about

Hey, I love to sing, i take voice lessons and stuff so i know a lot about music, so if you have ne questions about music in singing or instruments, I would be more than happy to answer them. you can IM or email me(IM is below) I am also a poetry and song writing fanatic so you can ask questions about that too. My favourite topics are music and bois (two most difficult exciting things)I am practically happier than i have ever been but i do know what it is like to go through really rough times. I have had a series of extreme problems that i got over and i would like to help anyone get over their problems. I am mostly good with people with any sort of personal problem like an eating disorder or ADD or something like that.

You can ask me anything, i'll answer it.

FUTURE: GONNA BE A SINGER (SO REMEMBER ME)

AGE: 14

FAV SONG: IMPOSSIBLE, STAIRWAY TO HEAVEN

FAV BAND: LED ZEPPELIN (CHRISTINA AGUILERA)

HAIR: ALWAYS DIFFERENT LOL

~*LIZZY*~

advice

i wanna get a boyfriend. but one that actually likes me 4 me! i havent had a boyfriend since i dumped my ex. i want him bak but he doesnt like me.... wut do i do??????




I think you might just want him back because you don't have a boyfriend and it doesn't feel normal not to have one. Most people don't have boyfriends so there'll be your time when you have another one who is right for you. You'll find him one day. Good luck hon!
Lizzy

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everywhere I go I feel like someone is following me I don't know if it is good or bad but this feeling takes place when I'm alone. is this normal?

Someone might actually be following you. Check every now and then but not all the time. You may just be paranoid because of some sort of thing that has taken place in your life that might just have affected it.
Lizzy

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HOW DO YOU TELL A BOY YOU LIKE HIM. BUT YOU ARE SCARED?

If you truly like him, just tell him. The first sign of true love is to make a fool of yourself in front of at least five people
Lizzy

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How many times do you need to be rated before the rating shows up?

10 times i believe
Lizzy

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my mom has a friend and her daughter erased my game on my gameboy and I almost beat the game
how can I confront her?

Well, this doens't seem like something that would take a lot of anger out of someone. I am sure the game was difficult, but just tell her that it was your game and that they shouldn't play with your game if they are going to erase it
Lizzy

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Hey I have a question it seems no matter where I go I hear a song by Hilary Duff and I see her on Tv. Naturally I have nothing against her or for her. Now What is so great and what isn't? Don't tell me she is a good role model because a good role model would encourage a person to be comfortable with themselves and she isn't example: height. Think about your future example Bys a 400 dollar vintage shirt for a "BOYFRIEND" so just comments would be great.


Cspinoza1

Hilary Duff is so well liked for many reasons. Personally, i hate her voice, and i don't think she can act. But, she is a sweet kid. She is one of the prettiest people alive too, which is another reason. Since she is going for Bubble Gum Rock music, kids from 9-13 seem to really like her and she doesn't really have a signature voice, it is just like talking in tune, so no one can really hate that which is why it is played everywhere
Lizzy

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I don't wanna clean my room! should I?

If you clean it once then keep it relatively clean, it won't seem like your cleaning it all the time. But first you need to deep clean it, Good Luck
Lizzy

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i need to loose weight! what should I do!!!!!!!!!!

Crunches always work for me. Just play some music while you are doing it and go on jogs. While i am on jogs i always sing so i don't think about jogging. Only eat three meals, no snacks, no desserts.
Lizzy

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I have a 3 year old daughter with an UNCONTROLIBLE temper and she slaped my friend in the face what should I do?

Well three year olds don't really have friends to pick this sort of thing up from, so maybe you should try raising her a little bit more gently. Just try to understand why she hits and slaps your friends
Lizzy

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Dont do what I do.






I don't cut myself, or physically hurt myself because that would be a watse of a good knife. I rot away from the inside so slowley and painfully, hacking my arm apart wouldn't make any difference. The people who want to be my friends, and say hi to me at school, don't really know what their doing, or getting themselves into. I don't want to be harsh but they can't be my friends, because none of them seem to notice that anythings wrong. One friend, just ONE person, seems to be able to look into my eyes and know somethings up. I don't even hang around with her that often. But theres been times when shes passed me on my way to class, and grabbed my arm and gone "There's something up isn't there?"


That person i cherish, even though they probably don't realise it. I spend everyday withsome people, and they never seem to notice.


I should be thankful for the people who care, but if one day i lashed out and hit them, screamed at them, hurt them..........wouldn't they just walk away? If you're friend smacked you round the face and called you shit, wouldn't you just turn around and go find someone else to hang around with? If you think you would still be there for that person, you need to think long and hard. I don't know anyone who would be able to tolerate something like that.


I won't kill myself, cos then I'll be just a statistic in the world. I don't want to be another number. That would be worse than staying in this world. And I dont want strangers sympathy. I don't want people seeing reports in the newspaper of my death and saying "poor kid." I don't want it.


This is my mind speaking. These are the things going round in my head at this moment in time.I love my family and my friends to death. I don't want to hurt them. I don't want them to worry. I don't want them to cry like I'm doing right now.


Some days I feel like crying, somtimes I'm too drained to do anything. Today i laid in my room and stared into space for ages. I don't know what I was doing. I don't even know whether i was thinking. I was in a daze, and I couldn't control it.

That girl who understands you, tell her this stuff. Obviously she knows a lot more then us advicenators know, otherwise i'd be happy to give you some advice, but it sounds like she wants to talk to you, and she can help you. Get that help from her. Sorry if i didn't help
Lizzy

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I want to get breast surgery to make my boobs larger, but I wanted to know what you guys think. Should I get breast surgery? I am only an A cup right now and I don't feel comfortable wearing tank tops or any clothes that show my real size. I want to make them at least a B cup. If I do decide to get surgery, is who should I consult to get on with it? Has anyone already got surgery who can tell me the price and the side-effects? Thankyou for your help

Wait until you are developed, you may bloom like a flower by then. Ok, maybe not like a flower but you get it. Seriously, breast surgery is like a tattoo, you can get it, painful, but if you want to get rid of it, more painful. It is life changing experience. Good Luck
Lizzy

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I just got a new cat and i think my dog's jealous

treat your dog like you always have, don't ignore him just because you got a new cat, and anyway in a few months, you'll be sick of the cat and the dog will be mad at you. Good Luck
Lizzy

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I broke up with my boyfriend a few months ago and now I just found out that he's gay. Do you know if he could be lying to just make me jealous or grossed out? I don't know what his intentions are...

He could be lying, or maybe the break up was bad enough to lead him to believe that women aren't for him. If you think that this is so, try to talk him out of it. Then again, he might be playing games about it. Good Luck
Lizzy

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I want men to die... is this normal?

Well, every woman wants that at some point in their lives, whether it be when they start their period or after a bad break up. I hope you don't think that your whole life
Lizzy

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Hey guys! Sup?! I need to make a new screen name for AIM... any1 got ideas 4 me?

I'm a girl.
I'm 12



Write Back ASAP

Just put down one of your hobbies ie: dancer_nmbr1 or something. I think that would be cute
Lizzy

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I have a crush on a guy who I call him jerry he doesnt like it what should I do.Should I say hi Should I tell him.

Don't call him Jerry anymore. See if you like him after a few days, maybe it'll just be a blowover crush. But if you still think about him, make the first move, but don't ask him out first! Good Luck
Lizzy

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Im only thirteen, and I cant get a job anywhere. How else can I get money? Or anywhere that will hire a responsible 13 year old with a 3.6 GPA(B+ average)

3.6 is a pretty good average. You can get a job bagging groceries or even babysitting. If you are talented at anything use that. Me for example, i write songs, so i have people who are in bands hand me a paper with information about themselves on it and i turn it into a song. You can find something like that. i think babysitting will be best though, Good Luck
Lizzy

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Hey im a boy and 13 so theres a girl i like and she likes me. And im tryin to find a way to ask her out, because she doesnt have any messengers i dont think and im to shy to ask her on the phone or in person.What do i do?

-confused

Don't ask her on the phone, that's well phony. Chicks hate that. Talk to her in person and ask her out. Just ask her when there aren't a lot of people around, don't use a messanger! Good Luck adn try to be brave
Lizzy

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I am failing in math I don't want to do grade fourth again!!!!!!!!!!!!

Techniquley, if you get four Fs they will hold you back. Just don't get anymore Fs in anything and try to study harder for math. I don't think they will hold you back for fourth grade math
Lizzy

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I have been told that I am a very gifted actress, and my drama teacher said that I should get into theatre camp, but I live with my dad, and money is tight. I really want to go to theatre camp, but all the places I looked at are day camps that cost way too much money. (my dad has a tough job and cant drive me to and from camp so it would have to be an overnight camp) any ideas what I should do?


HELP ME!!!

I have the same problem with singing camp. you should get a job that pays about 50 a week like waitressing or just do a lot of babysitting. Some camps only cost about 100 so if you just work for a month, u could seriosly get some realy cash. Don't spend it on anything else though
Lizzy

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