why you did this to me. You were trying to make me feel the way you felt when you saw me talking to Nick N. in the SAC one morning. I know you were you were getting jealous because you thought I was flirting. So what did you do? You went and found another girl that would go all over you and make me feel jealous. Well sorry babe, it didn't quite work. Gosh you make me so freaking mad!

Maria

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ok i wanna download songz cuz my whole life revolves around music but my parents aren't too crazy about it and they dont wanna pay money for me to get songs i could just listen to on the radoi is there any website where its 100% LEGAL for me to get ABSOLUTELY FREE music? i rate!

I use LimeWire. Unlike Kazaa, it hasn't messed up my computer at all! It works really well. But you could also use iTUNES for the radio. They have a whole bunch of stations. The songs to download on there are $0.99. But I think you get a free song/video every week.

♥ Always,
Maria

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This is really random but im going on a school overnight trip tomorrow for 5 days and they said we can bring music but i cant think of any! does anyone know any really good songs? I like emo music ..thanks

Ohio is for Lovers-Hawthorne Heights
Lover I don't have to Love-Bright Eyes
Sadie Hawkins-Reliant K

Those are just a few of my favorite songs.

♥ Always,
Maria

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O.k. I have a.d.d. and all my teachers Know it, but they push me to hard. I told them about my issue just in case they forgot, but they still push me to hard. Should I tell my parents? One of my teachers was going to give me a d-hall for talking, which iz stupid. Wat should i do about all of this? Sighned, Confused

Maybe your teachers are trying to push you to be a better student. But I would definetly tell your parents!

♥ Always,
Maria

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