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I hate
I hate my family!
Everyone always takes my little sisters side because she is handicap and 8 and im 15.
"oh kelsey your so immature for fighting with her"
" can you just learn how to learn to shutup"
"leave her alone"
they always catch me doing something.
they never catch her and she is soo annoying.
she pisses me off so much.
and when i hit her its just a tap and she crys and crys and crys!
like i punched her in the face (i wish)
you know everyone feels to sorry for her because she cant walk.
other then not walking she is perfectly normal, like she can talk fine, just like a normal person.
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no one sees that, and its pissing me off.
because i cant tell her dad off without my mom yelling at me and my mom knows im right.
the only person in this family that i CAN trust is my older sister because she's already been through problems with my mom's bf. she she actually had the balls to punch him and got charged with simple battery.
please tell me what to do because im about to go crazy.
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well aside from not being able to walk she is a perfectly normal person. Not being to walk isn't that big of a disability and since you're 7 years older than her, you have every right to be an ass to her.
Anyways, she's 8 years old. 8 years old are annoying as hell. You're going ot have to get used to it. Normally older siblings would get annoyed and yell at them or even in some cases, hit them. but she's also fucking handicapped. Not being able to walk is a huge disability. She'll never be able to run, she'll never be able be in the front row of a concert, and she'll never be able to dance at her senior prom. Oh yeah, it's also going to impair her finding a guy some day. Not being able to walk might obviously make her bitter about life which would explain why she is an ass. Now, you're moms boyfriend might also be an ass, but that doens't relaly have much to do with your younger sister. If yoru sister annoys you, don't fight back. Part of being older and being a better person is to have the ability to walk away from certain situations and not make a big deal out of things. There is a reason why someone who fights back and hits their younger, handicapped little sister will be labled as immature. Your little sister has it FAR worse than you, leave her alone.
If you do feel like you have to vent, talk to your older sister. If problems happen between you and your moms boyfriend, then you can talk back to him It wouldn't be immature to defend yourself from an abusive adult, but it would be immature to "defend' yourself from, although annoying as fuck, a crippled 8 year old girl.
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just don't fight with her. if she starts getting on your nerves, go in your room and get away. it's immature to fight with younger kids.. be the mature one and don't continue the fight. even if she wasn't handicap, it's still immature to fight over stupid things. find ways to get out of the house, lock your door, live with your sister... <3
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First of all..you think about it from her point of view..she can't walk! she can't just walk out of the house, she doesn't have that freedom, she can't play football..or run about like normal kids do..you're meant to support your sister..not make her pain worse..you'll understand with age. but everytime you get angry...step out of your shoes..and step into hers..
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OMG you HIT a handicapped person!?!?!how cruel can people GET!!Well ofcourse your parents are going to treat her better,handicapped people need more attention,more care,more love!!If they dont get the attenion and care they need,they end up mentally hurt and depressed!And when you hit her,she cries her ass off because shes THAT sensitive,thats how they are!!YOu should be more mature then that you said your 15 and shes EIGHT!!WOW!!!Shes a little girl!!!My god!!dont be so immature and treat her kindly and whatever shit she does to you,try to be more open minded and understanding and put in mind shes handicapped.
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Talk to your mom about it and ask her why the hell you've gotta take this shit. It's not fair that she's such an angel & that you get treated like this especially when you're right.
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Does your older sister live with you? If not, see if you can stay with her as an alternative.
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This is what you should do: Tell your family how you feel, if they just start an argument, then PUT UR FOOT DOWN!just dont yell or anything tell them what she does when she should get in trouble... better yet: video tape it to SHOW them. If this doesnt work then give my advice a low rating.
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