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"We make war so that we may live in peace." -aristotle"If you judge someone right away, you will not be able to learn to love them."
I'm Hayley, I'll try to help you as best I can. I'm 18, and a senior in high school. I like art, music, and clothing. I'm a vegetarian abd have been consistent with it for four years. I have two dogs a westie named misty and a Maltese/poodle mix named mally. I know a lot about dogs because any time
my dogs get a scratch, I research and call the vet haha.
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15/f
my one friend, took all of my people on my phone, and ims them and pretends to be these fake people. i mean she gets pictures of random girls from photobucket and everything!!! and its like really embarrassing. because im afraid there gonna find out that i know her, and that im like friends with her or whatev. im really getting sick of her. because whenever i talk to her, all we talk about is these people, and its actually really mean, what shes doing. shes pretending shes going out with this kid, and he really believes it. what should i do? im so sick of this.
oh and then whenever i like act cold or get mad at her, she doesnt even care. shes so mean.
im a 13 year old girl in 8th grade and i wanna know if it would be slutty if i wear this for halloween. http://www.wizardofozcostumes.com/sexy_cutie_scarecrow_costume.html i mean it doesnt show that much.. just legs. like at my school we have a dress code and i think its fine on that level.. but im going as a group with my friends wearing other wizard of oz costumes.. are these fine for them to wear?
http://www.wizardofozcostumes.com/sexy_tin_girl_costume.html
http://www.wizardofozcostumes.com/sexy_cuddly_lion_costume.html
http://www.wizardofozcostumes.com/dorothy_sexy2.html
thanks! :)
i think its defff. adorable. the scarecrow one, but it may be a little short. but, i dont think theyll really do anything about it. because, last year i was a police officer. lol and we wore these really short jean skirts, and we had these button shirts [yano the ones cops wear] and we buttoned them really low. well ok i did. hahaha. and i go to a private school. and they didnt care at all. a couple teachers actually said i looked really cute. so i honeslty, wouldnt worry about it.
the tin girl one. if your friend has really big boobs, then i dont suggest that one. because that girl in the picture, makes them really stand out, so i dk. but its a really cute costume. soo hmm.
the lion one, i tihnk that ones fine.
the dorothy one is deff fine.
my best friend killed himself a couple weeks ago. I was fine untill his funeral, it hit me, so hard. Of course its right to greive, and its gonna hurt me. but before, this kid put me into depression, cause he was suicidal, and i heard him tell me goodbye and try to kill himself in front of me so many timess.. i feel as though i am goin back into depression, i went through it before, but its so hard to get out of it. Ive been havin the same symmptons, im always tiredd..dont care about anything, one little thing comes my way i break down, dont care about eating, just lack of effort towards anythingg.
im going back to councelingg, but idk if that can help
any advice on what i can do, or should do. idk im just so confused and worried
i'm really sorry about your friend. i kinda had something similar happen to me. he ended up dieing to. and i never told anyone. i became very depressed to. counceling helped me. it was just a good way of venting my feelings. counceling may help. and they may even give you some medicine. just remember that people care about you. that helped me. knowing that i had other people in my life, that actually cared about me and what was going on with me.
i hope this never happens to you again, but if you ever notice anyone else who seems depressed, tell someone.
So I've been with my boyfriend on and off now for almost five months. Lately though he's been acting really .. off.
I don't really know how to explain it. Like usually he's really funny and sarcastic and he used to call me every night.
But for maybe the past two weeks, he barely talks when I see him, he's hitting the ignore button when I call him, and he won't tell me what's wrong!
The "I'm tired" excuse isn't flying anymore because I know that's not it. And I've been bugging him about what's up but he refuses to tell me. I don't know if it's something I've done or what. Because honestly, there's only one thing that I can think of that he could be upset about.
This guy who's a junior keeps flirting with me and being really touchy feely whenever I'm around him, but my boyfriend KNOWS that I love him. We've been through so much together, I don't believe he could doubt the way I feel for him.
What should I do? I don't want to pry into his life, but I hate seeing him upset. :(
I honestly, don't think your boyfriends upset. I think he doesn't like you anymore. I've had like 5476547437 billion relationships before, and thats how it ends. I mean even I do it. you just kinda start to ignore them, little things they do bug you, you just get sick of them. Its not you guys are like gonna be with eachother forever. i just think you should both move on. and it seems that other guy already likes you.
boys don't usually get jealous over that stuff. i even tried it on guys before. lol and they even told me, that they know where they stand. guys usually are very confident. ATLEAST the ones i have dated.
however. i dont know you. or your boyfriend. so i could be wrong. maybe he has very little confidence ,and he is jeaous. if you think thats the case, then just tell him that you really care about him, and that you see soemthings wrong between you too. and if he could please tell you what it is. do it in person. he cant like hang up on you or anytihng. he'll have to be honest with you.
so yeah, its up to you to decide how he is.
my alltel contract expires in november, and we're thinking about switching to at&t. it gets better service around here, for one thing.
my boyfriend just switched last sunday, and he got a new blackberry pearl. it's the phone i want when we switch. he says the guy gave it to them for free, and that he pays $30 a month to have unlimited internet and whatever else is on there[?]. and he also says all the family plans come with unlimited text messaging, and i know they all come with rollover. but the website doesn't say anything about unlimited texts.
so is this true? can you really get the blackberry free, and is there really unlimited texting for free as well? any info on at&t family plans is appreciated.
p.s.-- i've looked at the website, so please don't recommend it.
I acutally, just got a new phone from at&t its thats new razor. like only they have it. and yeah there service is amazing and i love it. i had alltel and i hated it.
anyways, this is our plan..
my mom had to pay like 45 dollars there. and we got 2 other phones. [also two razors.]
she had to get this thing, [im guessinggg, this is what your boyfriend has.] we had to pay an extra 15 dollars, for this month. to like try it out, to beable to get all those free phones [your allowed up to 4 free phones, i think.]
and you get all that stuff unlimited basically. i think we all have 1200 text messages? and like all that other stuff is free like ringtones, eveything in media net.
ok at&t is thee best. (:
I am in need of guidance. I have one child that is seven months old and my doctors put me on the lowest hormone dosage birth control because I'm breastfeeding, but I'm pregnant again. I don't know what to do. I didn't miss any pills and I've been on the pills for about 4 months now. I can't afford another child and while the father and I are together, I'm not planning on staying with him because he isn't reliable and won't share the responsibilities of parenthood. I'm 24 and completely lost as to what to do. I really need advice. I just can't bring myself to talk to my family about this. Please help.
Well, you obviously need to talk to your parents, I don't honeslty understand, how you can be so...unintelligent? I mean really, you would have thought that you would have learned from your mistake the first time. If you were only sixteen years old or something, MAYBE i would have been a little more sympathetic. However, you are 24 years old. You are an adult. You shouldn't be having sex with a guy that you know cannot support you, if you do become pregnant. Pills arn't 100% protective either. Go make your boyfriend get a job, tell your parents, and support these two innocent babies the best way you can.
I don't think you should get an abortion. its your responsiblity. you did this, & you deserve to work your ass off for the rest of your life.
If you really want to get an adoption, I suppose you could do that. But, I could never do that. I mean jus think, when your little kid gets stung by a bee, you cant be there. there fake mom or dad will. and yeah. just whatever.
Every weekend all our friends do something fun like go to the movies or bowling. And they always invite me and my boyfriend... but my boyfriend never wants to go. He only wants to sit home and watch movies and snuggle. Which is okay sometimes... i mean, i'm glad he wants to be with me... but we never do anything fun. And the weird thing is, it's not like he's anti-social... at school he's super popular and a big show off and loves to be the center of attention. But whenever we're together with a bunch of people, he ends up pouting and getting mad that I'm talking to other people. It's like he's jealous if I get any attention, or if I'm giving anyone else attention. So all we do is sit home while everyone else has fun, and they think we're like the most boring couple on earth. Ugghhh... what can I do? And why is he like that?
He probably doesn't like sharing you. I had a boyfriend like that. It was really annoying. And then when you do drag him somewhere if no ones talking to him for like a mili second, they freak out. Atleast thats how my boyfriend was. It'd get really annoying. and just like you said your boyfriend pouts, mine would too. if i wasnt like hanging all over him. when you guys go out, is it your friends your hanging out? or his? if its yours, he may be kinda shy? i mean even though you say hes not shy or whatever, sometimes if people dont have there friends surronded by them and there with other people they dont really know, they cant be there natural self.
what i did... is i asked my boyfriend. i'd be like why dont you ever wanna go out. like just straigh out say it. and see what he says. and say it in person. and dont sound mean about it, just concerned.
hope that helpedd. (:
I am entering high school next year and I am scared. My brother is a sophomore this year and he said it was extremely hard to find his classes the first year. I am also scared I will be made fun of for being late or just the way I am. Please help...thanks.
its not as hard as you think it is. alot of people overexagerate toward it. signs REALLY help. i just started monday, and i only went into one class once. stairs are kinda hard to find too. and no noone really makes fun of you for being late. dont worry about it
im taking photography class son.. do you think they would ask us to buy a camera? good cameras are expensive, right? and how about those black and white cameras? what are some good cameras out there? and price?
at my school you are expected to buy a camera. but, if you dont have one, are school has cameras you can borrow. but kodaks or nikon is really good. a good camera is from like 150-250
Ok so im going into highschool, and well i found the cutest out fit, but its a tube top, and well my school isnt SO strict about it, like after three weeks they don't care what we wear. But my question is On the first day of school do they really look out and care what we wear and stuff and were they really strict about it at your school? thankss
my school was kinda. like they wouldnt send you home or anything. like theyd just say, you know thats not allowed. or im gonna pretend i didnt see that. just say, oh sorry it wont happen again. and you should be fine.
Is it okay to feed a dog (yellow lab>8 yrs) plumbs? Can anyone give me a list of human food NOT to feed dogs...thanks sooo much!!!
Well, my vet [who is an extremely good vet, has the best vet hospital in town, and i live in a very nice town.] said a dog shouldn't eat any people food. if you want them to be healthy, they should strictly only eat dog food, and a treat or so every once in a while. my dog still gets ahold of some things off the ground, if they fall, or something, but its just not a good idea. because, you don't know for sure if any of these people are right or not. and what if they say something that could actually harm your dog. so yeah, i wouldnt feed your dog any people food.
oh yeah, and its not good to feed them plums.
Ok so we are taking care of a dog (2 years old, Coon/basset hound mix...) She was abused and was always kept outside, been on the streets for a while, and was negleted. So now she is used to Peeing/pooping when and where she wants. We can't have this and my mom said that if she doesn't improve in her potty training, by THIS WEDNESDAY,then we're sending her back to the Animal Protective League. She pees/poops in the house about 3 times per day together.
We can't smack her when she pees all we can do is yell at her...but she still does it when she wants later, even if she was just outside. So should I use a water spray bottle and spray her when she does it and tell her no? Can I flick her on the nose? You've just got to remember that she was abused. And she doesn't like being outside on a leash, by herself with water, very long.
I REALLY DO NOT want to send her back to the clinic...so I need improvement by this Wednesday.
PLEASE HELP IF YOU HAVE EXPERIENCE WITH THIS OR JUST HAVE HELPFULL ADVICE!!!!!!! THANKS SOOO MUCH!
My puppy, who is now 8 months, is finally potty trained. and we tried to do a millionnnn different things to potty train her. well, my mom works with this one lady who is a perfessional with dogs, like how to potty train them. and what you do.. is you take her out obviously, always in the moring, and what you do is on the door you go out on, you take her paw, and go potty potty potty. then, when she goes outside, you give her a small treat, and you say good potty. and you do that everytime. if your now playing with her or watching her put her in her cage. when she goes inside the house, you could tap her nose. however, im just very strict with my dog, and i say no potty inside the house. and you kinda neglect them. but when they go outside, tell her how wonderful she is, and all that. she may not be completely potty trained by wednesday :/ but your mom will see a hugeee improvement.
I recently got a Yorkie. He's about 9 weeks old and I love him. The problem is that he waked me up in the middle of the night, EVERY night and I seriously can't take it. I play with him a lot so he can get worn out and sleep easier, but he still wakes me up by barking like crazy until I take him out. When I take him out, I take him outside to potty but then he just wants to play.
The other day he woke me up at 4:30 in the morning and then yesterday at 1:30 in the morning. If he needed to potty, I know he would of in his cage and his cage isn't small so I don't know what the problem is. We bought him one of those cages where he can walk around in so he has more space.
So, my two main questions are;
1. What can I do so he doesn't wake me up in the middle of the night anymore?
2. Everytime I pet him, he starts to bite and I know his little teeth are growing but he takes it for play so how can I teach him not to bite when someone pets him. I tell him no, but nothing.
Thanksss! I would appriciate any help that you can give. I mean I never had a dog before so I'm still learning. Thanks.
Ha. my puppy when we first got her, i'd play with her and everything, and she'd still wake me up in the middle of the night. she'd wake me up at 1:30 and then later on at 3:00 and then again at 5:30 i never ever got a a chance to sleep.
it doesn't take them to long for them to get used to sleeping by themself. however, right now, since there used to sleeping with all those other puppies and everything, they get lonely in that big cage. you should have started out with something smaller. so they feel safer. sometimes if you put a clock in there that ticks, it helps them fall alseep. or maybe a stuffed animal or something.
try taking her for a really long walk, right before bed time. he probably won't wake you up as much, or maybe not at all. little puppies have alot of energy.
yeah, my puppy would bite me too. what i did, was i would say no, and then i'd give her one of those rawhide stick twist things or whatever, and she'd chew on that. it kinda gives you a break from him too. ha
i hope that helpedd. if you have any other questions just askk me. (:
so i have this "friend" let's say well call her 1
1 came over the other day & we we're on myspace and she was friends with this girl named kt & i've seen her myspace before & i thought she was pretty blahh blahh. couple weeks later she gets like a "make-over" or whatever the fuck she wants to call it, & she look's like a TOTALLY different person, like not even the same person.. and i know how to read comments and stuff nd her comment are hidden so i loook at her comments & she only has 192 and she's had a myspace since september 2006 & all her comments are about whoring.. so i know for a she is fake, and 1 was totally agreeing with me on it. so then i confronted "2" [ we'll call the "fake" 2 ] about her being fake .. and this is the conversation:
me: can i ask you a ?
me: i know you dnt know who i am but i hav a question about modeling
2: sure
2: ?
2: are you a fake? cause like i remember seeing your pictures a while ago and now i see them and they're completely different.. and your lookin pretty fake to me
2: uh nah not hardly l0l.
me: wats taht mean
2: that meansz no.
me: howcome you hide your old album then ..
me: cause they look completely diffrenet and people would catch on
2: bc tha picsz are old.
me: mmk so make a sign or wat are you going to make an excuse
2: l0l i kno "1" there with yu [: stupid little freshmen, don't bother meh
me: FAKE
me: no she left btw
2: haha nah
2: buh bye bytch
me: bye fake
me: ill report you to tom
2: haha kay you do that, and i'll photoshop picsz of yu naked
that's what happend the first time when 1 was over.
ok seriously if someone called you fake wouldn't you take a picture with a piece of paper saying you URL or something? not say bye bitch ot ill photoshop pictures of you naked i mean cmon can she get anymore fake?! .. then today [ august 22 ] "2" IMed me saying ..
2: uhm yu realize kait doesn..t think i..m a fake, and i qut that pic of yu naked done [: so keep runninq yur mouth
me: mmk thats illegal
2: now wat did yu say
me: thats illegal
2: and so isz harrasement
2: =]
me: mmk how am i harrasing you
me: yellings not illegal
2: callinq meh fake isz
me: cause you are
2: tryinq to qet meh in trouble for identity theft
2: isz harrasement
2: [which i..m not fake] btw.
me: how am i trying to get you introuble
2: by "i..m qunna report yu to tom"
2: yur a lil bytch, if yu have no life yu have to qet into other peoples.
me: you have no life to photoshop people naked
me: to bad i friggen didnt tell tom cause i forgot
2: fuck with meh, i drive i can track yu down, trust meh
2: keep pushinq meh miss kendall.
me: i know pople who can drive to
2: yu have no idea who yur fuckinq with.
me: alright ill let the cops know
2: haha can..t fiqht yur own battlesz huh?
2: where are yu qunna qet in life?
me: nope
2: i..m qunna lauqh when yur smart ass mouth qetsz yur face beat ihn [:
me: im guna laugh wehn you go to jail
2: i..m 17.
2: i won..t qo to jail.
2: and i have a rich daddy.
2: so haha i ain..t scared of shyt.
2: try aqain and keep sayinq i..m doinq identity theft.
2: see where yu end up.
2: peace.
me: thatd not wat im telling the cops
2: and i can qet yu for harrasement
2: qo do wat little 15 year oldsz do.
mfn xo princess: toodlesz.
me: im not harrasing you
me: you imed me first
2: uh did i not say bye?
me: smart ass
2: not so touqh that "1"z not there huh?
me: " 1"didnt do shit
2: 1: qhet how she said she had people that she knows that can drive
2: 1: yah im done with her.
1: i duhn need 13 yr old bullshit anymore
2: [: hahahaha
2: pussy ass bytch
2: i..m outtttt.
me: good
me: byeeeeeee
2: awh qo cry
me: mmk
2 signed off at 8:15:10 PM.
i'll show you what 1 said about me ..
1: qhet how she said she had people that she knows that can drive
1: but not her.
1: she cant FIGHT HER OWN BATTLES
1: yah im done with her.
1: i duhn need 13 yr old bullshit anymore
great friend ehh?!
so tell me what i should do?
am i wrong here?
or am i completely right?
help!
ok. i'd just forget all of it. like, both of those girls. they suck majorly. the one who made up that fake thing or whatever, yeah i agree shes fake, or she would have just made like a picture of her or something. if anything to say back to that girl.. i would just im her saying.. send me a picture with your URL in and it also saying hey ____ and then see what she says. and if she says she doesn't have a camera or something, then be like..
well, meet me at the mall. [inless she knows what you look like.] because then you could like just casually walk past there, and see if its real. dont talk to her though..
and as for your other friend.. she sucks. big time ditch her. make some new friends.
did forrest gump's mom die of AIDS?
Yeah, I think so.
f 15
ive been dating my boyfriend for a year.
weve gone kinda far in bed... our pants have stayed on though. well i accidentally gave him a hicki and my parents freaked. i told them i had never kissed his neck before and i wanted to see what it was like... and it was an accident. *lie i know* i got in a ton of trouble. my mom started yelling and crying... but seriously im 15... she shouldnt really care about a hicki. my parents are thinking about making me break up with my boyfriend even though im completely in love with him. i just need help. :)
ouch. i kinda went through something like this too. i made out with this one kid, and my mom never thought i kissed anyone before. but i was in like 7th grade. & she was like flipping out on me and everything. and i wasnt allowed to hang out with guys for along time. so i kinda came up with something. that works incredibly well. if you do it right. start talking to your mom alot more or dad. i think its easier to talk to my mom but whatever. tell her about what everyone does. like, make you seem perfect. like tell her about what all the bad kids do. like ill be like.. yeah mom some kids were smoking pot. and ill be like, yeah i'd never do that. and like i dont know. i just make myself look good. and the more you tell them, the more they trust you. if you tell them what other kids are doing, & then even if your lieing, you can just say how you wouldnt do that. you just gotta seem like your mature. & stuff.
my mom used to be kinda strict with me. but now. shes not at all.
so yeah. just basically show your parents your not a bad kid.
14/f
so im pretty but im kinda like shy. well more than anything i want to be like the "leader" of my little group of friends. i know it sounds weird but i just want to. please dont tell me just be yourself. how do i pull this off? thankss.
well i guess i can answer this question since i was captain of my cherleading team, and i won beauty pagents, and i was i guess kinda leader of my grade.
Anyways, its all about confidence. but, i mean if your shy, then you cant really be a leader. i mean you gotta be like someone everyone likes. and you can be afraid to stand out.
attention isnt always great. i used to ask questions on here, on how i could get less attention. its not as great as its cracked up to be.
i have super duper chubby face!
like no lie.
and i LOVE wearing headbands
or pulling my bangs back in a poof.
but it looks HORRIBLE on me
because my face is just so
wa*bam huge!
i really want a slimmer face!
what do i do?
[please, dont tell me i shouldnt care whut other people think or w/e. thats not whut im asking for]
Kthnkkkks!
bye =]
just go on a diet. you lose weight first in your face. just start exercising and stuff. like going for walks, and drinking lots of water.
i'm female. i've been trying to find a cute back of the neck tatto like a little below my hair line. i want something small, but like i have no clue. i need some ideas, maybe pictures? i've been thinking about for a while but my creativity is being dumb haha
i've been trying to think of something like with meaning or just something cute.
any ideas/inspiration/info on neck tattoos would be sooo helpful.
thanks so much!
oh and i'm rtying to convince my mom to let me get a tattoo [i'm 14] i love tattoos and i thought maybe if i got one where i can cover it up easily she could possibly say yeah? what do you think?
ew. like seriosuly. ew. you're 14 years old. your just a child. why would you want a tattoo? like ok i mean, they look so tackyyy. and when you get old it will get wrinkly. and what if you like gain 500 pounds, and then it like stretches. NASTY. or what if you get a really short hair cut, and then people see it. ickkkkkkk.
dont get one. if you want one so bad, get the kind that look real, but come off in like 5 or 6 days.
-__- not those kids one. the like real ones that look real, but arnt permanent.
1) how can you tell is a Chanel bag is fake?
2) how much is an average Chanel bag? The site does now show prices, and its very confusing.
actually. its usually really really really hard to tell if a chanel bag is fake or not. my chanel bag is fake, and i have one real one. they look exactly the same.
my chanel purse was 2000 dollars. you can get them as low as 1000.
honestly, just get a fake one. there like exact. my mom got me the real one, because im a spoiled brat. haha. but uhm yeah. you can find them in chinatown in ny. or over the internet for like 100 dollars. or more.