HI!!im caramella,id love to give advice for those who need it.You might not always like my answers but i dont care about ratings,cuz if i tell you something you want to hear all the time,and i get rated high and you end up making a big mistake,rating aint gonna solve the problem then.I want to tell you guys to think before you act and look before you leap in order not to make misttakes,if you have made mistakes NEVER regret it,regrets are a waste of time and happiness and wont change what happened,BUT it will give you expereince and teach you not to do it again and refine your future^_^regret over wasted time is more wasted time.
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I hate my family!
Everyone always takes my little sisters side because she is handicap and 8 and im 15.
"oh kelsey your so immature for fighting with her"
" can you just learn how to learn to shutup"
"leave her alone"
they always catch me doing something.
they never catch her and she is soo annoying.
she pisses me off so much.
and when i hit her its just a tap and she crys and crys and crys!
like i punched her in the face (i wish)
you know everyone feels to sorry for her because she cant walk.
other then not walking she is perfectly normal, like she can talk fine, just like a normal person.
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no one sees that, and its pissing me off.
because i cant tell her dad off without my mom yelling at me and my mom knows im right.
the only person in this family that i CAN trust is my older sister because she's already been through problems with my mom's bf. she she actually had the balls to punch him and got charged with simple battery.
please tell me what to do because im about to go crazy.
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OMG you HIT a handicapped person!?!?!how cruel can people GET!!Well ofcourse your parents are going to treat her better,handicapped people need more attention,more care,more love!!If they dont get the attenion and care they need,they end up mentally hurt and depressed!And when you hit her,she cries her ass off because shes THAT sensitive,thats how they are!!YOu should be more mature then that you said your 15 and shes EIGHT!!WOW!!!Shes a little girl!!!My god!!dont be so immature and treat her kindly and whatever shit she does to you,try to be more open minded and understanding and put in mind shes handicapped.
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There is this boy that i like and he likes me 2 but wen he gets around his friends he starts talking about me and my crew but wen it is just me and him he tells me how beautiful i am and how smart but idk if he is going 2 be nice 2 me 1 sec but the next talk about me and my friends how will our relationship Go if we ever become bf/gf please give me advice (female,14) (link)
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theres 2 possibelities here ONE either hes completly taking advantage of your feelings and goes bragging about how he made you love him to his freinds and how hes using you or TWO he has no personality and not the right type to be bf/gf with.If he has no personality that means when his freinds start talking bout you guys he just goes with the flow in fear of feeling leaft out from his freinds.BOTH ways,i dont think this relationship will go on if thei guy dont change.Talk to him one last time and talk ROUGH dont be all sweet and nice when confronting him or eles youll get nowhere.If he dont change dump him and look for another guy because you know you desserve better.
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my boyfriendd really wants to finger me. neither of us have before .. ive givenn a hj hes gotten one and then hooking up and all that junkk.. but i don't know what to expectt on this one. like what am i supposed to do? how much is it going to hurt? what happenss if/when like he pops my cherry or something lol idk i feel raelly stupid asking this but i dont knoww anything about this. im kinda scared but i lovee him and im ready to move onn . help! xo (link)
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if he pops your cherry you are no longer a virgin so i suggest you think twice before doing anything so you dont end up regreting it.
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okay so i need a song...me and my fiance want the perfect song and we cant find one so if anyone has any ideas please tell me..i love him alot alot so please pick a good one? (link)
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theres alot of good romantic songs like
-keep holding on by avril lavigne
-innocence by avril lavigne
-my all mariah carey
***were a miracle by christina aguilera(i think this tops them all off)
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Hi, so I'm a high school girl and there's this guy I really like and think he's like the sweetest guy ever and is really gorgeous, but he's like 3 years younger than me (I just turned 18 he's 15). Many ppl would normally be like "eeeww that's weird" (and I usually would never consider a younger guy either). But he's actually really mature, like more mature than most of the guys I know my age. But also, the other thing is that I've only known him for about like a month and a half and have only hung out with him like once at a concert where he totally saved my life (where he like held me in the mosh pit because I felt dizzy), but have talked to him a billion times since then, AND am going to prom with him in like 2 weeks.....idk what to do and I'dask my friends but they'd prolly be like "ahh he's too young don't bother" Do you think I should tell him how much I like him? And is he too young?
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i dont think you should go for him,hes young and probably doesnt know what he wants,most guys at this age like variety of girls and dont like sticking to one girl specificly and love flirting.You might need a older guy that knows what he wants so he can treat you right.But...if you reaaaly like him...tell him but you must take the consenquences of your actions,noone can tell you what to do in this situation,do what makes you happy.If he turns out not liking you or breaking your heart,remember...hes a KID and kidsd make mistakes
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I cannot afford prada or abercrombie what do i do seriously? (link)
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ok first of all not alot of ppl can get prada stuff,its mad expensive and not even worth it,its soooooooo plain and a handbag thats like really small can be for 500dollars,for WHAT.abercrombie is nice,not that expensive.IF you wana get that then you can save some money and get it.Its not a big deal that you buy designer brand stuff,some stuff are great and theyre not branded.
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hmm... i love to work out then relax by tanning.
what are some songs that i can download onto my ipod
that have an upbeat like:
"bounce" by timbaland and
"breaking the habit" by linkin park
that are relaxing like:
"how to save a life" by the fray
"faraway" by nickelback
"dont wanna say goodbye" by jagged edge
i like rap, rock, hiphop, etc. (link)
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PETRIFIED by fort minor(if u like linkin park ull LUV THIS SONG)
whered you go by fort minor
nobodys listening by linkin park
if everyone cared by nickelback
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What are some songs that talk about like, not fitting in, not belonging, being alone, not having anyone, or just kind of depressing songs?
Thanks.
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haha ok well theres unwanted by avril lavigne,forgotten by avril lavigne,truth beneath the rose by within temptation,ESPECIALLY destroyed by within temptation
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I was wondering if anybody knew of a site that you could buy 100% authentic big designer purses such as Coach, Dooney, Gucci, Prada, etc. from that are cheaper, kinda like an outlet online? Because there are 2 outlets near me, but there both 2 hours away. I would rather pay a couple $$ more to get it shipped than drive all the way there. Thanks sooo much! Oh, and please dont say Ebay! You really cant tell if they are real or fake on ebay, thanks again! (link)
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www.amazon.com
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Well im gonna go short.In DEEPLY in Love with my Best friend but he has a gf.I reallly want to tell him how i feel but im scared:(.plz guys tell me what to do..i really really really like him.Do you think theres something i can do to make him leave her??or i dunno plz just hepl out:'( (link)
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I think you should not do anything to risk losing your freindship with this guy.You telling him how you feel might make you lose your freindship with this guy,he can be all like ok..imma keep away from her so she dont like me more.I think you should try to get over this because if he liked you back the way you did,i dont think hed have a girlfreind.I know you might not like this answer but this is reality.If you make him leave her then karma will bite you back.What goes around ccomes around and one day someone will break you up with the guy you love.Just find another guy that will take his place im sure that youll find him but if you tell ur freind how you feel,youll lose your freindship,your dignity and your pride
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okay so theres this guy i like and he likes me back. hes in highschool right now, and i will be next year. but, hes being all annoying and he wont start up anything with me until next year, when i join him in highschool. i really like this boy, but ive started hanging out with another boy that i like as well and he also likes me. im not sure if i should start something up withhh boy 2 and be all like disloyal to boy 1 or whattt. help please!
mucho loves ;] (link)
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i 100% think you should go for guy two and to HELL with guy one.Ill tell you why.YOU shouldnt wait for ANYONE cuz his feelings next year WILL change when he sees another cute ass girl in his class hes gonna totally forget you,next years too far away.The guy that likes you and wants you NOW is the one you should go for.
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I love my bf and I feel like we still have a major connection. We've been going out for about a year and we haven't really done anything. I want him to touch my boobs but I don't want it to go too much farther than that. What should i do? (link)
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I honestly dont think you should tell him that you want your boobs touched,cuz he might think your a slut.Probably the reason he hasnt done anything with you till now is because he respects you and doesnt want to do anything that might get you uncomfortable.I think that you should just let it come naturally,dont ask for it cuz youll seem desperate.
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so this guy i like who is 18 told me about a month ago that the only thing he really wanted was sex. he didnt want a relationship. he wanted sex and that's it. He said we should hang out and get to "know each other" because we dont know each other that well. He said that honestly he isn't sure he'll fall for me or not, but the number one thing is sex. He didnt specifically say it. but THATS all ive noticed he talks about. So i talked to him & told him that he i dont respect him since obviously he doesnt respect me. So now it's become a little bit of a fight and he understands what i mean. So now he doesnt want to have anything to do with me. I still like him though.
its difficult.
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wooow...well ill tell u what happened hear exactly...u made yourself cheaper then dust.He knew you liked him and he took advantage of that.You were all over him and so hes like hey,she likes me shell do anything i want so why not?And since you gave him that chance he used you for sex and now he might not even consider being with you,this is how some guys think they think that if she did it with me then she probably did it before and will do it again so i cant trust her.You shouldnt give it up to any guy like that!Damn!where are the modest girls at these days?!The only thing you can do now is totalllllly forget about him because if you go back to trying to get to him youll end up losing more dignity then you already did and he might even try to have sex with you AGAIN!Forget about this guy and never try this again.What you did was aim for his sexual side insteada his emotional side(which is the right side for making a guy like you)
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what songs make you want to be a better person, motivate you, make you feel determined, or inspire you? (link)
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breakaway by kelly clarkson
irreplaceable by beyonce(if u need confidence in gettin over a guy)
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so theres this kid. he's pretty much a slut. he's dated like every girl ive ever met. but there's a reason for that; he's really adorable/funny/witty/charming. for the past couple years ive thought he was a really despicable person but within the past three months we've been hanging out like nonstop. he picks me up and calls me every day. hes my friend now, but i like him. a lot. he flirts constantly and asks me out like every other day. when i say no he pretends to get really sad and he'll start laughing and trying to hug me and he'll be like "whyyyy?" i WANT to say yes but ive kept myself from doing it. he makes me so happy and sometimes all i want to do is kiss him. i mean, how bad of an idea is this? should i just go for it? keep in mind that this kid gets a new girlfriend like every month. but he is so amazing. i don't know how much longer i can keep saying no. (link)
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well you have to choices...since you like him so much and really cant take it then go for him BUT.....youll have to handle it if he were to break up with you a month after.Hes done it to other girls what makes you think he wont with you.Plus,hes probably done it with all them girls and has STD's and is willing to pass it on to you!OR you can say no and realize that this is only just a stage in your life thatl pass and youll get over him soo enough and later on youll be glad you didnt get with him.I,myself would never agree to go for a guy like that,i wouldnt care how sweet he is,a guy like him is afraid of commitment and wont stick to one girls he likes VARIETY,and thats not the type of guy you should have in a relationship.The choice is yours to make but youll have to handle the consenquences.
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I'm 15/f (well 15 this summer) and I've never had a boyfriend. Never had a first kiss or anything. I'm pretty (or so i've been told) I'm easy to get a long with and as long as you respect me then I'll respect you. But whats wrong with me? I've never been asked out or looked at in an affectionate way before. I know im only 15 and I shouldn't worry but all these chicks in my school are freaking ugly and have no self respect and they have boyfriends. So why can't I?
Please don't tell me "your time will come" I've heard that a million and one times.
One of my friends is so annoying and ugly, and she's just a pain in the ass and she's dating this guy in grade 12.
wtf. :( (link)
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First of all you make yourself seem sooo old.Your only 14.ALL you need is patience.You know,all them ugly girls that disrespect themselves only have boyfreinds because they act slutty and guys like sluts.If you want to be liked and have a boyfreind be a slut and im sure you wont do that.These girls lose so much in their life,they lose their self respect,their reputation,their VIRGINITY.The reason you dont got one now is because you still havent met the respectfull guy that doesnt care ONLY about a girl actig slutty.You need a guy thatll respect you and like you for your personality first then looks.
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Before I even start, I'd like to say that I'm seventeen, I think this situation is stupid, but I'm still at a loss and I need help.
I have quite a few best friends. Two of them told me this year that they are lesbians and they are together. I already knew this - and am totally okay with it. But now that they've come out to me about it, and even before them, the only conversation I get out of them is about their sex life. We never do anything together anymore - and I basically feel as if they don't need me.
I expressed how I felt on my xanga - my friend read it, as she would anything else, and then sent me a message on myspace asking me if it was about her and her girlfriend and I told her the truth - she wanted to know "what the hell" they did and I told her that it wasn't a big deal and that I was just feeling down.
Well - now she's arguing with me and making a big deal out of nothing. She takes EVERYTHING way too personally - but uses me as her vent and doormat, as if I'm inhuman and don't have any emotions.
What do I do? (link)
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Dont talk to them,theyre not your type.You need someone thatll appreciate you and treat you the way you desserve to be treated.How can be their doormat knowing your being used and still be their freinds??And plus they might be a bad influence cuz if one day they happen to break up what if one of them trys to go for you??Itd completly ruin your freindship.I think you should tell them ONE LAST TIME how you feel and what bothers you and if they dont change then tell them you know what this freindship is over cuz im noones doormat.
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I'm 15/f. I'd like to say I understand the people at my school but I can't. It seems as if all anyone cares about is getting drunk and having sex. It annoys me so much, I just don't understand why most of the girls seem like (in lack of a better word) sluts and all the guys are just pigs. My question is how do I put up with all of this when it's right in my face every day?
Thanks in advance...
-Puzzled (link)
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all you gotta do is not care about any of them.Just watch them make these mistakes and learn from it so you dont have to learn it the hard way like almost all of them do.Be the wise one outta them and never copy them.The only thing these girls are gonna gain is a bad reputation,STD'S,pregnancy,and a whole lot of regret when they break up with their boyfreinds that they had sex with that dumped them cuz they thought"hey...if she did it before shell do it again and im not the last one"
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Ok so I usually release some of my anger during football and wrestling. Now those are done. I need some ways to release the anger but punching a punching bags does not help. You have to understand i am 6'4 310 and strong i am always carefull cause i can actually kill someone and i am afraid that i will, and i really dont want to kill someone. I dont feel that i am going to kill someone not like that bu i keep my self calm all the time and all the anger is inside built up and if someone pushes the wrong button. god help them. I am not a pretty sight when i get mad which is rarly theres not many people if any who dont like me but still. So if you could help, i dunno meditate or something which i dont know will help but something. (link)
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mabey it could help if you open up to someone about how you feel.If you keep all your feelings botteled up youll for sure explode.Any small little thing that bothers you,complain about it to a person that you trust.Nothings worth you being so angry for,this feeling isnt going to get you anywhere so you need to chill a lil
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hello-
I'm 15/f and this is kinda a weird question.
but most people i know are baiscally a "type" like more prep, emo, athletic, gurliy..ya know? and well i'm everything i listen to emo/rock/rap/alternative. i'm most def. not a girly girl but some days i'm a total girly girl. it just depends on my mood that day. and i'm just everything and sometimes i worry people think i'm a poser or something cause i'm just so unique. i mean i'm friends with total preps, emo's, jocks and etc. but i'm starting to think that maybe being so diverse is a bad thing. cause sometimes i have my emo days and others my jock and prep. and i'm starting to think being so many differnent things is making people think i wanna be something i'm not and maybe thats why i've never had a bf. cause woudln't a guy want a girl who she knows who she is? cause i don't know what i am cause i'm everything. and i don't know if i should stay like this or try and lean towards one direction...should i try and stick with my emo/rock side or my athletic side or maybe the guy of my dreams wnats me to be the girly girl. i just have no clue what to do and i just need some help. i'm so lost in life right now.
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nothings wrong with changing the way you dress everyday,like you said it does depend on your mood.I can dress girly one day and the next day im like totally punk,so what?Sticking to one style is kind of boring dont you think?Its always good to change every now and then.Who CArEs WhAt others think man,what they think isnt really gonna change anything is it?
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