ok i have a really bad cold and im coughing and sneezing constantly but i want to know if that affects your vaginal discharge its been heavy lately and i want to know why..i had my period 2 weeks ago so i know its not that..help!
It's normal for your vaginal discharge to be really heavy and this is because when you are sick, everything about your body changes and your discharge is heavy. Usually, this doesn't happen but it does and if it's still heavy, try talking to a gynecologist (gyno) and you can find out why you are having heavy discharge. If you had your period two weeks ago, then this is probably the reason, even though you said it's not but it may be.
-Karen
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does anyone know any good products or home remedies to get rid of dark circles?? thanks... i rate high
There are a few ways to get rid of your dark circles. You can put cucumbers over your eyes and that helps; even though someone said it doesn't, it really does work. You can take two spoons, put them in the fridge for a little bit and then put them underneath your eyes and it will get rid of your dark circles. If none of those ways work, just cover them up with concealer and cover up.
-Karen
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when i laugh really hard i start to pee..its starting to get embarrising. is this a problem? or what can i do to stop?
Don't worry, this happens to a lot of people and you just have a weak bladder and you need to start going to the bathroom more often so you won't urinate. Try talking to a doctor about this, they can help you out and they are exercises and such that will stop you from urinating when you laugh really hard.
-Karen
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Im 17/m and here is my problem. Ok Im a senior and prom is comming up soon. Well I have two people in mind to ask out. The first is in my class and I know she likes me. I kinda like her but not as much as she likes me. The other is in 10th grade. I like her but I dont know if she likes me. So now you see my problem. Help please.
If you like this girl who is in your class and if she likes you, then ask her to the dance. You can always find out if this sophomore likes you and then you can get to hang out with her more. You can then decide who you have a better time hanging out with and who you want to take to the dance. Why don't you make a list about the pros and cons of each girl? Yes, that sounds lame and dumb but it really helps when making a decision. I really do think you should ask the girl who is in your class though, since she likes you.
-Karen
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ok.. i put on my base and the rest of my makeup..and my face just seems shiney, like its reflecting the light. I have no idea what that means or how i can make it not shiney..any ideas?
You need to use a foundation that is oil free and that will help not make your skin look shiney and such. You can also put on a powder when you are done so it will hide the shine of your skin. If you use any lotions or foundations that are somewhat shiney, don't use a lot and this won't happen to you.
-Karen
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My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while and we really want to have sex like early this month but I always get my period in this beginning of the month and we both don’t want to wait. Can you have sex on your period..have any of you ever done that before. Is it safe?I rate 5’s.
Yes, it's alright to have sex when you are on your period. The only bad part about having sex at this time is that it will be messy and but it's safe too.
-Karen
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I had plenty of friends, like all the popular girls and guys were my best friends. Then some stuff was writen on my friends site and she blamed it on me and well now I am in a fight with my friends what should I do about this?
Gender: female
age: 13
You need to talk to your friends and tell them that you never wrote anything and that you don't want to be in a fight with them. Tell them that if they are your friends, that they should believe you because you would never do anything like that. Talk to this person who wrote this and ask them why she blamed it on you. That's a wrong thing to do and you need to talk to them.
-Karen
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Me & my boyfriend have been going out for 4 beautiful months. Neither of us have ever kissed anyone before, not even each other. We're both too scared to make the move but I really want to kiss him. I'm really shy so how do I let him know I want to without seeming too obvious. I don't want to make a fool of myself. Please give me some advice on how to overcome that fear.
Just talk to him and tell him that you want to kiss him and then kiss him. You will feel so much better and you won't be shy and nervous to kiss him anymore. It's alright for you two to be scared but one of you has to take a chance and make the first move. You won't make a fool of yourself. Your boyfriend is probably just waiting for you to make the first move. Your fear of being shy to kiss your boyfriend will go away. Just be confident and calm down before you do something and things will go better for you.
-Karen
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hey i am on my second week of the patch, and i need sum advice. If you are on or ahve heard ne thing about ortho evra what have yuou heard. does it make yer skin better, or did u hear of people gaining weight and getting hella acne?
The patch does make your skin worse but for some people, it doesn't. It just depends on how you react to it.
-Karen
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I really really really want a plain white hoodie...but i can't find one! it has to have the big pocket at the bottom and also a hood with drawstrings. it has to be PLAIN WHITE! i have checked all the websites i can think of...but i cant find it! please! if you know where i can fing one...please tell me! thanks!
I've seen these type of hoodies at Old Navy and at sports stores that sell plain old hoodies and such. You should try asking a few stores and see where you can find them.
-Karen
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ok well there's this guy and he likes me and 3 of my other friends and he's obsessed w/ me and i don't mean to sound conceited but its so annoying and all he talks to me about is how hot i am and one of his favorite lines to say online is "you love me wut?" and he always does this and he's always like "i want you hardcore on the bathroom in the shower" and stuff like that and its really sickening and i want him to stop..but i mean he's one of my friends..and i hate when he does that..and he's just the most annoying person ever..and i'm sick of him saying that stuff..but i don't know how to say it..how should i tell him that he's so annoying and i want him to stop saying that kind of stuff to me..?
You definitely need to talk to him and when he does this again, tell him that you want him to stop because you aren't comfortable with this. If he is your friend, he should understand and will stop. If he still does it, once you tell him to stop, tell him that you aren't going to be friends with him anymore and that you aren't going to talk to him until he stops. Explain how this annoys you and how it's awkward. If none of these options work, just ignore him and when he asks why you are, then tell him how you feel and that he is annoying and that you want him to stop saying things to you that are "sexual" in a way.
-Karen
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i'm 14 and i think about sex kind of a lot because this one guy that i really really like wants to have sex w/ me but i don't really want to but then again i look at some of my friends that are 14 and they've lost their virginity already but i don't really want to have sex w/ this one guy but then i do..i'm confused and i don't know if i'm totally out of my mind for thinking about this but i don't want to have sex w/ him but then i do..is it bad to even think about it when i'm 14?
If you like this guy and if you want to have sex with him, then do it but make sure you are ready so you won't regret it afterwards. You don't always have to think and do what your friends do because everyone does stuff at different times but if you are confused about having sex with this guy, then wait until you can balance your feelings and then decide if you want to have sex. It's not bad at all to think about this at the age of 14. If you want to have sex, then go ahead but make sure you're ready.
-Karen
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okay so was goin out wit this really cool guy and i loved to b with him we always had fun. well i just found out that he broke up with me a few days ago because he liked another gurl and he was waiting for her to like him back! and now i feel really used! and i was soo mad! i really wanna talk to him and tell him how i feel. and i wanna get over him soo bad! and i thought that i did! but then i looked in his profile and all and its all about this other gurl and how hes crazy about her! how can i get over this guy? and how can i talk to him about it w/o lookin desperate.. or looking like i want him back? (cuz i dont)
You really do need to talk to him and tell him how you feel about all of this. To talk to him without sounding desperate or wanting him back, just say "Hey, I really need to talk to you about something. When you dumped me, I felt that I was used and I was and you shouldn't have done that to me because it makes me mad that you waited to dump me, once this girl liked you." Say something like that and then tell him how you feel. To get over this guy, you need to just let go of your feelings for him and just start talking to other guys and move on. You will get over him but it will take time.
-Karen
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Hi. I want to lose some weight. All my friends are a little bit smaller than me...and I feel embarresed when ever I got shopping with them because i have to buy bigger sizes than them. I think that I am eating more because I gained 10 puonds last year...any ideas that could help?
If you want to lose some weight, you need to start eating healthy, watch what you eat, and exercise daily. Start eating 5 small meals a day instead of 3 big ones and this will make your metabolism a bit faster. If you are eating more, make sure you eating healthy and watching what you eat because if you don't, this is why you are gaining weight. Go on a low carb or calorie diet and this will make you lose weight. Drink lots of water and exercise after you are done eating so you can burn some fat and such. Losing weight will take time but you will eventually if you don't cheat.
-Karen
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Last year I broke up with my ex. I thought that we myte have juss been taking a break but we were really done for good. Now i relized that i still like him and i dont know if i should tell him or not. I know that he thinks i am a b***h and i dont kno if he likes me and i dont want to take the chance...Should i tell him?
Yes, you should tell him that you like him again because anything could happen again. Your ex-boyfriend probably doesn't mean that you aren't a bitch but if he does, talk to him and ask him why he does. Everyone deserves second chances so just tell him and if it doesn't work, then you know you won't have a chance with him, for now.
-Karen
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Hey, I'm 15/f and I have a 16 year old boyfriend. He hasn't been pressuring me but I just really want to have sex and so does he. We have condoms and I want to so badly! But where can we do it? And please do not say when someone isn't home or a friends house, maybe a public place? Thank you soo much!
-Tanya
You should have sex with him at a public place because that's wrong and you should have sex in a private place. You can do this in a car, at a movie theaters (not a good idea but people have had sex there), and places like that.
-Karen
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Hey, I just wrote in about my b/f smoking. I was wondering if you had any ideas on how to bring smoking up in the convo without it being obvious that i need to talk to him about it?
You can do this in a few ways. When you are near him, just out of the ordinary say that he smells like smoke and then ask him if he has been smoking a lot and then tell him how you feel about this and so on. Anything like that won't be obvious.
-Karen
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ok i need a serious answer on this because i am really confused. i want to shave "down there" but i don't know how because last time i did i got major razor burn and itched forever and it was soooo uncofortable so i don't know how to do it and how much to take off... do you shave all of it off? please help
You are supposed to shave it all off. When you are shaving your pubic hair, use a good razor, water, and shaving cream and shave in the direction that your hair grows or up, towards your head and do this really slow. When you are done, put lotion on and it will help you not go razor burn. It will take a while for you to get used to shaving but you will, eventually.
-Karen
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how do i congradulate a friend who made it on to a competition?
You just walk up to her or call her up and say "Congratulations for making it to the competition!" You can also give her a little something from you that shows that you are proud of her accomplishment. Anything like that which is simple will be great.
-Karen
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hi, ive asked a few questions about my xanga recently and you've gave me great advice to make mine look really cool! i was just wonderin if i could have your xanga to look at since you seem to know alot about them. if not its no big deal. thanx
Well, I haven't updated my Xanga for a few days and I'm working on making another one but my Xanga at this moment is CaliLovesMe_xo -- http://www.xanga.com/CaliLovesMe_xo.
-Karen
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