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ok, well, i wanna do sumthin rele big for 13th birthday......wut should i do. I need sumthin rele fun, interesting, and different. It's gonna be of course, a boy/girl party too, so it has to be sumthi for everyone. Please help....thnx a bunch xoxoxox

well u culd do any of the following:
-rent a hall
-have a small birthday party and invite a few friends over to yer house fer cake
-have a sleep over with just yer girlfriends
-have a big house parrty
-go bowling with some friends

hope ii helped!

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I have this friend i think he is GAY and he is like always making fun of me and my one friend and i think he takes everything WAY TO SERIOUSLY by the way i am a 14 M and he is a 14 m HELP

so tell him hes annoying and not to take jokes so serious...talk to him about it! good luck!

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ok wut exacally do people means when they say friends with benefits??? my coach and my this girl on my teams brother say there friend with benefits but it's bugging me cuz i dont kno wut they mean by that!! help!!

it means they dont wanna date but they make out n stuff....they act liek they are goin out but they rele arnt...hope i helped =)

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my bf and i r in a huge fight ...but its kas he made me upset..i really wanna talk to him about it..but he needs to appologise to me 1st.. should i wait 4 him or should i say sumtin...im 15/f/ if it helps

thats not the way to be....if u wanna talk about it with him then do it! cuz guys can be stubborn some times and he might not ever apologize first (idn guys have a pride issue) so just tell him how u feel! good luck!

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Hey, I'm sorry if this grosses you out but it's just something that happens and I'm wondering if there is a reason why. Well I usually don't go #2 a lot, like people tell me you're supposed to go everyday but I only go like once a week sometimes longer, and it's not like I don't eat because I eat a lot and I don't gain any weight either, I'm 14 and weigh 100 pounds. So I'm wondering if that's normal or what I should do or any advice about that.

Thank you, I rate well.

lay off the junk food for a while n see if that helps if not go see a doctor u might have sumthyn rong with u cuz u r suppoose to go every day! good luck

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Alright i have been hanging around this guy 2 years older than me for about a month.. my friend totally hates him for many reasons , and my friends mother works with students that are in the same class as this guy . they tell my friends mother that he is on drugs and that he drinks alllll the time at partys and stuff.. but when he is around me is a whole new person.. i realized that i dont want to get a bad rep by hanging out with him so how should i tell him that we shouldnt hang out ne more..( plus : he fingered me , and im afraid he will like go tell everyone shit about me =/ ) .. but yah how should i tell him that i dont wanna hang out ne more?? THANKS

well if hes sweet to u i dont thynk u should stop hangin out with him! cuz even if ppl say shyt about u at least hes nice 2 u ya no ....but u have to decided wether rumors are worth loosing a good friend over...good luck!

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ok lol...well i just started my period today (ive had it for about 2 yrs) but i got it today again....but my ? is i hav REALLY bad cramps today....and like ther extremely bad....is there nething i can do to make them go away??

tAkE MiDoL tHaTz ReLe tHe oNlY thiiNg! gOod LuCc!

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I care a lot about what my friends think of me. I was preppy, and I want to go punk. I got some cloths liek element shirt and volcom and stuff. But when my friends get mad at me they call me poser, even before I got this new stuff. They also say I hav real bitchy attitude. And this past summer a lot of family issues happened, and my friends know that and still call me a bitch. Do they really mean it when they call me a bitch and a poser? Or are they saying that just because there mad? I told them how when they say that it hurts and they dont seem to care. And me and one of my best friends just got into this big fight! She has been ignoring me and calling me bitch and poser. But were friends again.... Do you think she styll thinks that? Or was she talking out of anger? PLease dont sey get new freinds cas i dont want new ones! wat do i do?

well maybe they dont mean it.....but if they do this then they rele arnt yer friends...becuz a good friend is always there for u wether u wanna go from preppy to gothic lol....just try to talk to them and if they dont listen find some new ppl to hang out with! good luck!

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i have this HUGE dance coming up on friday and i have this really big zit and its really red!! does anyone know a way to get rid of it by tonight because i dont want people at school to see it and my mom won't lemme buy cover up!

signed,
sad zit face sorry for the lameness

lol aww well pop it and put alcohol on it and it normally cleans it out and takes the redness away...or put toothpast on it for a few hours....everyone gets them so i rele wuldnt worry lol!! aww good luck hun!

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hey im asking this question for my friend val

my friend n her bf have been together for a year and 4 months and she lost her virginity to him wen they were together for 8 months and he lost his to her and they just broke up a month ago and he makes out wit other girls in front of her and makes her feel stupid he tells everyone hes a pimp and that he can play anyone so he went out wit like 4 girls aleady my friend still isnt over him because she loves him and loved him or atleast she thoguht she did shes a junior and hes a sophomore shes going out wit this other kid for 2 weeks already but i think shes wit him to make her ex jealous im not sure because she said hes just ok looking and he has an ok personality so i dont think she really likes him i dont feel sorry for her ex tho but people say she used her ex wen they werre goin out beause hes rich but i think it was love well anyways i dont have anything else to tel her and ifeel bad for her that she has to face him everyday if u have any advice please write back i rate good thanx toodles

well if he treats her like this then obviously hes over her....so she needz to find someone even better then him to get over him...getting over someone is hard especially if they went out that long....so talk to her and let her no that its ok to still have feelings for him just dont let it show cuz obviously he doesnt care....but good luck!

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what things can i do when a friend is over?
[i am a 13 yr old girl, what are somethings i can do w/ a girl my age over?please try to give me more than movies and music.]
Thanks x0x!
P.S I RATE HIGH ;-)LoL

hmmm well.....make brownies....call other friends over....go outside somewhere like the movies....wen my friends are over we most;y either get ready to go out somewhere or watch t.v or talk to ppl online! good luck!

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My daugthers room is very very small is has hardwood floors and walls so its not very attractive for her 15th birthday we're redoing it we ordered her a loft bed but we'd like some ideas on how to redecorate and we'd like to know if its okay to paint on the wood walls. We want a color that will open it up thanks for your help!

maybe a hot or light pink on the walls..or a cute wall paper....get her cute stuff like fuzzy lamps and maybe a cute fold up chair ....little things are rele cute...u can make curtains out or pink lace thats rele cute!

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we hav nothing in our house to eat.....does any1 have ideas of wut i can whip up fast to eat?

pb&j sandwhice....ramen noodles?....cereal...chips....hmm sorry lol!

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hey does neone kno a good best friend song. . .that like new or jus came out?

graduation= vitamin c

thats rele all cuz i dont thynk theres alotta good songs about friends! sOrry

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Okay, I'm friends with my best friend's ex boyfriend.We've always been friends. But I've also always hada little bitty crush on him. He lives in PA and we live in DE though, so boy me and my friend never get to see him. Lastngith he said he missed me and he wanted to come visit me. I asked him why he didn't ever call, and he said he didn't have any minutes, but if he did, I would be the first person he would call. Is that just me or does he sound like he likes me just a little bit? Help me! I rate good!

xoxo

hmm maybe he duz like u...or maybe he thynks of u as a good friend he can talk to n e time! ask him and tell him that u do think u like him a little bit! good luck hun!

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hey yea this is sammi... im wondering... how do yew get backgrounds fer yur column but not tha 1s that tha site offerse yew? well thanx to any1 who answers or attempts answering!
sammi (or) SwEeTbAbI

gO too any backgrond sites and wen u find one u like right click it and go to properties and copy the url it gives u! good luck!

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i am the girl that said she was anarexic for six months and was 5'8 and 13 years old... i now weigh 120 pounds cuz i checked into a hospital and they made me gain ALOT of weight... is 120 to fat for a 5'8 13 yr old? my doctor said that that is how much im suppost to weigh since im so tall... but is that still to much?

yep thats perfectly normal!! dont lose any weight or u wuld be considered under weight especially fer ur height!! good luck babe!

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What is the difference between thongs and g-strings? I always thought they were the same.

g strings dun have the triangle thing in the back but thongs do!

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ok when do guys like really start getting perverted(sex,makeing out)..like do the start at 12,13,14 b/c i kno some guys that are perverted that are like 12 but i dont kno if others are or if its just those guys!!! help i rate good!

some guys are ....a couple of my friends made out wen they were 11 lol iit all depends on the boy! hope i helped!

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how do you kno when u need the next bra size up?
[wheneva a bend down i "fall" out, does that mean i needa new size?]

maybe or maybe it means that u got a low cut bra it makes yer cleavage show more lol

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