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hey guys..my column has been the same for soooooo long now...so im gunna change it up a bit! any ideas please let me know! anyway..heres the ordinary junk...im kayla, im 14, i like in md close to dc, i go to rhs - home of the rams! yay haha, and i dn i just love helping people!

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theres a kid i went out with then i dumped him because i didnt have feelings for him now i like his brother and he's really mad at me because i like his brother i don't know what to do should i go back out with him so he wont be madc or like his brother?

dont go out w. someone out of guilt! if you dont want him 2 be mad, then just dont pursue nethin w. his bro. if u wana go out w. his bro, then go out w. him but dont expect ur friend not 2 b mad!! gl

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ok well.. me and my friend were suppost to have a sleepover 2day and now she said we have to wait till wed. and idk wut 2 do.. i have something 2 do on thurs morn. and i dont like to lie(hahahahahahah funny me)wut should i do?

haha sara u dont care if u lie or not!! haha. have ur mommy call ur coach n tell them tht the "reunion" was moved 2 thursday! haha. ur gunna have ta "lie" if u want ur sleepover! :( srry hun!! lol. but have ur mommy call ur coach! :D

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can anyone tell me any good way to boost the volume in your hair like good shampoos and/or gels that actually work!! thanks (didnt know what catergory to put this under)

use gel n blow dry ur hair with ur head upside down. n blow dry it back instead of straight down. any gel wrks!! hehe. or get a perm n make it straight everyday...but thts a pain!!

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Ok im 13 and ive never made out wit a guy (ima gurl) and my best friend always does things b4 meh and she just made out wit sum1 and now i feel like a loner. wat do i do

dont feel like a loner! its not a race w. u n ur friends! jus go @ ur own speed n have fun! if u wanna make out w. sum1 nex time u play truth or dare w. guys have a friend dare a guy 2 make out w. u. idk jus dont feel like a loner!

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I'm starting a new school as a sophmore on the 16th of this month where I don't know anybody! In my old school I was semi*popular! I want to be very popular in my new school. Do you think that it is possible for the "new kid" to be popular? Anyone have any advice on how I can do that? Or if you look up to someone or know someone popular....can u tell me what makes them popular. Anything would help. Thanks a bunch! Kisses! -*-me-*-

yeah u absolutely could be popular!! make yourself known! give people a GOOD reason to talk! be nice n polite..dont try the bitch approach! make people laugh n make ppl wanna be around you. peopel tlk alot...so make them talk about you! as long as its good. trust me just BE NICE! gl hun!! [i think ull be fine bc u seem like a sweet girl!! x0x0x]

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ok well i still lvoe eric rite and im with kyle cuz i really liek him n last ntie kyle told me he wants me to wan thim like i want eric.(if thta makes sense) and im soooooooooooooooo in love wit eric it aint funny n i cried! sum1 plz help me ill rate you a million times! plz! help

jus tell him tht u cant make urself want sum1. tell him 2 give u time n tht ull always love eric n u love kyle 2 but maybe just in a diff. way! explain how ur feelin 2 him n hope it works out 4 the best. not much more u can do. gl hun!! x0x0x

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how do you put colors from coloryourprofyle.com into a buddyprofile??? if anyone knows, write back asap please!! i really need help on this!!

theyr all codes on the colors, an on column settings it says "background color" n paste the color code in there!! sry if this didnt make sense! if u IM me ill try 2 make it easier haha

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Where can I get music for my Xanga? thanks

www.midi.com or go 2 www.coloryourprofyle.com n click the java scripts n use the 1 thts for music!

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okie well i no im not the very pretty but is there a way i can like talk to guys on get them to notic me or how can i get guys to like me????


*I rate well*

just be someone funny and nice and hold a good convo!! if u wanna guys opinion ask my friend chris.. md2fl2md is his column!!

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Okay Heres the deal:
I really like this boy in my grade and well I don't think he likes me like that. I think he likes the girl who I really really hate! I know the boys phone number but I'm too chicken to call and I never can ask my friends to call even though they know! Please Help Me!

get his aim sn n tell him online! n if he duznt have 1 then write him a note n tell him not 2 read it till he gets home or something!

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can u give me like 3 sights that has glitter names and that i can make them! thanx ill rate!

i cant give u 3 but i know 1!! haha. www.flamingtext.com sry i dun kno nemore!

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ok i want chuck taylors and i like all of them but should i get the low tops the ones your roll down or high tops?!?

low tops!

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recentley i went to pik up my g/f from her house on my motor scooter and wen i pulled up to her house she dumped me wat shopuld i do. im 17 and a boy

hmm this is a toughy! i say walk in there in a elmo baithing suit and spray them all with water. then dye her hair green. and then when you get home, call her 10 times and tell her you love her new hair. then tell her she wears a wig and hang up. then take me out 4 pizza!! preferably to angelos deli ;) haha

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im 14 and a boy. and i have 6 girlfriends and i like them all but the thing is that they dont know that we go out. wat should i do ?

take a rubber ducky in a bath tub and while clicking ur heels start singing the barney song ;) and yes i kno who this was hehe!!

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13-Female

I went out with this guy for 4 months, (From October to January) and I broke up with him because I thought I had no feelings left for him. I guess it was just a time of the moment thing, because ever since January I've been soo depressed. I've wanted to kill myself. I'd cry every single night. Sometimes I still do. He's not taking me back, and he's a year younger. So I guess he might think I took advantage of him. But, his bestfriend rides my bus and he told me a bunch of shit that wasn't true, and he made me believe it. So basically I was forced to break up with him, blah de blah de blah. I told my ex about his best friend, and he made exscuses for him. Like "Maybe he was jealous, or sometimes he gets mad or hyper and does stupid stuff".

So anyways, this guy that I seriously want to spend the rest of my life with, well I need a way to get him back. I don't just want to be with him forever, I need to be with him forever.

Please, If someone could help me at all, I'd owe you a big one, and I'll rate you too, I just need help. =/

hey hun! ok well alot of ppl feel like they dn if they still like theyr bf. but next tiem just wait it out n c how it goes!! n jus explain 2 ur ex wut hpnd! dont guilt ihm into it by being like "o i need u..imma kill myself..." bc thtll jus make him wanna back off. n also..plz dont think about killin urself..its not good! 1 guy i knew commitid suicide, it was idk a year ago? n his ex gf is still in major depression...n its ok to cry. jus let everything out! jus sit down, n tlk 2 ur ex. if he wont listen, MAKE him listen haha. jus don give up. n if after a while he still wont take u back, maybe its time 2 move on. if its meant to be itll happen. jus tell him u werent using him, u were jsut confused. gl hun i hope it all works out!

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wuts a hymen?

its like a layer of skin down there haha...its broken wen a grl put in a tampon or haves sex or sumthn or playin sports...its wut pl tlk about wen they say "popped my cherry"

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Alright...I have moved away,but I still love this same guy and i an't get over him and I know deep down he still loves me too..he always tells me he misses me n thinks about me all the time..but he is talking/dating someone else..what should i do?

id say let go!! i mean ur always gunna miss him..n if u REALLY loved him you always will, but it seems like hes startin to move on, so maybe you should too! theres plenty of fish in the sea!!! haha. its hard 2 get over sum1 u like but theres not alot u can do but accept it n move on. but stay friends!! n if he eer comes back maybe u can consider a deeper relationship or sumthn!! hehe gl!

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It doesn't seem like we have touched on this subject much. I know how contravercial it is...so please dont pass judgement on me. I want advice not a lecture. 2 years ago on Aug 8th I has an abortion. I was 7 weeks Pregnate. I strugle every day with the descion i made. This time of year is the worst though. I had no support from anyone who knew including the scumbag who I had sex with. I mad a rash descion. And to this day I know it was the wrong one. It was increadably selfish. I had more options but I took the easy way out. I should have taken responsibilty for my actions and I didn't. With all that said, my quetion is...what are my chances of being able to conceive a child again. Are they less...or does it make it more difficult becuase of the abortion. Please let me know any info or websites you may know of that can help me. Thanks for your help ! xoxoxoxoxoxoxo

im pretty sure your chances of having a baby are still the same! http://www.cbctrust.com/teens.html#Anchor-If-11481

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How can you tell if a girl is pretty?

its all opinion. look @ her n if u like the way she looks..shes pretty in ur opinion!

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i am a girl and for halloween i dressed up like aguy and sometimes i do it for fun with my friends. and all my friends call me homefry and stuff. i don't like girly clothes stores and sometimes i do things like gangster-ish. am i bi or something?

no ur not bi! ur bi if u like girls and guys..sexually! mayb ur a tomboy...theres nothin wrong w. tht!!

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