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My boyfriend & I were trying to figure out how we can get a condom. We're both ready to have sex, but neither one of us has our license [we are 16, just don't have them for certain reason]. So, what are some ways that we can get some? And please don't say they have them in the bathrooms at certain stores, because those are very cheap & break easy. We want to be safe- not have a baby. (link)
Do you have friends? did you ask them?
Be like yo, can i have a condom? or get me some condoms or whatever.


Ok i have a few questions:

*I am 13/f, i am around 5 ft. 4 inches and i weigh 102 pounds, I always feel like i am overweight-am I?
*Do any guys like red hair? I have naturally red hair (kind of strawberry blonde...and kind of auburn?..) and i've tried dying it, but the red always comes through. Do you think red heads are ugly? or... what do you think? also... do you think long hair or short hair is better?
*I have fair skin, and i really don't tan, if i do, its really little, and i have tried a bunch of fake tanning crap-but that's all it looks like is fake! Do you find fair skin unnatractive?
*One last question: I haven't had my first kiss yet, and I have no idea what to do, but I'm pretty sure it's gonna happen soon! What are some things you like that people do when you're kissing?

yeah i'm really making myself sound like a big nerd in this! lol

please answer these questions for me!
thanks a ton!
*i rate*
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your fine, anyone who finds flaws in you is just trying to cover there own imperfections. stop worring and start liveing.
*no
*i dont think guys are too particular about hair, red is fine.
*fair skin, fine.
*personally i just like to have a romatic you will always be in my arms type setting.


i recently started to get into magic. like coin and card tricks. and i want to buy a book online that can teach me some really nice tricks to do with real coins and a normal deck of cards. i need a website that sells this kinda stuff.

all 5's. (link)
if you have aim, write me and talk. The name is brainyallstar . IF not just write in the feedback and i will send you the site.


can someone get your ip addres from aim/aol. And if they do can they mess with your computer and give it viruis. My friend told me that they can. Is he right? (link)
Yes. its very possible. For aim being hard to hack, they mean aim itself. and AOL is hackable. OH but back to the ip. i know about 3 ways to easily get it off of you and once i have it i have your computer. the hacker can send viruses, trogans and whatever suites the hackers needs.
Firewalls help only when the hacker in question is inexperienced, lazy, or unknowledgeable. If not your screwed.
However, it is unlikely you will ever meet a true hacker, one that cares enough to hack your computer. Dont worry there are ways to prevent it, and safety measures but im not going into them as this is getting quite long....peace out


Whats the difference between love and lust?? (link)
to teens these days....4 letters. really its just the emotional attatchment involved.


GUYS ONLY ANSWER PLEASE THXok well im a realy hyper person and funny always making joke you kno that type of person but i want to take it down a noch or two cause its starting to bother me a ltl but heres the real q wich personality do guy like most please mostly guy answer thx (link)
you sound fine as long as your fun to be around. Smart is always good too.


ok i don't totally get this. can someone please explain the problem to me step by step. Thanks btw i know the answers 3w to the 3rd power (the back of the book said so)

-3/7(-w to the 2nd power)(7w) (link)
ok well its just multiplying.
first of all 7 is the same as 7/1. so the first thing i would do is multiply -3/7 and 7/1. you do this by multiplying -3 by 7. then divideing by 7. this equals negative 3. now multiply the -w^2 and w to get w^3 now you just combine the -3 and -w^3 to get 3w^3....
if you need a better explaination leave one in my inbox. i dont know how you wanted it broken down. or instant message me on brainyallstar


I'm a freshman and i'm going to homecoming for my school and i'm soooo excited. My friends and i were gonna go dress shoppin n everything together. but like my mom wants me to get a dress at Good will! some girl was makin fun of her friend for gettin a dress at good will! n i wanna go shoppin with them and get a nice dress. but my family is kinda poor. what do i do?
i rate 5's (link)
make your own dress


who has a screen name that would like to talk? if you do, what is it and i will add u and talk to you! (link)
brainyallstar here.


Which is your favorite?
The two most popular American brands have been battling each other since before the Hoover administration. Just thought i'd take a poll and see what you think..which is the best ride
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Both are good. My mom and dad work at chevy and my uncle at ford.


my stepdad is always playing pranks on me. like at friendlys when i wasnt looking he cut a hole in my straw so i couldnt drink and he made me look to the side and then threw a piece of paper at me. and he says hes got the next prank for when we go again so i want ot heave a prank too so if someone could give me a good prank at friendlys that would be great. (nothing about changing his order) (link)
i regard myself as a master pranker so Aim me : Brainyallstar.
ok when your at the store point behind him and say "hey when did they get that?" now when he looks slip some laxative in his drink. If you want something else aim me.


Do you think its okay to teach your child to hit someone back if they hit him first? (link)
wtf ever happened to "turn the other cheek".
Yea if he's going to get hurt really bad then he should put a stop to it. Watch what you tell your kids they take it literally.


The following questions are not really being asked so that I can be advised about my own beliefs, but rather to (hopefully) stimulate discussion.

Anyway, my first question is this:

Many people believe that God must exist because the universe itself exists. In essence, they believe that the universe was caused by something, and that cause was God. The argument assumes three things. 1. It assumes existence is necessarily caused. 2. It assumes that existence was caused by a conscious, intelligent being.

Now, it seems to me that the idea that the cause is conscious and intelligent, and even a being, is open to question. Maybe the cause is some transcendant FORCE? The first assumption, as well, is questionable. No one is sure if we have every really observed existence being caused. We have seen things change forms, but not pop into existence. Not only that, but theories in quantum physics hold that subatomic particles often appear out of nowhere, with no cause. Many events in the subatomic realm are said to be uncaused. This seems to openly refute the first assumption.

Do you agree or disagree with this? Discuss.

The second argument I'd like to make is in regards to the other big argument for God, that being the argument of design. It basically states that because life is so complex, it couldn't have arisen from chance and it had to be designed.

My objections to this are as follows:
1. If complex life must have been designed by some intelligent force, then the designer (being intelligent) must also have been designed. The designers would have to go back into an infinite regression. This is hardly a plausible idea, because it needlessly multiplies entities without any reason for supposing their existence.

2. The theory of evolution shows how life can evolve from simpler organisms without any intentional design. This is not caused by 'random chance', but by the forces of natural selection, genetic drift, and sexual selection, among others. None of these selection mechanisms are "random". The mutations are random, but the species that survive are not chosen at random.

Is there an adequate way to defend the design theory against these arguments? How would you do so?

Another common argument (this is the last one) is that, given the Big Bang theory, the chances of this specific life-supporting universe originating have such small odds of happening that it seems absurd to say it happened by pure chance.

My objections:
1. Simply because the probability is very low for this given universe doesn't mean that it is IMPOSSIBLE for the universe to form this way by chance.

2. If we were to emphasize the chances of a universe being created that had, say, a lot of big, gaseous planets like jupiter and very few like Earth, this would also be very improbable. The point is that emphasizing life seems arbitrary. Any other possible outcome would be just as improbable.

3. Your own existence is very improbable as well. Think about it. You were composed of a specific sperm out of millions and a specific egg out of thousands. Your parents, grand-parents, and all your other ancestors for however old humans have been around were also subject to this very low probability of being born. If we factor in the chance of each of your relatives meeting and the chances of them having sex at a particular time, the chances become even lower for your own existence. Given all these variables (and there are many more), the chances of your existence are VERY improbable. Does this mean that you weren't created through sexual reproduction (a process of "random" selection among sperm and eggs) but that some being--maybe a stork?--guided you into existence?

Obviously, the fine-tuning argument fails for the reasons the stork argument fails. Do you agree or disagree? Why or why not?

Feel free to pick and choose objects of discussion. Hopefully there will be some interesting responses to give me something to think about! (link)
if you want more arguements instant message me. the name is brainyallstar.
My newest response to those who dont believe in god and expect me to "prove it" to them is...
"Do you believe in love. Prove it."
And some say love is a chemical thing in the brain designed to keep a species reproducing and my response to that is, What about the love for your parents and children and brothers and sisters(meaning not attration love).


well my friend asked me a question and it say that I have 1 new in my inbox but when I click on it and when I get to the page it says I have no unanswered questions? waht do I do about this? (link)
that happened to me...just go to your email.


This is the first question I've asked on here. I've answered a few questions, but this is the first I've asked. Here it is: It seems to me like people wanting advice should accept what's offered and "take it or leave it." I've read so many questions that end with, "and don't tell me to ______ because of _______." Not a problem. If people don't want certain types of advice (i.e. silly, stupid, sarcastic, etc.) then that would be fine. But what it seems to be most of the time is a legitimate answer. If someone is having a problem with something, doesn't it make sense to explore all options? It seems to me that some people (not the majority by any means) have something they want to hear and won't accept anything but that. Am I alone in this thought? (link)
im with ya.


... how do you KNOW when you really and truly 'love' someone? (link)
if you would dive on an explosive just so they live. If you would without hesitation dive infront of any deadly object coming towards them where you knew you were going to die. If you would learn an unmanageable task just to be with them. If you are contempt if life suddenly stops. If the sight of them will make every negative thought ever perspired by yourself rendered completely pointless. If yes to all then you MAY POSSIBLY be in love.


im 13/f and i am a very strong believing catholic. i masterbate once in a while. im wondering if that is a sin. i read in books and stuff that its completley natural but i wanna make sure that its not a catholic sin. please help. i rate high!! (link)
Personally, i consider it a sin against the church and not so much as god because god never said we shouldnt or at least not in the bible. Sry if this is confusing but yea its a sin. Heres a key to go by for catholics.
if its fun, stop,its a sin.


Would it be possible if a 14 yearold boy would like a 12 year old girl? She's sorta developed for her age. Or is it a waste of time?

Friend wanted to know (link)
Yup very possible.


Is it abnormal for a guy to like Full House? Like, from the first season to the end, having seen nearly every episode? I've only seen one other guy who watches it, so I don't know whether it's something to discuss... thanks. And if the answer is no, please don't me a smartass about it. I know that I may be metro. I don't care. (link)
My advice to you is to watch Family guy, Futurama, aqua teen, and the simpsons. I'm not to sure that watching the show makes you metro. Retro maybe but not metro. I dont know many channels that still play Full House so if you do talk about it only like 2 ppl will know what your talking about.


I need help because my computer is messed up or i think.i cabt get on any program on my desqtop, every time i click on something a pop up comes up saying open with and then a list of things come up, and i t=dont know what to do.

please help


jalisco. (link)
write my aim s/n Brainyallstar and i might be able to help. I can tell the problem from here so write and i'll help.




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