okay- i have been getting cramps, and i have that "discharge" stuff.. am i getting my period??
Yes, your period is coming but this doesn't mean that you will get it soon. Some girls start getting discharge 3 years prior to their first period but it definitely sounds that you may get your period soon, since you have been getting cramps and have discharge. Start wearing panty liners just in case something happens.
-Karen
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what do i do if i think my boyfriend is lying to me? PLEASE HELP ~Emma~
You need to talk to your boyfriend and ask him why he is lying to you. If he doesn't give you a truthful answer and continues to lie to you, you should probably take a break from him because you shouldn't be lied to by your boyfriend.
-Karen
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okay..these retarted people on my xanga keep putting these rude things in my chatterbox..and i dont know who the hell they are!..is there a wasy to find out who put it in there?
Yes, there is a way to find out who they are. If you go to your ChatterBox manager at http://chatter.flooble.com/manager.php and click on View/Delete Posts and when you get to that page, you will see this person's IP and you can then go to http://www.nic.com then click on "Who is" and then put the IP in the search bar and it will tell you where they are from. Or you can just delete their posts but make sure you are logged in. If you need any help, feel free to ask.
-Karen
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hey i like this gurl alot and she has just found that out... the only problem is is that she doesnt even look at me as a friend. she likes this other guy and shes been liken him for like 3 years...they are really good friends but they are not bf and gf...i talked to her about it and all shes told me is that she likes other guys just not me... i never had a gf and my self confidence is extremely low :( and i just dont kno what to do... i want to like someone and kno that they like me back the same exact way i like them... any advice would be appriciated
Aww, you need to just let go of this girl and move on because she shouldn't say that she doesn't like you. You probably are a great guy and you don't deserve that. If she has been liking this guy for 3 years, then she really does and you just need to move on. You need to start talking to girls that would like you. Start flirting and show girls that you are interested in them. You will find a girlfriend someday, don't worry.
-Kare
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well i ordered the
Farouk CHI Transformation System Home Support Kit stuff and i thought it would straighten my hair because on this one website it had info on it and it gave me the impression that it would straighten my hair but it didnt and it was 40 bucks and i have really curly hair and i it didnt do anything but i found out that it just makes it shiny and stuff so i have it and i dont kno what to do with it could i return it *it was off a website and i ordered it from california and i live in florida* and does any one know something else that would straighten my hair and make it stay *i have really really curly hair* could some one give me websites and names thanks alot
signed
-confused girl
To straigten your hair and keep it straigtened, you can get it Japenese or chemically straightened. Getting your hair Japenese straightened will keep your hair straight and when you can see your roots, then you just get it done again. You could also get a flat iron or a CHI and it will keep your hair straightened if you don't wet it.
-Karen
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can over charging your ipod (mini) hurt it? because lately my battery will say its out..but i reset it and its full again or something like that. does anyone know why?
Yes, overcharging your Ipod will hurt it's battery and this happens to any other electronic. Charging your Ipod every night is long and you should try charging it once you get home and then take it out when you go to bed so you can actually see your Ipod being charged.
-Karen
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ok well, i swear im in love with this kid on my brothers basketball team, and he's really cute, sweet, athletic, and hes so cool. and he twisted his ankle, and i felt reallybad about it so i was talking to him about it and we kissed somehow and nowh he's all i can think about and i dont want my brother to know, because he's already mad at me because i became best friends with one of his best friends.
There is nothing wrong with liking your brother's best friend. Your brother is only mad because if you and this guy go out, he won't spend that much time with him because he is spending time with you. You should tell your brother that you like his best friend because he will find out and he will be even more mad. Just talk to your brother and his friend and tell them that they can both still hang out and they will still be best friends.
-Karen
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I need to delete my account on here. Does anyone know how to do that? -arun-
To delete your account, you need to log in and go to this link: http://www.advicenators.com/deletec.php. Make sure that you really want to delete your account because you can't get it back once you do it. It will explain how to delete your column on that page.
-Karen
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idk what category this is .. but i need a new s/n any one got ideas?
(things about me)
heart broken
kinda tall avage
i love ryan
hmmm...idk any thing else to put lol
please help
Here are a few suggestions:
broken x hearted x3
i x3 ryan xo
heart broken x0
There are so many others, and I can come up with more but just think of things that you like to do and make up a screen name about it. My screen name is karenxo815 and it has to do with my name, my favorite number, and the age that I will be on my next birthday.
-Karen
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this month is my birthday and i dont kno what to do since im turning 14 and i am 2 old for a sleepover.. so what should i do?
You can do a lot of things for your birthday. You can go out to dinner and then to a movie with your friends and then come back to your house. You can play games, talk about gossip or secrets, you can give each other make overs, and so on. You can have a party and invite goes over and play spin the bottle or 7 minutes in heaven and so on.Just have fun and ask your friends with what you should do on your birthday.
-Karen
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hey there,
theres this guy at school I really really like.
Before our xmas vacation,we had this party at school. Out of no-where, he just said "hey S".
A week later, he asks me about the yearbook comitee.
After the vic, we had PE together, he called my name and when I turned, he waved with a big smile on his face. I was so surprised, after that I developed a crush on him. But all he does is say "hi" and told me one funny thing my guyfriend did(they're in the same class). I really dont know, does he have a crush on me? Every time I decide to give up on him, someone says he glanced at my direction or was staring at me.
I really need your advice, should I wait or should I give up on him?
It definitely sounds like he has a crush on you. Some guys usually don't talk to girl that much if they have a crush on them but if he says "Hi" to you, that means something. Don't give up on him because he may just be too nervous to actually tell you how he feels about you or he might just be this way. If you like him, then wait. If people tell you that he glances at you, that tells you that he does have crush on you. You should try asking him if he does or have a friend to do it for you. Just wait and good things happen to those who wait.
-Karen
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i am sooooooooooooooo fuckin fat. i eat healthy and do 50 sit ups and do track and run up lke 20 stairs at least 2 times a day!why the fuck am i so fat and how can i be skinny again? please help im so desperate.
Sweetie, calm down, if you know that you are eating healthy and exercising, then you know that you will lose weight. Losing weight is hard and you won't see results for a while. You may have a slow metabolism. Try eating 5 small meals one day and 3 big meals the other and vice versa. This will make your metabolism faster because your body will be confused. You just need to increase the amount of crunches you do and just watch what you eat. Trust me, you need to stop thinking that you are fat because it will just make everything worse. If you think that you are fat, this should help encourage you to try to lose weight. Start eating foods with low carbs and drink diet sodas. You will lose weight and will be skinny again, it will just take time.
-Karen
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ok well i have been going out with my boyfriend 4 almost 6 months and i think he is the one. but sometimes i am like no he cant be the one and i just think and think about it and other times i am like i know he is the one. i love him 2 death and i know that will never change. but do think this relationship will last ?????? and is it right 2 think that your boyfriend is the one at a young age????? he is 14 turning 15 and i am 13 turnin 14
-confused
Don't worry, every girl thinks and has doubts about this when they are in a relationship. If you truely love your boyfriend and if he loves you, then your relationship with him can last if you are just honest and trust each other. Yes, it's alright to think that your boyfriend is the one at your age. It's normal to do this and every girl does it. If you think about it, you are young so you still have a long time to find a guy because there could be those times where you will be with someone else and think that he is the one. But your relationship can last and only you and your boyfriend know the answer to that.
-Karen
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The other day, I told my ex boyfriend's best friend that I sometimes still care about my ex. I am going to guess the he told my ex this. Today, after english class my ex walks up to me. He said my name and I said what. Then he said "I don't hate you." Do you think he said this because he still cares about me? Or do you think he said this just to let me know that he doesn't hate me. I find it ironic that he's just going to walk up and tell me this. Thanks. Good answer, good rating.
Well, all guys are different and what they say is different for every guy, since what they say has different meanings. This could mean the he still cares about you but then again, it could mean that he wanted to you to know that he doesn't hate you. It sounds like your ex-boyfriend probably still cares about you because if he didn't, he wouldn't have told you this. If you really want to find out what he meant by that, you need to talk to him and ask him because everyone will have different answers.
-Karen
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im an 8th grade guy and i wanted to know if there is a good way to get 8th grade girls to like me
To get girls to like you, you need to show them that you are interested in them. You can do this by flirting with them; try talking to girls, hang out with them, smile and make eye contact with them, compliment them on how they look like on a particular day, make them laugh, and so on. I'm a girl and I love it when guys ask me to carry my books are open a door for me and hold it. You just need to be nice and sweet to girls and they will like you.
-Karen
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im 13/m...All of my friends say that i always flirt with this girl. she used to like me A LOT and then when i started going out with my g/f about 8 months ago, she like started yelling at me and we didnt talk. But now, we are friends again and we talk, but whenever we do, EVERYONE says that we flirt, nonstop. i try not to, but i just cant help it, i love my girlfriend and i mean that. what should i do pls help me......
PS.... how do you flirt? i barely know what that means
Don't worry, it's normal to flirt and sometimes, you don't even know that you are flirting with a girl. Flirting means that you talk or do things that shows someone that you are interested in them. That's not the real meaning of flirting but I can't think of another way to put it. To flirt with a girl, you just need to make a eye contact with her, talk to her, smile at her, compliment the way she looks and dresses, and by saying sweet things to her. It's alright to flirt with girls, even if you have a girlfriend, because it's natural to flirt. Just don't go too far and then your girlfriend will be mad or pissed at you. Just ignore what people say and it's alright to talk to this girl when you have a girlfriend. Just talk to your girlfriend and tell her about this; she will help you if you need it.
-Karen
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i wanna be a cheerleader but i dont think i can. what knid of things do you have to know how to do.i rate good
To be a cheerleader at your high school or middle school, you should know the basics as in round offs, back tucks, back hand springs, front hand springs, knowing how to hold up someone, and things like that. Basically, you just need to be flexible to do these moves. I used to be a cheerleader for about 2 years but I quit and I still know some things and such. You also need to know how to clap and how to do simple moves when doing cheers and so on.
-Karen
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hurry i need advice quick wut does it mean when a girl is going to "play" a guy???
When a girl is going to play a guy, it means that she is going to cheat on him or lead him on.
-Karen
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ok..
my boyfriend is like failing our grade and he cares but he just doesnt think he can do any better he always tells me he dont know how to study like his mind drifts and he said if he fails then he wants to just move to a differnt school...which would kill me!! because we wouldnt see eachother at all..so can anybody give me advice on what to do and help him pass some subjects (enough to pass)! please help! ill rate high!
You need to tell your boyfriend again that he needs to start showing effort and getting better and decent grades and he will stay back. Tell him that you love him and that him staying back will hurt you and that he needs to do better. You need to just help him study with him. Set up a little schedule of days where you can go over his house and days where he can come over to your house and study. Tell him to tell his teachers that he needs some help and he can stay after school and this will help him do better, eventually.
-Karen
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i have a horrible sunburn.... i mean horrible! it doesnt even look that red but it KILLS! for example, i went to bed at 10pm and i woke up at 12 not being able to sleep bc it hurt so bad! what can i do! when can i start going to the tannign place again?
Well, since you got this horrible sunburn from the tanning salon, this tells you that you shouldn't go back there because you should get a burn, you only get a rash type burn if you stay in too long. If you want your sunburn not to hurt anymore when ever you move and such, put Aloe Vera all over your body because it helps. You shouldn't go back to the tanning salon again but if you need to, then be safe and don't go in too long.
-Karen
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