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Hey everyone, i was just wondering if anyone had any creative ideas that you can to do make outfits look cute..like ribbon belts,studs on things..things like that..thanks a bunch :)

oHhH u said it! LoL ribbon belts are so hot... me and my friend jessie totally started that trend at our school! and we make them! we buy 3 matching or colors that go good 2gether and we make them longer... (depending on ur waist size) and tie them at the side! pUt rHiNeStOnEs oN the neckline of a shirt and that will be hot!
hope i helped!
xOxO, aLeX

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ok so i like this guy in 8th grade ima 7th grader...well i told my friend and shes all like cool n [[i dont blame u i bet all the 8th grade hottie gotta love yoU!!! what does that i mean? ]] thanxx!

it means ur hot... and older guys want u! ;) oWw oWW! and all the hot 8th graders think ur sexy... go 4 them!
xOxO, aLeX

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in writing we are writing biographies..does anyone have any good ideas on who i could do a biography on?

thanx

hEy! i did one in 9th grade on shaquille o'neal.. haha kidna fun... but do something that intrests u... if u like sports... do ur fav athlete... like michael jordan or tiger woods... or if u like music do like behtoven... oR do soemthing easy... like harriet tubman, oprah, anne frank! haha but u probably wanna pick some1 u admire or are intrested in so the assignment goes easier! GOOd LuCk!
xOxO, aLeX

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16/f how do you know if you are a lesbion or bisexual?

you know ur a lesbian if ur attracted to just girls... and guys just dont excite ya ne more... and if ur bi... u like guys and girls... and both excite ya and you'd hook up with either!
xOxO, aLeX

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Any tall girls out there? im 5 8 and 13 yrs old. How do u guys deal wit it wit like [guys,tryin to let people c u w/o ur height]. Please jsut tell me some stuff so i can live my life w/o hatin my height.
1*4*3 x0x

i'm tall... kinda... i'm 16 and i'm 5'8 2...! i'm all legs. u gotta learn 2 love it... sure u cant wear high heels as often as u wish... but being tall is way better then being short! there are so many more advantages... especially in sports! yea... guys usually want a girl shorter then them... but i'm still shorter then most guys... cuz by my age... they all grow super tall... AND ur the perfect height 4 a model... do u ever see a short model out there? hArDlY! sO be proud... u probably just devolped early... and in no time girls will be caught up with u!
xOxO, aLeX

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what things can i do when a friend is over?
[i am a 13 yr old girl, what are somethings i can do w/ a girl my age over?please try to give me more than movies and music.]
Thanks x0x!
P.S I RATE HIGH ;-)LoL

gOsSiP, gIvE mAnIcUrEs/hAiR sTyLeS/mAkEoVeRs, gIve mAgaZinE qUizzEs, mAkE uP a DaNcE, dO a fAsHiOn sHOoT... (i used 2 always do those... pretend like u guys are models get different backgrounds and be models take eachothers pictures in diff. outfits... it helps if u have a digital camera.. but ne1 will work) go rollerblading, bowling, do something devious, cALl OvEr SoMe bOyZ! aNyTiNg.....! LoL! hOpE i HeLpEd!
xOxO, aLeX

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OK me and my 10 year old sister want to meet this actor named Jacob smith, But we dont know how and we live in minnesota and it is realy hard to meet an actor when you live in Minnesota.....How can I meet an actor that is prolly far away from minnesota??

hEy! i live in MN also... minneapolis... and i totally know what u mean about no famous people around here! bUt chances are... sorry but the truth is.. ur probably not gonna meet him... as much as i would die 2 meet jude law, usher, paul walker and brad from thr real world san diego (ahHhH all sOoOO hOt!) i know that i probably never will... actors are the hardest to meet... cuz its not like they have concerts or anything... but usually 2 meet celebs... its just luck that u happen 2 see them at the airport... tRy meeting josh hartnett and sean william scott... their from MN! LoL... but send him letters and maybe he'll write back? and u can ask him if he'll ever be in MN... hey... it could work?! oR sTaLk hIm! LoL kIdDiNg... but good luck! aNd hOpE i HeLpEd!
xOxO, aLeX

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How do you go on after infidelity?

i've actually never heard the word infidelity... but when ur thing says cheating husband... i like i got a good idea! wOw... its gotta be hard... and i could say you so could move on... but in reality... you really can't... even cheating boyfriends are hard to move on from... i couldnt imagine a hUsBaNd! :( what u really need is good friends.... 2 talk with, cry with, laugh with and for them to be there for you... u have to also think about if u still want 2 be with him... and if u can still trust him. get some "princess time" to think about it... get a massage.... take a walk do things 2 get ur mind off ur husband! gOOd luck! and i hope all goes well!
xOxO, aLeX

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does anybody know any music like o.c. ish music that i could burn? kind of music like that!
thanx!

AhHh! bUy tHe oC cD... i Am wAyY oBseSsed wItH tHaT shOw.. sO dRoP 1 iN mY iNbOx iF u wAnt tHe lIsT oF sOngSs... bUt gOOd quEsTiOn... cUz tHeY dO hAvE aWeSoMe mUsiC! i'M suRe sOme1 wIlL hAvE a BeTtEr aNsWer!
xOxO, aLeX

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i want my hair to grow longer but i dont have really thick hair adn mine takes forever to grow. its blonde and sholder length but i want it past my boobs any ideas on what to take or what to do to get long locks??
muha
Lisa

i'm getting hair extensions in a week! i've been waiting 4ever 2 get them! so get em! LoL! ask me 4 more info!
xOxO, aLeX

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i have a really good guy friend and i waz wondering wat to get him for christmas. He likes skating and hackie sac. i'll rate!

get him a gift certificate 2 a sports store or his fav. store in the mall.... also a cool new hackie sac 2! maybe a hackie sac with a pic. of a skate on it! (like u could find that) LoL... buT maybe cologne... or the dvd/cD hes been dying for 2 come out! gOOd luck hun! hope i helped!
xOxO, aLeX

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Ok... I am 14/f and I weigh 100 lbs. My friends think I am anarexic and last year my teacher turned me in for anarexia. I eat, alot, do you think I should she a doctor about my weight.

NoPe... as long as ur eating properly.... and not straving ur self (which u said ur not) then u should be fine... u should be lucky ur so skinny! LoL and alot of what ur body shape is is genetics... do u have a small family? or maybe just a fast metabolism? u sHouLd bE fIne!
xOxO, aLeX

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Hey.. This is pretty general. What are some basic signs that a guy likes you?

flirting, touching u when talking... look at body language... he'll probably make sure he comes up 2 u 2 talk 2 u.... showing off ahHhh all that stuff...
xOxO, aLeX

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ok i put this up before but i just wanna know something eles ok well like i probably have add and i didnt tell my mom about it and im talking to a school counsler but i dont know if i should tell my mom should i?


help please

thnx

for sure... your counsler can't really take u to a doctor or diagnose add or anything... so u need 2 tell ur mom so she can take u 2 a doctor!
good luck!
xOxO, aLeX

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I already saw someone with an ADD question, but I'd thought I'd make my own. Lately I haven't been concentrating on anything in class. I don't have THAT much stuff on my mind, and when some people get bored, they're still able to concentrate--just being bored. I can't even do that. My question is, what are the signs of having ADD, and what is it exactly?? I would tell myself in class, "Okay, I need to concentrate..." seriously like 10 seconds later, I'm off in space again...and I won't realize it until like a minute later, and even then I won't concentrate, I'll just keep thinking about other things. And that same pattern just goes on and on again...

Also, if you for sure have ADD, what are you supposed to do about it? Do they give you medicine or anything?

sIgNs/sYmPtOms:
*fidgety, squirmy
*difficulty staying in seat
*difficutly waiting turn
*ignores deatils, makes careless mistakes
*appears forgetfull, disorganized, easily distracted
*difficutly following directions or staying on task
add is pretty much what i just told u.... u cant sit still all that crap... LoL... i am so like that 2... all of my friends tell me i have add... even my parents but i've never been tested... if u have add.. u will go 2 a doctor and they will diagnose u with it or tell u you dont have it... it sounds like u do... so u should get it checked out! yea... they give u meds: ridiline! (haha can be a little fUn! LoL) but i hope i helped ya! good luck!
xOxO, aLeX

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ok well i really need some help cuz c i have this guy friend named ryan and we r real good friends. but hes 2 years younger than me. but i love him as in WAY more than a friends but he only sees me as a friend and i cant get him 2 c how much i really do love him. what should i do?

signed confused

nOoO wAy! LoL... i have a really good guy friend whos 2 years younger 2... and at one point i kinda wanted him so i kNoW what u mean! LoL! talk 2 him and tell him how u feel... keep spending time with him.... but also u dont want 2 loose him as a friend.... friends with benefits always works... aHhH i need more of those! LoL good luck!
xOxO, aLeX

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Ok... so there is this guy, he is a senior. I am a freshman. He came over to my house this afternoon and at first we sat across the room from eachother and then he threw a pillow at me and the we got in a pillow fight and then my dad came downstairs and told me to behave so "adam" says yea sit down and behave and pointed to the seat next to him, so I say down, then he put his arm around me and we just flirted around for and hour. Do you think he likes me?
Thnkz

senior guys always just want some... if there not in a commited relationship then there after any1 with a vagina.... he probably likes u... but u 2 would only probably hook up... hes definaely not looking for a gf.... but hook up with him! hell... it was fun being a freashman/sophmore cuz guys wanted u all the time... who cares?!? LoL good luck hun
hope i helped
xOxO, aLeX

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ok so i really want a thong badly, but i have alot of problems
1. what if you have your period
2. my mom wont let me she thinks im not old enough yet, but im almost in high school
3. my friends tease me about it how i am not
wearing one
4. i dont want to sneak a thong in my bedroom i would feel so guilty
what should i do

oK.... so if ur on ur period its called a tampon.... oR they have thong style pads (but i find that sick) and thongs are not bad or anything... most girls just wear them so they dont have underwear lines... and why would ur friends tease you about ur style of underwear? wOw... thats mature. and why would u feel guitly about sneaking a thong into ur bedroom? nice consious.... no...theres nothing wrong with wearing one... just tell ur mom that when u wear tight pants that every1 can see everthing under that 2... just go comando.... until u are "allowed" to own a thong (lol) or just get 1 anyways.... but make sure 2 wash iT! (ahh sick)
lol
good luck
xOxO, aLeX

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I haven't been getting on with my friends recently. I fell out with one group over my boyfriend and spending too much time with him but I made up with them. Now some other friends say I am ignoring them. I don't know what to do. I can't seem to get it right with any of them.

aHhH i know what u mean.... spend more time with ur friends... but also make time for ur bf... u dont want 2 loose either of them... but its hard 2 please both at once.... in my group of friends... we all hang out so i can be with my boyfriend or with my friends it works good that way! sO make sure u spend time with ur gal pals and ur gUy! hope i helped! xOxO, aLeX

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cute site how did u get the backround like that? well anyways i just got into a big fight with one of my best friends out of like 5 of them. She was the one i talked to alot bc the other ones like were sumtimes not always there for me.And we just made up. And i have spent like a day with her at school so far and the rest of my other friends. One of them told me that i was pushing them to the side and chooseing my other friend over them and choseing that girl ober the one of my best friends that i have known my whole life and the girl i made up wit i hav known for lik 2 years, but i seriously think that i didnt chose any one over anyone. and now everyone is getting madd at me for lik talkin to her they shouldnt be getting this jealous! i just made up with my friend. And now the one who said tha i was pushing them aside just invited all of my other friends to her house and not me and the one girl that she thought that i liked more. it is really mean and she really hurt my feelings because we always go everywere with eachother ... what should i do
thanks

hAhA... oHhh tHanx... i got it on the page backgrounds and its like the 1st page... bUt LoL ne ways... wEll... i kinda get ur question so i'll try 2 answer it as best as i cAn: yEa... uR fRiEnds are oBvIoUsLy jealous of you hanging out with that other girl... and that definately means that they wanna be juSt lIkE u! awWw hoW sWeeT! LoL but you NeEd to talk 2 ur friends! they want u 2 spend more time with them.... but then again.. there just being selfish... (mE, Me, mE!) so tell them that u dont like the 1 girl better... you were just trying 2 "mend a friendship" have a serious face 2 face talk with ur group of friends and tell you how much each one means 2 u... and u like no friend better then the other... ur friends really seem 2 care and were just pissed cuz they all want u 2 be there every second for them.... sO iNvIte uR fRieNds oVeR for a all girls sleepover... eat ice cream, talk about whats going on and prank call... have a girly sleepover that all of u girls can talk 2 eachother and feel bettre again! (tRusT me!) iT always works! LoL... me and my friends always do it when were "havin some troubles..."
hOpe i HeLpeD! aNd gOOd lUck!
xOxO, aLeX

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