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My name is Teza.. short for Tereza. I was born in Croatia and I speak more than one language. I'm 22 years old & I completed 2 college degrees in 3 years. My a bachelors is in Business Administration concentration in Human Resources and my Masters degree is also in HR.



I started this advice column about 9years ago and I was so young but it was something that I always loved to do. I am trying to get back to answering questions, at least a few per day. With that said, if you have questions about school, friends, make up, etc., feel free to ask.





Much love, Teza

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I have a bf and we went out before for 3 months and then we broke up .. he would always say he loves me and that he misses me and that were meant to be together and then he asked me out and we got back together but it doesnt feel like he likes me the way he used to he doesnt call much it just seems like he wants to keep me to himself cuzz alot of his friends like me and i dont no what to do i mean i do like him but i also like his friend who i went out wit before .. pleez help i dont no if i should dump my bf and just stay single or i should talk to him and work things out..

If he went through all of that, then I think he really does like you. When a guy stops calling and stops talking to you it means that he is loosing interest. If he is only going out with you so you can't go out with his friends it's really gay!! Since you're not so sure about what to do and if you want to be with him, take a break. Figure out what you want to do and who you like. Just work things out with him.

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Before you read this I just want to say this is a dumb question. Don't mock me.

"You are stuck in a room with no windows or doors. a solid room. Only things in this room is a mirror and a table. how do you escape?"

I recently recieved an e-mail reading this. What is the answer?

My guess. Take the table legs and beat the walls until you make a hole.

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What are some really good love books? For young girls. That make you say like "awww!! how cute!" and it just makes you read them over and over. :) Any book will do though. Thank you . :)

Honestly, Chicken Soup books are amazing!! Get the love one though. I've read it and most of the stories were soo cute. You'd wish you could have a realationship like that. ♥

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What's the difference between dating and "going out"?? Thanks!

There is not much of a differece. Dating is the modern word and it's not anymore serious then just saying going out.

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what is phone sex?

It's called cybering. It's just like if you had real sex, but you say the things you would do to the person and such. I think it's pretty pathetic and desprate. ♥

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Does anyone take my advice seriously. Some people think that 13 year olds arent mature, but I have been known to think and act like an adult.
--curious caden--

Caden, sorry I'm late on this question! Haha, I had to answer it though. Some older people are just like what do 13 year old's know about life.. you know what I mean. That's just them. If you know what you are talking about and you are serious about it, people will take it seriously. There are a lot of 13 mature people and not everyone acts like a little kid.

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do you know where i can go to get a lot of cute quotes??

thanks in advance♥

http://www.xanga.com/home.aspx?user=Quotesz_xl3 < Really good. For more, go under her subscribers because those are good sites too.

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Im really really scared about getting my perdiod i have no idea when its comming like no idea. Im scared one of my friends will find out or i will be the last one. My crush is in like all my classes. And the nurse had pads and tampons and stuff but Im scared when im gon aget it

You never know exactly when you will get your period. Don't be scared about it. It's a normal thing and every girl goes through it. I'm sure most of us hate it, but it's nothing to be scared about. When you might get it you will get discharge. It's white stuff you get on your underwear. It might last for a day or two or sometimes for a few weeks until you get it. Also, when your urine turns dark yellow, it's also a sign of the period. Just make sure you wear those really light pads when you get discharge incase anything happens. Carry a pad or tampon in your purse or your locker. If your friends find it, it's nothing bad. It's just that you are going through puberty and I'm sure they are too.

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can any 1 tell me whats the best free music download site?

My 2 favorites are Ares and Limewire. They don't cause any viruses and are fast. On Limewire, you can change your skin and change the colors of it and it's awesome. If you want to download them, go to www.download.com

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are guys supose to shave down there or not? if yes.. like completely?

They aren't supposed to, but most guys eather shave or trim. It doesn't really matter.

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Hey, ok well ok im 14, and i recently lost my virginity a few days ago. I didnt use a condom, and im scared. Do you think i could be pregnant? But we probably only had sex for a minute. Please help im wooooried!!

If he cummed then yes you could be. If he did not cum or cum enough then no. If you are, you might get some pregnancy signs. To be 100% take a pregnancy test. ♥

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Here are some questions I have for you.
What are your hobbies?
How many family members do you have?
What are your dreams?
What are your favorite
Singers/bands
Tv shows
Actors/actresses
Foods

Thank-you in advance.
--caden--

-I love keeping busy! Volleyball, anything that has to do with my friends I enjoy. Shopping, of course. Movies, mall, bowling, dances & parties. fun things that teenage kids like. Lol!! Just fun

-Including me, I have 4 family member. My mom, dad and older brother. I have other family in Europe & France & Austira.

-My dreams.. I want to be succesful and have plenty of money. Get good grades, all that good stuff. ;)

- I love rock!! Ah, Fall Out Boy, Senses Fails are my favorite bands. I like some R&B music like Mariah Carey and such. My favorite TV shows would be Laguna Beach, basiclly anything that is interesting. I don't like watching too much television though. Ah, favorite celeberty.. Hilary Duff! I don't know why, but I always admired her. Lindsey Lohan because she has great style. My favorite foods would have to be fruits. I love salads. Lol. Oh gosh I love these type of questions! I never get bored of talking about me. Haha!

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what does it mean when someone puts out?

Do sexual activites.

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ok im 13 and i have a 4 and a half to 5 inch penis and is that big small or big please tell me the truth and i dont think im done growing yet so whats a normal full grown size penis!

For your age, guys are about 6-7 but you will grow and mature so no worries. ;)

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ok im a guy who is 13 and i was wondering if i should shave my pubic hair or do girls think thats fine like what would you like more shaved or normal dont tell me what i like cause i dont no!!

To me it doesn't really matter. I mean I would hate if the guy didn't do anything. I honestly hate all hair on people unless it's on your head lol. I say just trim it, but girls are all different they like different things on guys. ♥

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Me: bye baby io lkove you
Her: later
Me: ...?
Her: bye?
Me: i said i love yiou
Her): you too
Me: :-\

Is this girl still into me? Is she giving up on me or what?
I need to know because my heart can't take it anymore

From that conversation it doesn't seem like she was in the mood. You never know what's going on. If she does this a lot then she might be loosing interest in you. :( Don't give up on her. Ask her what's bothering her and just talk to her. Hope everything works out!!

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my lips are always CHAPPED and DRY and PEELY! I use vaseline, and I try everything, but it doesn't seem to work. Any tips to make them nice and soft?

Carmex is the best thing to use. It works and don't lick your lips or peal. Just use Carmex and it will go away.

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My face is so ugly ! but i think its because i have ACNE on my fore-head ! I really wish it would go away, but i dont no how it can. I try using acne treatment and stuff but it doesnt work ! soo.. i was wondering if anyone noes any ways on how to get rid of my acne??

RATE HIGHHHH!!
x3val

Sometimes using products isn't really healthy for your skin. All you need to do it take care of it. You need to buy a good face soap and wash your face at least 3 times a day. Don't use so much make up because that's really not healthy for you skin. Pro Activ is very good, but it's kind of expensive. Right now stick to normal face soap or any Clean & Clear products.

EDIT-Not meaning any make up.. just like don't wear oily foundation. ♥

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Say a girl and a guy that are dating have sex alot. If one night the girl didn't want to but the guy forced her to, is that still rape? Becuase she's had sex with him before, she just didn't feel like it right then.

Having sex against your will is considered rape.

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Hi, well first off i just wanted to say that your advise is really handy:-)
But i was readign through almost everything and i didnt see anyone ask you questions about the choking game anyways.:. i need to know more about it i think i have done it but im not sure...is it safe?¿..and i was looking on websites and crap, and they didnt tell me how you do it, if you want to send it to me personaly that would be great, dont worry i wont go and do it i think i have already. lol

if you can get to me as soon as you can that would be wonderful thanks

I know what the chocking game is and please do not do it and don't ever try again!! It's basiclly getting high and chocking yourself to death. Self-asphyxiation-choking each other or themselves, which produces a kind of high. They press people up against a wall, until they didn’t have any oxygen, & until they pass out. They use bags, belts, ties, or even their own bare hands, causing hypoxia which is a shortage of oxygen and it causes you not to breathe. If the person doesn't die, they can get serious brain damage. I don't know why kids think this is fun. You get high and try to choke yourself. The reason why so many kids have done and tried it is because it hasn't been a topic anyone talked about and it's something that came unespectably. Just don't do it and don't even do drugs. & thanks for the comment! ♥

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