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How can i tell the guy im with that i want to live together with him without scaring him?
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Hey there,
You have to do let him know you want to move in slowly. There are two ways you can do this:
1. When you go to visit him at his house, bring some of your things and then when you go to step out the door, leave something small behind in his room. You could always say 'do you mind if I leave this here?' and then place it somewhere or you could sneak it to the side of his bed or by his bathroom sink. As you come for a few more visits, start leaving bigger things behind. This will allow him to gradually be comfortable having your things around and have him feel like he is already sort of living with him. Stay over for a few nights; then you could tell him that you were thinking, since you are getting closer and you both feel like things are going well, that you were wondering if he is open to letting you move in. See what he says and if he isn't sure, just say 'I would like to be closer to you'. I am sure he will give it a good thought.
Otherwise, there is always option two. Which is, telling him straight. If you are polite and tell him nicely how you feel when around him, I am sure he will be up for anything. This is kind of a bold thing to do, but if your guy is already comfortable and open to you there shouldn't be any problem. Just bring it up casually and see if he feels the same way. Maybe he already thinks the idea of you moving in is great :) You will never know unless you go for it <3
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