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"i like you, but not until next year"
okay so theres this guy i like and he likes me back. hes in highschool right now, and i will be next year. but, hes being all annoying and he wont start up anything with me until next year, when i join him in highschool. i really like this boy, but ive started hanging out with another boy that i like as well and he also likes me. im not sure if i should start something up withhh boy 2 and be all like disloyal to boy 1 or whattt. help please!
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i 100% think you should go for guy two and to HELL with guy one.Ill tell you why.YOU shouldnt wait for ANYONE cuz his feelings next year WILL change when he sees another cute ass girl in his class hes gonna totally forget you,next years too far away.The guy that likes you and wants you NOW is the one you should go for.
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Well, next year is quite a ways away, considering you haven't even finished out the current year.
Go out with boy 2. Since boy 1 is the one that laid down the "next year" rule, then he will wait for you. If he doesn't like that you are going out with boy 2, then that is his own fault, and he will have to just get over it.
You are not together. You aren't involved in a relationship. You aren't spoken for. There is no valid reason that you should feel you have to be loyal to him at this point in time.
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There was never a true commitment with boy #1. Therefore, no disloyalty in your part.
Don't make the mistake of looking too far ahead. Make friends with boy #2 and enjoy yourself. One day there will be boy #3 and #4 and #5 so try to enjoy a friendship before getting too serious.
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