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i think that i am fat and i weigh 109 i see all these skinney girls and the guys like them im 5'2 is my weght normal and i dont like to eat i actuly staopped eating luch and brekfast what should i do?im starving and i dont want to eat!!!!
please i need help
Hi,
It sounds as if you are developing an eating disorder... I could be wrong, but it kind of sounds this way. Know that, just because you are skinny doesn't mean you are unlikable. There are a ton of girls that have a normal weight and think they are really skinny and there are a ton of girls that are skinny and have friends/boyfriends. I personally am about 110 pounds and I am 5'4. Which is not much different than you. So NO, you are NOT fat.
When I read your question, one of the things that popped into my head was anorexia. People with anorexia think they are fat and they will do anything to try and prevent themselves from gaining weight, which includes: stopping eating, eating then puking the food up, and basically just starving yourself. There are many harmful things that can happen to you if you do not eat food. You will become sick, you will not be able to function properly, you will have drained energy, and you could possibly die. So YES, you must eat the proper amount of food for your age to sustain a healthy lifestyle.
If the reason why you are not eating is because you think guys don't like you or that you are fat... that is not true. There will always be a guy you haven't met that is waiting to meet you and be with you. You cannot rush having a boyfriend, for they will come when you are supposed to have them. When he does come, he will love you for who you are inside and out no matter what. You have to learn to love yourself before a guy can love you too.
What I would reccommend, since you said you do not like to eat, is a protein shake. One that I think would be good for you is called: 'Breakfast Anytime!' made by Nestle/Carnation. They do not cost too much and they come in a powder form or an already premixed drink in the grocery store. They also come in several different flavours such as: strawberry, chocolate, vanilla, and ice cappuccino so you won't get bored. I think if you drink one in the morning and one in the evening, this should help keep you in pretty good health even if you don't eat anything else. They will fill you up and give you the daily protein that you need to have energy and function well.
This said: food is always better than no food. Also, I am not a doctor and if you are feeling sick, are losing excessive amounts of weight, and stop eating altogether... you should see a doctor right away (even if you think you shouldn't). Try eating little snacks throughout the day instead of a full meal (veggies and dip, fruit, crackers and cheese, nuts, a granola bar, yogurt). This will be easier on your appetite and will keep you from feeling starved. Remind yourself everyday that you are beautiful, for you are beautiful. If anyone can help you, it will be you. Do what is right for your health
What do you talk about after sex? I mean right after too like while your still lying there. I just feel like it would be really awkward. Like now what? Are there any topics that are generally more appropirate for the situation then others?
17 female
Hi,
You could talk about almost anything that you feel comfortable talking about. I find that talking about what you liked about the sex and complimenting him on a good job, makes the moment seem less tense.
Most guys just want to lay there or sleep after sex, so if you compliment him and ask him what he liked he should be more engaged afterwards. Some guys might not want too much talk after sex, so if you can get him to cuddle that tends to be the most enjoyable for the both of you. You can talk about what you two could do later or what he wants most right then. Just talking about anything (having words in the air) will help keep the moment going. Tell him what you would like and see how he responds. Give eachother back massages, it will be sure to bring up a good convo
Where can I find Haley? I don't even know her username! How can I find her to ask questions!? She gives awesome advice!!!
Hey there,
You can find her by going to 'Columnists' at the top of this page, then click on the little blue writing that says "more options", type in Haley and you will find her. I did this and found one person there, so there must be a good chance this is who you are looking for. Otherwise, you can type in more info to find her... I Hope this is the Haley you wish to find
So, I have this boyfriend, we've been friends since I was in eighth grade. Well in my sophomore year of high school we started dating after we both had gone through break ups with out first serious relationships. Well, I'm a junior now, and him a senior, at first, I felt so connected and happy, and he really let me in and made me feel so special. But after a while, it kinda went away. He doesn't treat me as special and puts me last. He tells me he has a completely different idea of life then him, he doesn't want to let me in closer because apparently he's just gonna break it off anyway, maybe he should've told me that before. Apparently it's because his ex, made him not want to let anyone in. Well, I feel neglected, and not special, and just unimportant to him. How do I show him I am different from her? How do I get him to give me a clean slate, and make me feel special. I feel like there is a lot I can't say or do because of the way he is. I just want to know, how do I get him to open his eyes and heart to me?
Hey there,
Yes, he definately should of told you that he doesn't see you as someone he could let in closer than just a friend/person. This just shows he wasn't intending for a close relationship once he met you. I mean, how could he treat you special and then just blow you off? He doesn't sound like he is commited anymore. If the time comes when he really doesn't care any longer, I hate to say it but you might have to break it off. Until then though..
There are a few things you could do about this: have a one on one talk with him, let him know how much you care for him, and ask if he will let you show him the real you. If he lets you, show him that you are much more special than the other girls. Take him somewhere where it is just the two of you, have a heart to heart talk, let him know you are not his ex (no one is) and that you will try your best to just make him happy (and that you hope he can make you happy too). Tell him that you can make a good difference in his life and ask if he could give you a chance, for that is all you are asking for.. a chance.
If he really does want to make this relationship work, then he will let you in a bit more and show an effort. He obviously has a good heart, for he has showed you it. He may just be in a tight spot in his life where he is worried about getting hurt again. Letting him know you won't ever hurt him will allow him to open his heart a bit more. As long as you continue to tell him that you are there for him and you only want to show him your love and be loved back, he will see you aren't asking for much. Being yourself and showing him the real you will allow him to expirience how different you are inside and out. If you show him love, he will love you back. You cannot make him change his mind about how he feels right now... you can only guide him to the right place
20Female
Is it okay to have sex with a yeast infection? I've had this for over 6 months, the gyno keeps giving me medications to try but none have work because it's a type of yeast infection that is resistant to medications I guess. I was put on this cream for 3 days and about 2 days after using it I had sex with this guy -we used a condom. As far as I'm aware he did not have any itching, etc. I don't know if it's just luck, or if it's because he used a condom or if it's because I had just finished using the cream (but I still had the infection?) now it's a long story but I'm driving to see someone 4 hours away next weekend because that's where he's playing hockey right now. We've had sex before I ever had a yeast infection but I'm wondering if it's okay if I have sex with him if he wears a condom now that I have this annoying yeast infection that just won't go away. Obviously I want to have sex with him, this will be my first time seeing him since he moved there in September, and he won't be coming back to visit until Christmas break. If he does want to have sex, I don't want to say no because I have a yeast infection ..that' a little embarrassing. I don't know what to do! I guess my main question is, would he catch the infection even if we still used the condom? Because it worked the first time with the other guy but I'm more serious with this guy so it would be embarrassing if he got the yeast infection from me.
Hey there,
Yes it is okay to have sex with a yeast infection. This said: as long as you have protection. You said you do use protection so the chances of your boyfriend getting it is very slim. What I would do though, is let your boyfriend know that you do have a yeast infection and let him know the chances of him getting it is very unlikely. For, say if he does get it by rare chance... then he will know what he should be treated for by a doctor. I do find it kind of silly how you implied that it didn't matter that you could give your first guy a yeast infection, but you care about giving this guy one. You should care anyways :p Anyhow, if you are comfortable with eachother (as you must be if you are having sex) then it shouldn't matter to him if you bring up something like this. It is part of life and he should be okay with that.
Here is a site to give you more info: http://www.sexualityandu.ca/adults/sti-1-9.aspx
If he does get it he will have simular symptoms to a female, such as: itching, dryness, swelling, and burning urination. Just let him know that you do have a yeast infection, but he isn't to worry. He should understand if you have been sexually active before... in the end, I am positive that he will be happy it won't affect your sex life ;)
19/f College Student
There's this guy I REALLY like. He goes to my school. He looks at me A LOT. Like, he's always starring. But, whenever we actually get to talk, he get's nervous, chokes up, and is REALLY shy. I don't know how to break the ice and get this moving along. I'm not trying to push things, but I know that he has a great personality. I just wish he would show it around me more. Any advise you can give me for the next time I see him?
Thanks
Hey there,
The best way to make him comfortable is to compliment him or tell him a something about your life. Let him know that you like something he is wearing, that you would like to get to know him better, or that you think he is cute. If he knows how you are feeling towards him, he will be more likely to open up with you. Try having him in a place where its just the two of you. It may seem awkward at first, but if you tell him something about yourself or talk about something he can relate to he will be sure to engage in the conversation. Even a little funny story about something that happened to you can lighten the mood. You could also ask if he would like to go for a walk with you or out for a movie sometime.
Next time he is near sit next to him and rest your hand on his lap, squeeze his knee, or hug his shoulders for a moment. Physical contact such as this will tell him you are there for him and that he can open up and trust you. If you want to go for something bold, tell him you know he has a great personality, then leave him with a kiss on the cheek. Show him your personality! If you act comfortable around him, he will start acting comfortable around you
hello im cheyenne (a girl) and im 13 and in the 7th grade. I like this boy devin, he's in my class. We've flirted and I know he knows i like him and i'm pretty sure he likes me too.I need to know if I should ask him out or if I should wait for him to. Another thing is we are pretty much two different people, he's into dirtbikes but i'm a lot more skater emo...you know like im not at all girly no skirts or tank tops. and that might be the kind of girl he ikes girly!!. ohh and im taller than him and never have had a boyfriend or even kissed a guy and he has a ton of times!!! well he has given me a stuffed tiger befor (which i kinda sleep with EVERY NIGHT!) I just need to know my next few steps into actually having a relationship with this guy. I plan on hinting to a point that i got some feelings for him by not actually tell him i do.. if that makes any sense at all. All i know is i'm crazy about him (and i've only really like one other guy before) and that i really need some advice befor i totally screw this up!! So can someone please help me out a bit???
Hey there,
It does not matter what you look like, if you are opposites, or if you are taller. People can date anybody and if he is somebody you would like to date, then go for it! If you feel you have the courage to ask him out... do it girl! Theres nothing more atractive than a girl with confidence (if he doesn't see this, he is blind). Casually say "I really like the tiger you gave me" and then ask him if he would like to hang out sometime.
If you do not feel comfortable asking him, then give him hints such as: winking at him, sitting beside him, complimenting him, going for a walk with him, or sending him a cute note. You have to let him know you would like to be good friends before you can ever become boyfriend/girlfriend. I do believe that opposites attract, so just give it a shot. If you think he is worth it, then he is worth it. You never know who you would like to date, until you've actually dated them and you won't screw anything up by telling him how you feel. He probably likes you too since he already got you an awesome Tiger. Hint to him how you feel when you are around him and he will likely tell you how he feels inside too
Ok, i had sex a very long time ago. my girl friend of 10 months still thinks im a virgin. what should i do.
Hi,
Very simple, logical solution to this: Tell Her The Truth!
If you really love her and have been with her for this long... then she should be able to trust you and know you are there for her and her alone. If you do not tell her, she is bound to find out sooner or later and then you will be in a bigger situation. Telling her now will let her know you care for her, that you want to be honest with her, and that she can trust you. If she finds out this info from a source that isn't you... she will know that you kept this from her, be very disappointed, and will have trust issues with you for quite some time.
Take her to a place where it is just the two of you and let her know the truth. She probably will be mad that you didn't tell her this to begin with, so let her know that you are also sorry and you hope this won't affect your relationship. This is a big thing to keep from a girl. Honesty will get you far in a relationship, as long as you use it
So , I met this guy online , and we met up and it was alright. Later on, he started talking to me about how he won't do anything to hurt me and sex is just a bonus , he only goes out with girls he knows he can have a future with. So , he told me his only ex , was killed in service and so he told me he had sex with her the first night , and then he is telling me that he wants to have that same feeling with having sex just as fast. He goes on and says how he was suppose to marry , heres an example ,
given how we are talking all the time... and the fact you make me feel the same connection I had with a girl I would have married.... I just know
seee... again...
Is this something I should be worried about , I don't want to end up hurting , but its starting to get on my nerves telling me these things...
what do you think?
PLEASE HELP
THANK YOU ,
BETTY
Hey there,
It sounds as if you've gotten yourself in a tight spot... He sounds like the type of guy who would just get to know a girl to use her and have sex with her. If he doesn't want to hurt you, then why would he want sex as a bonus and still want to be with his ex? It sounds fishy to me (not good).. If he keeps telling you about all these sexual things he wants to do with you, before you even know him... he is not looking for a real relationship with any girl. A guy who cares will not want to do sexual things with you immediately and put all these thoughts in your head.
A guy who has any respect for women will want to make you feel special, will not make you worried, and will save all the sexual talk until you know you can trust him and are in a real relationship. Real relationship meaning: you know almost everything about one another (so you aren't worried about any unplanned shockers), you care for and respect eachother (not just using one another), and you understand eachothers boundaries/feelings.
I believe this is someone you should stop seeing. If he only talks about sex and wants to lie already, he is not a person you will want to be around. You are young. Save yourself before you get yourself into something undoable... People you meet online almost never are who they say they are. If what he says is already starting to bother you... there must be something already wrong about this situation. Trust your gut feeling
This is pretty long if I go in detail so I will try to sum it up for you. I am 21 years old and my boyfriend is 22. I have been dating my boyfriend for almost a year and a half now. We rarely fight and if we do they are for legitimate reasons. But one thing that has bugged me since we started dating was his lack of showing me he loves me. I am not materialistic and I don't expect to be bought things all the time and wined and dined. But I do expect him to show some love on days like my birthday or Valentines Day, and our One Year Anniversary. My birthday we had been dating four months and he got me nothing and even threw a tantrum saying he was tired when we went out to celebrate my 21st when it was only 11 PM and we had been out for one hour. So we left and went home, which deep down upset me because it was MY birthday! Then Valentines Day came around and he told me 3 days before it that we shouldn't get eachother anything because he thinks Valentine's Day is overrated. Our one year anniversary we did absolutely nothing! He said he was broke and we would do something another time, but it has been 3 months since that and everytime I bring it up nicely he just blows it off and says sometime we will. I have been in several long relationships before him lasting 2 to 3 years each and all of those have been the same way. I always see other guys in relationships with their girlfriends taking cute pictures, celebrating anniversaries, and being taken out or even having their men cook for them on their birthdays. I don't want to be whiny and sound materialistic, but I feel like when I cook for him EVERYDAY and do his laundry, clean up his messes, and always do something special for him even on days that aren't his birthday or a holiday, that I should get something back in return! It's VERY frustrating and it is started to make me pull away from him. I don't want to TELL him what I want because then it doesn't feel special, but even if I hint towards it he just blows it off and acts like it is not important. Is he just not the right type of guy for me? Why are most guys like this? And what is the difference between the guy I am with and the other guys that really actually do sweet things for the girls they love?
Hey there,
It sounds as if your guy really doesn't care about you. If he has you do his chores and pick up after him without him giving you any real respect, then he is basically a child that wants you as his mother, not his girlfriend. I am surprised that he had a tantrum on your birthday. The least he could of done was say "Happy Birthday" and spend a few hours with you. Also, any guy who says Valentines Day is overrated and doesn't take in consideration that you care about these things, isn't worth your time. It sounds as if you just meet the wrong guys.. and believe me, there are waay more wrong guys than right in this world.
Him blowing you off is another big sign that he doesn't care about you or what you do for him. A guy who loves you will: make time for you, do little things to show he cares, and there will be equal participation on both sides. You definately are right that with all the effort you put in, he should give back. You are being used. He just keeps you around for service, not love. I don't blame you for wanting to pull away; any guy who doesn't care about you/treat you right is not worth your time.
Most guys are like this, for they have been raised to not really give a crap about other peoples business or their friends taught them to be this way. The difference between the guy you are with and other guys that do sweet things, is that they have a loving heart, they appreciate women, they are confident in themselves (so they don't put down others to make themselves feel better), and they really care about their life (they put an effort into making it better). You are with the wrong guy right now. Your real love will do wonderful things for you and not question why he did it. You shouldn't let in just any guy because you feel lonely; you have to know that he will act, feel, and treat you the way you treat him. Someone who makes you laugh, spends quality time with you, and has you feeling good inside... that will be your perfect guy
okay all my friends say that i should go out with another friend i have you see cause were always getting into fights that dont last more then a day and everyone says we should just get togeather but idk if i like him like that and then we sit togeather and when we fight i tell him to leave but he never leaves and he always tells me he loves me and hes always with me and they say he tries to make me jelous by talking about my cuz that he hasnt seen and my bestfriend now is that a crush or is he just weird like that ???????
Hey there,
It sounds as if this guy is just attached to you, not in love with you. If you feel he isn't a guy that you would be interested in, then don't bother. A guy should treat you much better than that if you do want to date him and just because you sit together doesn't mean there is a relationship forming. If you two are having real fights on a daily basis (not teasing ones) and he is annoying you, that is another good sign to stay away. I believe it is possible he may have a crush on you, for some guys are jerks only because they like you. This could be the slight case here. I'm not saying this is a reason to like him and I am positive that people should trust their instincts. This could be infatuation too, but believe me... it doesn't sound like love
I went to my doctor because my vagina was itchy and weird and he said I had a yeast infection. We were talking and he told me that if I had gotten soap up there when I was washing then it could have started the infection basically. Ok, so does that mean I shouldn't be washing with soap in my vagina? I'm confused because I thought you were supposed to put soap in there and squish it around to get things clean and not smelly? Please, help. I don't want to call back and sound like an idiot. I just didn't think of it at the time of the appointment because of everything going on.
Hey there,
You can use soap to wash down there, but it has to be a soap made expecially for the vaginal area. One of the main kinds is called vagisil. It will be found in the aisle where they carry feminine hygiene products. You aren't suppose to put a soap in your vagina, just on it. Putting anything in it that you aren't suppose to will cause a rash or infection. There are a few unscented products that you can use on your vagina, but if you aren't sure if it is right for that, then do not use it. It will say 'vaginal product' or something simular on the bottle to let you know if it is safe. Scented products can cause a lot of irritation which is uncomfortable.
Yeast infections can go away pretty quickly if you take the meds the doctor gave you or use something like Canesten. Never be afraid to ask your doctor about vaginal problems; the sooner you find out if there is something wrong, the quicker it will be resolved. Asking about your health problems doesn't make you an idiot, it makes you more informed which in turn makes you more intelligent
ima 17 yr old fm i got everything i could possibly want and so unhappy and idk y someone plz help me
Hey there,
If you have everything, yet you know of nothing that makes you happy... then you don't know what true happiness is. Everyone has something in their life that makes them happy, whether it is a friend, family, music, or a hobby. No matter who the person is, there is something there that they don't notice and should be grateful to have. Happiness can be found anywhere. Only you can figure out what that one thing is. So until you find out what it is, no one here can help you. Search outside your boundaries and you will find happiness
I am in a relationship. My boyfriend talks about having sex
but, he never pressures me or anything like that. But, how do I tell him that I want my first time to be a little meaningful Ya kmow? I think he would understand but i don't know how to say it to him...? He has only did it once. But, I want my first time to be sort of special. Not at a party or anything like that. How do I tell him?
Hey there,
Yea, I know what you mean. Tell your guy that you would love to have that moment with him, but you would love it even more if he took his time on you and built up your pleasure. Girls do take a bit longer to get aroused than guys, so if you let him know you would love more foreplay beforehand, I am sure he will be happy to oblige.
If he says he prefers sex rough, then let him know that if he makes you happy, he will be more satisfied in the moment. It is all about communication; sometimes guys don't have that... If you want to have an awesome first time: have him give you lots of foreplay, let him know what you love the most (cuddling, kissing, touching), and be honest with him. Tell him when you love what he is doing and don't hold back if you don't. If a guy really loves you, he will likely want to make the moment last as long as possible. Tell him since he is your first, you would love for him to make you feel truly loved, not just sexed. He should get the hint
I have be with my boyfriend for almost two monthes. I really want to kiss him. I just don't know when a good time to do it. I don't want him to feel like I don't wanna kiss him cause I do.. So when would be a good time to just lean in and kiss him..?
Hi!
A good time to kiss a guy, is right after you've had a great night together. If you have had a great night, you both will be more likely to want to kiss the other person. After you've had that great time, right when you are looking into eachothers eyes, when you want to lean in closer to him (he will probably want to too), or you want to say something but nothing comes out and you feel that inner connection... That is the best moment to lean in and go for it girl! You know what I mean? The time when you both are so comfortable with eachother and you feel as if a kiss should just happen soon ;)
Having a setting you both are used to, an awesome conversation, or just sitting near him will make you feel closer and have him wanting to have that one moment of bliss with you as well. If you ever think he doesn't want a kiss (trust me he does) or it will be the wrong time, no worries. He will love a kiss no matter when it comes.
There is no absolute wrong or right time, if you are feeling the moment and you think he is feeling it too... he most likely is! Trust your instincts, they will tell you when the moment is perfect
How can i tell the guy im with that i want to live together with him without scaring him?
Hey there,
You have to do let him know you want to move in slowly. There are two ways you can do this:
1. When you go to visit him at his house, bring some of your things and then when you go to step out the door, leave something small behind in his room. You could always say 'do you mind if I leave this here?' and then place it somewhere or you could sneak it to the side of his bed or by his bathroom sink. As you come for a few more visits, start leaving bigger things behind. This will allow him to gradually be comfortable having your things around and have him feel like he is already sort of living with him. Stay over for a few nights; then you could tell him that you were thinking, since you are getting closer and you both feel like things are going well, that you were wondering if he is open to letting you move in. See what he says and if he isn't sure, just say 'I would like to be closer to you'. I am sure he will give it a good thought.
Otherwise, there is always option two. Which is, telling him straight. If you are polite and tell him nicely how you feel when around him, I am sure he will be up for anything. This is kind of a bold thing to do, but if your guy is already comfortable and open to you there shouldn't be any problem. Just bring it up casually and see if he feels the same way. Maybe he already thinks the idea of you moving in is great :) You will never know unless you go for it
I'm 16/f, he's 17/m (obviously...). He's from a town about 20 mins away in a different state. Let's call him Jake. One of my good friends Carrie has known Jake since they were in diapers, and she brought him to one of our dances last year (just as friends). He had a gf at the time, and I didn't really think much of him then. Four months ago, she had him and his friend Eric go to her birthday party, which I also attended. He acted much more like himself this time around, and I thought he just seemed like a really fun guy. (I believe he was single by this time, and Carrie ended up going out with Eric.) About a month later, she had another party, which I went to, and so did Jake and Eric. After the party, I developed a bit of a thing for him. He was just soooo so funny and really sweet and unlike anyone I'd ever met. Eric plays football, so Carrie asked me about a month after the party if I would like to go to one of his games with her. Of course, I said yes. So I went, and we had to pick up Jake on the way. After the game, I was basically sold. I fell for him COMPLETELY. I gave him my number that night (I amazed even myself with that) and he gave me his. He texted me maybe once or twice. A week later, I went to the next game, and he was there. We hung out at Carrie's house for a little while after, and I fell for him even harder. Then we started texting every day. He was always the one to text me first, and he would say the nicest things to me. A week or two went by and he told me that he liked me, and I told him that I liked him too. He said he wanted to get to know me better, which I completely understand. It's been a month since i've seen him, and we still text every day. He's an absolute sweetheart to me :) Next week, he's coming to my school's dance as my date (matching colors and all). I'm really, really nervous cause it's my first real date with a guy. Things seem to be going pretty well, right? Well there are a few problems. One, his ex. He broke up with her, and things did NOT end very well. I just have an odd feeling he still has a bit of a thing for her. Two, other girls. Girls FLOCK to him. He's the kind of guy that is sweet to everyone and always puts other people before himself. Some things he says to other girls make me jealous, and I'm really afraid he's going to end up giving me the slip and asking out one of these other girls. I don't really know what I'm asking, but any input whatsoever would be greatly appreciated. And if you want any more info, just let me know :) I just don't exactly know how to feel right now. I don't want to get my hopes up really high just to have them shot down.
Hey there,
He sounds like a very sweet guy. So, I think if Jake had a bad break up with his girlfriend, I doubt he still wants to be with her. He has probably moved on and doesn't want to think about that day again. Guys have feelings like girls and if someone hurt him, I doubt he still wants to be with her. I believe you are just having a worry moment inside of you and you should try and brush it off, for it sounds like he is definately more interested in you.
Other girls flock him? That just shows he is a really nice, fun, outgoing guy. You aren't actually dating him officially are you? If you are just taking him to a dance as a date, it really doesn't mean he has to be stuck on you all the time. It sounds like he is still a free guy (one date doesn't mean you are together). If you do want him though, you should keep him close (continue texting/talking to him), try to have one on ones often (talking and getting together), and let him know the night of the dance that you would like to be more than his date that night. Casually ask him nicely and be sure to smile. If you don't ask him, he may just as well ask someone else out. Not asking him is getting your hopes up. If you like a (single) guy, you don't let him go... you work for him. Never be afraid to go after something you want in life, the results are often amazing
I need to draw a picture to go with this quote:
"We were created in love, and now were born into hate."
Nothing to overly complicated or detailed. Thanks.
Hey there,
I am not sure how easy or hard you want it, but heres some ideas. You could draw a baby coming out of a red heart, then a teen coming out of a black heart.
Or if you want something more difficult, you could draw a person looking into a mirror. Draw the person angry clenching their fists (on the right side), then in the reflection (on the left side, being the first picture) draw a smiling baby with his fists closed inside of a heart
does toothpaste really work on pimples???? i have 2 really big ones and i need them 2 go away fast. i have put my jacket on my face all day tryin 2 hide it.
Hey there,
Yes, toothpaste does work slightly to get rid of pimples. On the internet it says that if you have a true toothpaste, not a gel, with minimal additives, it can be effective. Apply it to the pimple then leave it overnight and wash it off in the morning. This may work and it may not, it all depends on your skin type, the toothpaste, and the pimple. Natural or organic toothpastes work best since they have a minimal ingredient list.
One very effective way I find that reduces the size of a pimple and helps it to go away faster, is to run very warm water over a spoon and then press the hot spoon against the pimple. Hold it there for about ten seconds and the heat from the spoon will make the pimple smaller and less noticable. Otherwise, if you can.. find an acne product with salicylic acid and apply that to your acne. It works very effectively to get rid of any pimples within a day or so
How many high school couples actually end up getting married? My boyfriend and I were talking about getting married in a couple of years when we both graduate and he said we'd probably be one of the few that make it out together. I was curious what the percentage of that actually is for high school couples. Everybody seems so in love and I think it's sad is like nobody ever gets married out of high school. Anybody knows the numbers on that?
Hey there,
Only 2% of couples actually get married to their high school sweetheart and stay together. I agree it would be nice if more couples did this. I believe the rate is so low, for teens tend to want to be with someone just to say they are with someone, to impress their buddies, or because they just need a good friend at that time (they aren't thinking long-term). I am not saying people are always this way, just some make better decisions in relationships than others.
My boyfriend and I are very happy together and even though we haven't talked about marriage yet, I am sure we would make a great couple. It all depends on your boyfriends devotion to you (having a connection), where he plans to move/go to school after graduating (being in separate cities can be a huge factor in the end result), how often you keep in contact with eachother (with no fighting), and how much effort you both put into making it work (such as supporting his goals as well as your own). I believe it is definately possible that you could find your love in high school, you just have to be positive that he is the one. 2% ... you never know, you could be one of the few