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im 13/m...All of my friends say that i always flirt with this girl. she used to like me A LOT and then when i started going out with my g/f about 8 months ago, she like started yelling at me and we didnt talk. But now, we are friends again and we talk, but whenever we do, EVERYONE says that we flirt, nonstop. i try not to, but i just cant help it, i love my girlfriend and i mean that. what should i do pls help me......
PS.... how do you flirt? i barely know what that means
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I think you should make up your mind, who do you like more? That girl or your gf?
Heres what makes other people think 2 people are flirting:
- eye contact
- teasing
- winking
- whispering
- complementing
- smiling flirtatiously
- fooling around in general.
I hope this helps, RATE ME PLZ!
Sarah
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Just watch what you say. If you aren't coming on to her then no one will tell your girlfriend you are, unless they're stupid and assume things, and in that case what they say doesn't really matter and your girlfriend should believe you over them. As long as you make sure your girlfriend knows that you're just friends with her you'll be fine. Also, make sure your girl (space) friend knows that you don't like her as more than a friend, leading people on isn't nice. Good luck hun.
-Farren
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Everyone has the tendency to flirt. Its not their fault. You should prove it to your girlfriend that you truly do love her... and tell her how much you love her. Hope i helped!
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When you talk to someone, normally its harmless flirting that you dont mean to do. The girl your just friends with probably just has a lot in common with you that you see as cool to talk with her. If you dont have feelings for her, dont worry bout what your friends say they just dont understand how you feel about your girlfriend. Its harmless flirting, if the girl that use to like you a lot and you are now friends shes moved on and understands yall werent meant to be.
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Flirting just happens on naturally. You don't think about it. You should stay loyal to your girlfriend but if you should tell her about the situation. If you just flurt with her but don't like her it just means your a lady's man.lol. But whichever makes you happy or happier is the one you should be with.
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Don't listen to everyone else. I flirt with all my friends, it's no big deal. Basically it means you talk in a cute sort of way, you might call each other hot or hint at romantic things. But I bet nobody you know knows how to flirt and they are just saying that because a guy and a girl are talking to each other.
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if you dont even know what the word FLIRT means, then you definately dont know what LOVE means. your not in love with your girlfriend. and besides, even if you really were in love with her, then you wouldnt be flirting with other people.
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anonymous -
Good question. Flirting comes in a variety of different ways, it also depends on how people take your actions also.
Some flirting is pretty obvious. Like joking around "playfully" hitting each other, finding some reason to get close to that person even if you aren't dating, that type of stuff.
But some actions people mistaken for flirting. It's silly really. Like a lot of guys feel a girl is flirting with them if she just starts a simple conversation with them. Some girls feel that way too. They tend to think, "Why is he/she talking to me? They never talk to me...they must like me!"
But with your "flirting" with the girl, if you do love your girlfriend, keep it at a minimum if you can't help it. And I also think the girl is trying to lead you on...cuz not every girl overreacts to a friend getting a significant other if ya get my drift? I'm thinking that she has a thing for you and got angry when you found someone else and didn't hook up with her. If you don't want to harm your relationship, just avoid the girl altogether.
Hope this helps!
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Don't worry, it's normal to flirt and sometimes, you don't even know that you are flirting with a girl. Flirting means that you talk or do things that shows someone that you are interested in them. That's not the real meaning of flirting but I can't think of another way to put it. To flirt with a girl, you just need to make a eye contact with her, talk to her, smile at her, compliment the way she looks and dresses, and by saying sweet things to her. It's alright to flirt with girls, even if you have a girlfriend, because it's natural to flirt. Just don't go too far and then your girlfriend will be mad or pissed at you. Just ignore what people say and it's alright to talk to this girl when you have a girlfriend. Just talk to your girlfriend and tell her about this; she will help you if you need it.
-Karen
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