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i'm 15 and i really need a job. i live in ohio, do you know of any places that would hire me?
p.s. i've tried mcdonalds
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You should try a local movie theater and ask to speak to a manager. You can then ask them about possibly working there. Why the movie theatre? Their staff is almost always composed of people your age.
Teens move on due to school and they always have to hire and re-hire throughout winter mostly and again in summer so they have a lot of people to cover shifts.
I recommend you look into that as they will hire someone 15-years-old. They may not put you on box-office or concession but would have room for people to help clean the theaters between films.
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i like this boy but i dont know if he likes me. once me and my friend past and started looking at me.once he gave me a teddybear for christmas to. is that a sign (link)
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I know for a fact that if he didn't like you he wouldn't have given you the gift. The problem is does he like you as girlfriend material or just a friend?
I think what you should do is invite him to hang out with you and your pals at a movie, bowling etc. This way you'll see if he's interested in you without asking him out and taking that risk.
If you try to include him in what you are doing you'll soon see if you have a connection as he'll avoid you or turn down being invited if he doesn't.
You could also be blunt and ask him straight out whether he would go out with you. There's no way of really knowing unless one of you moves it to the next step. Hanging out in groups will give you an idea of where this is going.
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Is the book like the play?
is it good?
anything on the book or play will help (link)
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ADDITIONAL: I DID ANSWER YOUR QUESTION ABOUT THE PLAY AND THE BOOK. I TOLD YOU TO GO TO WIKIPEDIA AND TYPE IN WICKED. TWO ARTICLES POP UP. ONE IS ABOUT THE BOOK AND THE OTHER THE PLAY. IT COMPARES THE TWO. I SHOULD HAVE GIVEN YOU THE LINKS BECAUSE YOU YOU DIDN'T DO THE SEARCH OR READ ALL OF MY RESPONSE.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wicked:_The_Life_and_Times_of_the_Wicked_Witch_of_the_West (THE BOOK)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Wicked_%28musical%29 (PLAY)
ORIGINAL RESPONSE:
I haven't read the book but I do know that Wicked is a fabulous show. I was lucky to even get tickets for it when it came to Toronto. The entire run was sold-out. It's much different from the Wizard Of Oz if that's what you are thinking.
If you log on to Wikipedia and type in Wicked an article on the play and the book will come up. From that you'll be to see some of the differences between the two. If you get a chance to see it on Broadway or in a touring production you should do it.
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I have been trying to kill myself sense I was ten. It never worked out right, either there was some-one to stop me or they found me before I could finish. I really don't want to live any more. But I don't seem to have the strength to go on. I don't want to feel this way any more. It scares me and each thought is stronger than the last. I want these feelings to go away. What can I do? Nothing ever seems to help me. I feel that my only option is to kill my self. I still WANT to live though! I'm scared that I might take this to far. Please help me, I don't think I can hold on much longer! (link)
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Why would you want to do something so stupid and selfish? It won't end your problem and it will cause problems for others who are left behind. Your problems are all solvable no matter what you think and no matter what they are. You just need professional help to fix your mental health.
You sound as though you have clinical depression or a worse mental health disorder. What you need to do is march yourself to the emergency room nearest you. Tell them what you told us about wanting to kill yourself for years and that the feelings have intensified recently.
A psychiatrist will assess you and determine what illness you suffer from that is causing this thinking and desire. They'll keep you there for at least 72 hours as you are a danger to yourself at this point. They'll figure out how to treat you and get rid of these suicidal feelings and tendencies.
Wouldn't you rather solve this issue than die? It won't be easy but it can be resolved so you never think of this again. That's better than death. Trust me years from now you'll be happy you got help and did the right thing. It's your only sane option.
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how do girls masterbate? its easier for guys, but i dont understand how girls can (link)
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Through clitoral stimulation mainly or penetration. Aside for this we can't give out how-to info on any sexual subject. You'll just have to find what works for you. I hope this answers your question or puts you on the path to knowing more.
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Okayy
So there’s this guy rite
And I really like him
And I think he likes me to
I saw him Friday and we were flirting like no other
I really like him but we only talk on aim
He called me on the phone for my b-day which was two weeks ago
And we were talking but then my phone battery died
Then we talked that night for 4 hours
I talk to him on aim
B/c I rarely see him in person
I want to talk to him on the phone
But I don’t want to call
I want him to call
But idk how…
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Guys won't spend all that time online or on the phone with girls they have no interest in. It seems to me that both of you are waiting for the other person to make some kind of move. He's initiated all the calls and online stuff before. Now it's time for you to step it up.
You should contact him online or by phone and ask if he would be interested in hanging with you and some friends at a movie, the mall, bowling, a party etc. and see what he says.
There's nothing wrong with calling him to talk about anything as long as you aren't constantly doing it. You'll be waiting for a call that may never come otherwise as he might give up on you and waiting for you to initiate something.
This is how you'll know if he's interested in you because if he's not he'll give an assortment of excuses for not going to events or places you ask him to. That way you don't have to ask him to go out with you and be embarrassed if he says no.
By all accounts he looks very much interested in you. Call him. The world won't end if you do and there's no rule against you doing so.
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anyone know one in the tampa, florida area? (preferably for teens) (link)
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You need to ask your family doctor about this. They usually have to be the ones to refer you to a psychiatrist. You can't always get an appointment with one otherwise unless in crisis at an emergency room.
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my friend gave a blowjob to one of her good old friend and she has a boyfriend. He kinda of pressured her into doing it and she wasnt going to. She really regrets and feels bad. What should she do? (link)
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If she said NO and was FORCED to do it than that's considered to be assault. He could get charged for that. If she was pressured and didn't really consent to it she has nothing to feel guilty over and was taken advantage of.
She should tell (as hard as it will be) an adult she trusts or her parents that this kid forced her to perform a sexual act on him against her will. if that's the truth (I don't doubt her story) adults will make sure the boy is punished.
Should she tell her boyfriend? It's really up to her to do so on her own at the right time or not at all. If this will destroy her relationship with him or earn her the reputation of someone who is promiscuous all over school keep details to herself unless adults intervene to levy punishment to the boy in question.
I'm saying this simply because she's not a cheater, was taken advantage of and not guilty because she didn't consent. She can keep details to herself knowing that A) it will never happen again B) it was against my will/pressured and C) she shouldn't feel bad based on the circumstances.
If she trusts her boyfriend completely and decides to tell him and knows it won't destroy anything she has than okay tell him but for now only tell adults what happened and seek their advice in dealing with it as it is assault of a sexual nature if at any time she said NO and was pressured and made to do it.
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if you give head, and you've been eattin out are you still are virgin?
also, im a 14/f and me and my boyfriend are having sex soon for the first time. im pretty excited, but is there anything i should know.
dont tell me im to young, ill be mad :/ (link)
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In the United States it's actually illegal for people under the age of 18 to have sex with anyone especially those 18+. Having said that the likelihood is high that you'll proceed regardless of us advising against it. If that makes you mad than tough. I can deal with the wrath of a 14-year-old.
You need a dose of reality here. You're 14-years-old if you have sex and wind up pregnant what will you do? What will you do if you get an STD? If you can't afford to have a baby in your life don't proceed at least not without a trip to a gynecologist to get on a method of birth control other than condoms.
Are you sure your boyfriend is going to stick around after you have intercourse with him? Don't be so sure as a lot of boys will promise the moon and say anything to get into your pants at this age. You don't want to be the girl he did it with and dumped or talked about at school.
If you are going to do this (which I hope you won't) wait a few months and learn all you can about birth control options, visit a gynecologist and plan it out so it goes smoothly and you are totally and completely protected.
When it comes to virginity what you have been doing falls under the definition of sexual acts. Some believe it's a form of actual sex while others think it's fooling around. The standard definition for virgin is someone who hasn't had vaginal intercourse. So technically that makes you one.
Here's a good article on what you can expect and things to consider that may not have entered your mind. http://www.avert.org/sfeel2.htm
The first time is always the most difficult and anti-climatic. You might feel pain especially if your hymen has never been stretched by masturbation or tampons. You may bleed a bit and feel pain especially from friction and thrusting. He might not feel a thing either at first and perhaps nor will you. It's probably not going to live up to the glamour and build up you've had around it or told to you.
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Hi Lisa
My question is about my 33 year old unmarried daughter who is becoming more and more difficult by the day. She does very well financially at her job and appears to have lost perspective even though I am a simple person and have brought her up to enjoy a simple but sophisticated life style.
I am a divorced mother of two girls who do not have much contact with their father and are quite resentful of his lack of involvement. I have tried to encourage them to meet him half way (although I did not proactively do this earlier when we were divorced and the girls were 8 and 10 years then)
She says she wants to settle down but criticizes every male she meets (often stating that they are mentally disturbed). She dislikes other countries she visits and is usually unpleasant if someone touches her seat or she feels they are too close. Most smells and sounds bother her and make her irritable. She is a work-out addict and is generally stressed at her job.
She is not available emotionally to anyone and communicates and participates on her terms . Her behavior is passive aggressive as she is pleasant on the surface in a controlled way when we are together.
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I know that the problem is your daughter and not other people. You know that this is so as well. The key reason she cannot relate to men is that she never knew how to relate to her father or deal with men because he was very cold to her.
If that's her first and only exposure to what men are like it's easy to see how it colored her perception. Maybe she does want to marry eventually or maybe she's just saying it to appease you but it won't happen until she deals with the resentment she has for them and other people.
I feel strongly that your daughter needs professional help from a psychiatrist and joint counseling with her father to repair their relationship or to be more exact establish a new one. She also needs help working on relationships and relating to others in general and how to deal with men.
She has to get help from a mental health professional to learn how to participate and communicate with others in a fashion where it's second nature or nobody will notice her or believe she's anti-social. You better believe it affects her work and life in more ways than you listed.
The psychiatrist will also help with her passive aggressiveness and check to see if she is depressed or suffering any kind of clinical illness such as depression which seems likely here. If she's pleasant on the surface and only to you something isn't right. She's in a world of hurt that needs undone.
Rather than urge her to get help you might as well demand it and take her to get it. This is the only way she will get better here as there's no way she'll look for help on her own. Point out that you can see that she's not functioning like a normal 33-year-old and you aim to help her fix it.
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where is exactly is a girl's clitoris (link)
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Here's an anatomical chart http://www.scarleteen.com/article/body/anatomy_pink_parts_female_sexual_anatomy
it shows exactly where it is on your body.
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hi.. im 17/f... and ive had a partner whom had herpes... we didnt have sexual penetration but he did rub himself on my part down there... and my question is, can you get genital herpes like that? lately ive been getting these boil like things on my genitals and theyre full of pus =/ sorry for the graphic images just in case... and they leave scars :'( plz help ..also..ive been getting sick more frequently (link)
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You should see a gynecologist immediately and abstain from any sexual activity until you do. Herpes spreads through sexual or skin to skin contact. His penis rubbing against your vulva can cause it. It doesn't sound good either if you have boils that are appearing in your vaginal area.
We're not doctors nor can we diagnose this as Herpes but we do know that you should see a gynecologist and not have sex until you do.
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okay so i am f/17 and i have this best friend. but for the last year we have been liking each other on and off. and the thing is when i dont have him i want him, but when i do have him i have no interest in him. what do i do? because its really not fair to him and this is always happening. (link)
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You're addicted to the thrill of the hunt. Once you've got your prey much like a cat with a mouse you play around with it a bit and decide not to eat it and lose interest.
All you have to do is recognize that he's best as your friend and not your boyfriend because it never goes anywhere. When you get those mushy feelings or jealous that some other girl has caught his eye you need to remind yourself that it just won't work for us and do your hardest to back off a bit. Hang out with him less. Over time you'll condition yourself not to have an attraction to him and seek out other matches.
Just think, you're like the cat that is messing around with the mouse catching it, torturing it and then giving up. Much as that analogy isn't fair in the animal world nor is what you've been doing in the human world. Set him free (romantically) and keep him as your friend. That's all you can do just don't let yourself go there. Remind yourself of how unfair that is.
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But i have NOTHING to put on a resume. what would make me really stand out and what type of things gon on a ruseme? (link)
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You should try community theatre or youth theatre groups in your area to gain on stage and technical experience. That's where I would start. You can't put out a resume without credits. This is where you would get them.
Also look into groups/camps for teens that teach acting and improvisation. They are plentiful and many courses are done through parks and recreation departments in large cities.
If you really want to see what it's like to be on the set of a film or TV show and be part of that go to the SAG (Screen Actor's Guild Of America) or ACTRA (Canada only) web site. They're the unions for TV and film actors. Look for their list of Reputable Agents in your area. if you don't see the list online call them.
Pick a Background Talent Agent from the list to visit. This agent will find you work in crowd scenes in TV and film shooting in a large metropolitan city nearest you. They and no other agent you approach except for a kids/teen agency can charge a yearly fee to represent you.
Why? kids/teens and even adults bail once they see shoots can last 18 hours and it's not all glamour. Therefore, they charge a small fee to recoup losses if someone whigs out. I would start there as a principal agent won't touch you because you have no acting experience yet. A kids/teen agent might be able to work with you but it's best to begin as an extra with a background talent agency.
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female/ 15
i really like this guy at my school. i dont know him but i saw him once and i thought he was so hot. later on, i found out that a friend of mine knows him pretty well through her boyfriend. i talked to this friend and her boyfriend. they told me that this guy is really fun to talk to and interesting and intellectual and that mnay "pretty" girls approach him all the time but he is looking for something more. he is my age and both my friend and her bf said they dont think he has ever had a gf. i tend to get really obsessed about guys i like and i dont wanna get my heart broken. this guy is my dream guy though, both his looks and from all these great things i have heard and seen even from far away of his personality. he plays guitar and my friend offered me to go to his concert next week. i get picked up in the same place as him after school and i have wanted to start up a conversation but either i chicken out or he isnt there. for some reason, i keep seeing him a lot lately and although a lot of the time i do try to go to places at school where i know i can see him it is often a coincidence. my friends tell me that when i see him i stare and almost drool. i wanna meet this guy so badly but im afraid that if i do it at the concert it will look like another one of those awkward stalker situations that i feel like im in with him sometimes. help please! (link)
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The next time you see him at the bus stop introduce yourself. Say to him "Hey, aren't you X? Aren't you friends with (insert name of your friends)? They've told me so much about you. My name is Y it's good to finally meet you. Maybe we can get together with X some time as a group. Does that sound like fun to you? I'll talk to X about it.
You could also have your friend introduce you to him. He may look, sound and appear like your match but you won't know until you get to him. Naturally, your friends will say a lot of nice things about him but you might not click or even like each other. Go about introducing yourself in the manner shown above and see what develops.
He's going to like you for who you are. If he sees that you aren't anything like the girls he doesn't go for maybe you have a shot. You need to get to know him and become a friend before he can consider you as more. Talk to your friends about being introduced or go with the above idea.
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16/female
I'm depressed
i dont really know why
im always sad unless im with my boyfriend then i can never frown otherwise people are always asking whats wrong...and i never really know what to say i just feel like i need to be sad almost all the time. i'm constantly tired and dont feel like doing anything im actually starting to eat more and i really dont want to.
Is there anything i can do to help rid of this without going to a doctor and getting pills that could cause me to go suicidal...i know how important life is and i wouldnt think i would ever be dumb enough to take away such a gift but lately idk if just thinking it wont do it is good enough i just wanna get rid of it.
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One doesn't see a therapist to resolve an issue that is psychiatric in nature. You have or appear to have signs of clinical depression and that's a mental health issue. The only person qualified to help you through it and get it stabilized is a psychiatrist. You need a referral to one.
You won't suddenly turn suicidal for taking anti-depressant drugs. I'm bipolar and in the five years I've been on them and in the hospital and out of it I've never heard of one single case or of patients of the five doctors in charge on in patient/out patient at our hospital of it occurring.
The thing is even when you are mental ill, depressed, or delusional if you aren't violent or obsessed with death and or wanting to die no pill will drive you to kill yourself like that. Besides, psychiatrists monitor you ever few weeks at first and every three months afterwards to make sure you are okay.
If you feel something is wrong or your family senses you could turn suicidal they can call the doctor and they'll place you on a 72 hour hold in the hospital in a mental health ward and decide what to do to treat the problem. Any time they sense you'll harm yourself they'll put you in there in a flash.
You should see a psychiatrist and be honest with him/her and let them treat your illness. They'll get you to the point that you're stable and that your depression doesn't rule or ruin your life. It will with time seem as though you have no symptoms of it once on the drugs. You'll function better than you have been in years once everything is ironed out.
Don't fear death, dying or suicide. If it's not in your character or you aren't thinking about death or dying in an abnormal way you'll be fine. Some people have killed themselves while on the drugs but almost all of these horror stories you have heard have happened because those people had those tendencies and thoughts before ever being exposed to the drugs.
The drug companies to ensure they don't get sued or blamed if someone kills themselves while on their product list this as a side-effect that is extremely, extremely rare.
If you are being honest with the psychiatrist about your depression and with your parents, siblings and others around you you'll be fine on any anti-depressant as the doctors monitor you with frequent appointments, check your blood regularly, see how your body is functioning and always conduct a series of tests and unusual questions to see if you're in crisis.
Bottom line: See the psychiatrist, get treated and don't worry about anything else. I'm bipolar and through the six years I've dealt with it I've never heard of any REAL case or case study where people die frequently just from being on the drugs. Don't worry--do what's right though and have this dealt with by mental health professionals.
Depression is a mental-health issue and needs to be treated by a psychiatrist. A therapist or counselor won't help your problem as they aren't doctors nor can they prescribe medication or successfully treat your problem and make it disappear. A psychiatrist can restore your quality of life and make your depression dormant over a period of time.
Put it this way do you want to continue to suffer or do you want this to be handled? Go to the mental health professional tell them the truth and ask them about the drugs before they prescribe them and if it can kill you or lead to killing yourself. They will give the stats, information, case studies for you to make an informed choice with them. You owe this to yourself.
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well i like this guy named ryan, and my friend likes him too. technically shes liked him longer, but that dosent mean anything does it? shes made out with him, but he likes me. she likes him alot, but since he likes me shouldnt i be able to date him? HELP (link)
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Technically, if he doesn't like her and shows no interest than she has no claim to him and you're free to date him if wanted. He has to let her know that nothing romantic between them will ever happen. If he has done that than really you are are in the clear.
However, it sounds as though he's led her on including making out with her and leaving her in a position where she doesn't know if there's anything going to happen romantically. Until he tells either of you where you stand don't ACT on your feelings.
This guy wants it both ways. You should tell your friend that she is free to date this guy even though he told you that he was interested in you and not her. Tell her you really have no interest in ever being with him unless of course she gives you her blessing.
Let her know you told her because you weren't sure what else to do and don't want to risk a friendship over a guy. That's all he is one guy in a pool of millions you'll meet. Is it worth hurting her over even if she comes out telling you to go for it? Trust me that would hurt her despite her saying it wouldn't. I've lived long enough to have seen that train wreck many times over.
Best advice is to tell her that he's not interested, used her to make out and now has his sights locked on you and doesn't like her. She needs to know the truth. But you also have to wise up to the reality that he's a player out to hurt you both. Typical behavior of such a person.
So, DON'T GET INVOLVED but tell your friend the truth so her feelings don't get trampled on and she isn't heartbroken or feeling rejected by him. As for you, as hard as it is your friend comes first as does your relationship with her. Guys second. This isn't the right bloke for either of you. You'll eventually get over the feelings and hopefully both of you find the right guy for each of you. Otherwise, you stand to lose everything here.
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Ok I like this guy. He isn't popular at all. I'm not going to see him for like two months or so. So I messaged him and he did reply and we talked a little well just for him to find out who I was. So he knows and he isn't talking to me but I mean it isn't a big deal but I really like him and I'm not gonna keep sending him messages because I know that will creep him out. He is the only thing on my mind and I do keep myself busy. I don't really know what my question is but please help. I'm just a little down that he hasn't said anything and he is extremely nice so I wouldn't say he would do anything mean to me. Please help me out. Thanks. (link)
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Well your concern is really divided in to three areas. First, you want to know if it's okay or if you should be liking him. You're concerned about him not being popular as well as perception of him from others.
You really like him and that's all that matters and this is all natural. This could possibly be a great catch and relationship for you. It looks promising. The whole not seeing him for 2 months works against developing a romance though. Is there any way you can see him?
I mean if he's in the same town as you and you know where you both live why not see him? You can send him a message asking if he would like to join you at a party, bowling, movie with friends. If he's interested then you know for sure he's in to you.
Secondly, you are concerned about making an ass out of yourself if you send him too many messages and scaring him off. That's a good concern. For now, send him ONE last message about maybe meeting up and see what he does. Then leave him alone until he sends you a message. You need to show him you have a life and aren't always on the computer.
Third, he wouldn't have any excuse to be mean to you unless you did something to him to warrant him being annoyed. The reason he hasn't replied lately has to do with the fact he's probably busy too.
Send that last message I told you to do above and then forget about him until he reaches you. This way you come across properly. As hard as it is to forget him until he gets back to you it's for the best and to make you look good. Find other things to occupy your time. I'm sure he'll get back you as it looks like he enjoys chatting.
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16/f. i have never fingered myself or any of that kinda stuff. like the furthest ive gone is makeout and being felt up. like i get the urge and stuff when im with hot guys, and they make me go crazy! haha but i never really feel the need to alone. like all my friends do..even the ones who havent gone as far as me. when we talk about it there like you never do wow how weird! but i just dont need to haha. plus i think it might hurt..does it just feel like putting a tampon in kinda lol? i do get aroused with guys though =P is that extremely weird that i dont have the need to? should i like try or what..cuz it just seems weird that everyone does but me! thanks! (link)
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There's nothing abnormal about you. You're still the weird kid you always were ;) It's normal to masturbate and normal not to. It's pretty much a universal thing though with teens. You can't hurt yourself doing it. I'm not a girl but I know it's safe to say it won't feel like putting a tampon in. You won't feel any pain either. If you did then something's wrong.
In fact, most girls or women don't penetrate themselves. They derive pleasure from clitoral stimulation. It's the only organ on a human body designed for pleasure and nothing else. There's nothing wrong without feeling the urge to masturbate or never wanting to do it in the past or now.
As for trying that's totally and completely up to you. Just know that nothing can go wrong physically with you and you can't get hurt unless you used a sharp or jagged object or something to that effect. If you want to try it go ahead if not than that's okay.
Do what feels comfortable for you.
Don't let your friends influence you for or against its not a case of missing out and you have to do it because they all do. This is your body and your comfort zone and decision.
Why do they it's weird that you haven't ever done it? Well, they probably think you're lying because them asking you was uncomfortable and most people don't openly talk about it. They probably haven't met many friends or girls who don't. It surprised them but they know also that some people do and some don't. It's normal either way.
In fact stats state that 70% of females do it and 90% of males of all ages. I hope this helps you see that you're A-okay no matter what. It also may be a good idea to ask them more about it if you're all that open about sex with each other. Ask them if it hurts etc. etc. It seems they're all open to sharing knowledge.
This is one area if they brought this topic up that you can approach them about rather than talking to a parent or counselor etc. over what's normal and okay.
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This is sort of a female question, but I'm open to any answers:
I'm 16 years old and a female, and right before that time of the month, I get pms really bad. But it's not like I just get irritable, I get angry and depressed. I start crying out of nowhere or getting in fights with anyone in my path. I can never stop eating, so then I feel fat on top of it all. My boyfriend also has to put up with me when I get like this and I always snap at him. He doesn't understand what it's like and I wish he could. Every time I say that he's like "YA WELL YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT IT'S LIKE TO BE A GUY" and that just throws me over the edge.. but that's besides the point..
So anyway, I started reading up on PMDD, which is like PMS only the severity of the symptoms is increased. I think I may have this, but I haven't been to a doctor or anything to be diagnoised. I just can't stand feeling like this anymore, it's so bad.
So my questions for you are:
*Have you heard of PMDD or know much about it?
*Do you have any suggestions as far as treating the symptoms?
any answers are appreciated :)
thanks much
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You should talk to your mother about what you've read and how bad the PMS is. Ask her to make you an appointment to see a gynecologist to determine if you have PMDD and how to treat it or your PMS properly so it isn't destroying your life every month.
They're the only ones who can tell you if you have it or any other disorder causing regular PMS to be magnified x20. If it's fouling up your life and you're having trouble functioning and are hypersensitive you need to see if there's anything that can be done to bring it in to check.
Talk to your mother and tell her what other people are saying about it to you and that you learned what PMDD is versus PMS and you'd like to see a gynecologist for help with it. They're the only ones who can help you with a diagnosis, reproductive health, periods, birth control.
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