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do guys prefer for a girl to fake an orgasm if they don't get one during sex?
most guys feel like they are not a satisfying sexual partner if the girl doesn't get an orgasm, so faking one can help his feelings. but if he finds out that it was faked, then he could become more upset.
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ok well, a few of my friends and ALOT of people in my school and some even carry around condoms in their purses and stuff. some of my friends havnt done it yet but claim to love their boyfriends so their thinking about doing it. they're afraid they'll get pregnat and stuff like that or they're boyfriends will leave them or something. they say that sex is the most wonderful gift you can give to someone. then why does EVERYONE these days have sex ALL THE TIME?!?!? and another thing why is it the best thing you can give someone? i mean really? i personally dont think its a big deal to be a virgin before your married i mean, whats the diffrence? ok ONE last question for you. i love my boyfriend too and i would consider having sex with him(depending on the answers above) but how would i bring the subject up with him? please answer and sorry for all the questions.
about your first question, most people don't have sex around 13, (less than 25% of 13 year olds are not virgins) but it is always safe to be carrying a condom around, just in case. about your second question, i would try to bring it up to him casually, but not randomly, for example if you were having a convo about sexual related things then it would be ok, but not during a convo about sumthing random like the weather.
is it true tampons make your cherry pop? and does it mean you're not a not a virgin anymore?
it depends on how far in you push the tampon in, but if your cherry pops (your hymen is penetrated) then you're not a virgin anymore
Hey. Is it true that guys won't have sex with girls if the don't shave their vaginas?
generally guys prefer it shaved, but i don't think anyone wouldnt have sex w/ sumone b/c of pubic hair
Well .. i know this is kinda nasty but im old enough believe me because if i wont then i wouldnt ask this .. well nobody ever talked to me about sex but like i know about it .. but i was wonderin does a guy wont it shaved or hairy .. like not alot of hair i dont know help!!!
generally guys prefer it shaved, but if you don't feel comfortable taking a razor to that area, then you definitely shouldn't.
what are the "birds and the bees"? i have heard it a lot and i have an idea of what it is but can someone explain it completely? thanks! ill rate!
the "birds and the bees" is a way of saying the talk that your parents have with you about sex and dating. It is called the birds and the bees because of flowers and pollination. it is a complicated reason and i don't fully understand why it is called that.
well.... a few weeks ago i was scared and frightened that i got a STD cuz i had some itching and buring in my vagina .....later my boyfriend told me that his mom was a nurse and somtimes it itches cuz of fricktion and not enough lubrication... it only burns at night ...sometimes in the afternoon and right when i wake up.... ....can this be c caused by not enough lubrication or was he lying?....if it is caused by not enough lubrication how do i help to ease the pain alittle?
it depends on how long the foreplay lasted (playing before penetration). If aroused, the vagina makes its own lubrication, so lack of lubrication is usually not a problem. I would probably check with a gynocologist.
Is their any other type of birthcontrol bsides condoms that are easy to get confidental and no to expenisve
besides not having sex, condoms are the safest, easiest to get, and most reliable form of birth control. the only way to get other forms of birth control that i know of is by visiting a doctor or a clinic.
Is there any possible way that you could get pregnant from dry sex?
like grinding? i am almost 100% sure that it is impossible to become pregnant from grinding with clothes on
I am 15 years old and i ahve been going oiut with a 14 year olf for a year and 11 months now and he is a virgin and im not he said he wants to loose his virginaty too me and i want him to too but he is afraid his parents will find out whats a way to tell him not to worry about n e thing ur first time is always fun and feels the best he is just afraid he is going to get caught and not be able to talk to me n e more????
if you both want to have sex, you should tell him that he won't get caught. find a personal place, and also tell him that his parents have no business snooping in his sexual life.
I was molested as a child. By a male friend of the family and by my father. I lost my virginity with my boyfriend on the 15th & we have had sex about 6 times since & I still haven't had an orgasm. Could it be because I was molested? Is there something I could do?
usually being molested as a child leaves an emotional scar and can psycologically show up as Traumatic Stress Disorder, which can cause unnatural reactions to common things. I suggest seeing a psycologist.
So i was mastrabating yesterday and when i ejaculated there was a few drops of blood and the tip of the penis hurt so i thought it was just a cut. So today i mastrabated again and it happened again. is it just a cut, what is it
i really feel strange answering this question... but if its not a cut it could be a UTI (urinary tract infection) which, if it goes untreated, can become very dangerous to your kidney. I STRONGLY suggest looking up urinary tract infections on google and seeing a doctor.
Ok here we go. Ok im 16 and ive made a commitment to myself that i would never have sex until i am married. Im not saying now but in the future..can i still do stuff that wouldnt be considered having sex. and is that all guys want...i mean i had a bf for 2 and 1/2 weeks (not long) and he told his friends that he was going to have sex soon. I dont know y he thought that b/c i was uncomfortable even kissing him..(he was 2 yrs older) and im just worried that in the future ill find this amazing guy and all he'll want is sex and i wont give it to him (unless we get married) is that so hard for guys to handle...will he end up cheating on me and have sex w/ someone who will give it to him? so is there pleasureable stuff that we can still do ...thats not sex?
sometimes, all a guy wants is sex, but most of the time, they just want a sexual outlet. if you refuse to have sex w/o commitment, then that can be very frustrating, but you need to see it from his point of view: if he is 18 then chances are his friends are starting to have sex, and he feels left out. he could be being teased about being a virgin.
Alright, a question for the boys out there...
on deciding physically if a woman is attractive, what counts more; her body or her face?
I'll put it this way--would you rather have a girl who has this amazing beautiful face and an okay body--or a girl with an okay face but an amazing body?
kthnx
sum of my friends would say "if she has an ugly face, you could always put a bag over her head", but thats really mean and i would never say that.
my philosophy is, an amazing body is great when you just want a short fling, maybe something purely sexual. when looking for sumthing romantic, then a beautiful face is definitely more important, but anamazing body is a turn on
My mom has been smoking for a long time now. She smokes a pack a day and i want her to stop so she wont get cancer or anything. She says its really hard to stop and she already tried one of those stop smoking programs. How do i make her stop?
try the stop smoking gum, or the patches. usually they help
So my girlfriend and I have been going out for about a month now (we are 16 years old). She is a very open person and shares a lot with me, but I am not so open of a person. So always complains that I am not contributing enough to the conversation when ever I talk to her. I am not sky or anything around her, I am very confortable around her. I need some advice, how is a person suppost to open up to another person? I want to, I just don't know how. :'(
PLease help.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash
try talking about things that you know about, that always helps me when around girls. also, if you feel that it is hard starting conversations, before you see her, brainstorm some conversation topics.
recently, ive been cutting. i cut because i have so much emotional pain, it relieves me when i cut. it makes me forget all about my emotional pain because i focus on the physical pain. well, just this morning, i found myself thinking of suicide. this afternoon during health class too. We were talking about cutting in health class today and i just wanted to die. i was so uncomfortable. only 2 people knew about me cutting in my health class besides me but i still wanted to die. I dont have a boyfriend. I dont think im pretty enough to. My life is fucked up. no one cares about me. my parents are never home and when they are, they just yell at me. They always fight too. But the thing is, i wouldnt trade my life for anybody elses. its the way that i know life. I wouldnt trade it. and im serious. I wore a belly shirt to school a few days ago. Bad choice. some people saw my cut i made on my stomach and they said stuff to me. No one understands me. They think that i have the ideal life and they even tell me that. i dont. every one thinks i am perfect (or have to be) becuase my dad is a pastor of a small hick church... which i hate. I dont believe that shit. w/e. i wanted to stop cutting until today. i did it again today. its just a bad habit. any suggestions? anything anyone wants to say to me?? yes i have contemplated suicide. several times.
maybe, if you are cutting a lot of times a day, then you should try to limit the amount of times each day, and keep getting lower. that has helped me when i need to break a bad habit. also, try to give yourself rewards.
is 16 years old too old for a 14 year old?
because i don't think its a problem and it never ever seemed like a problem until one of my friends brought it up. hes totally cool with it. and he doesn't like force me to do anything. its nice. but is he really too old?
no 16 years old is not too old for a 14 year old at all! all that matters is that you really care about eachother. i was dating a girl that was 2 years older than me and a lot of my friends were teasing me but it didn't matter b/c i really liked her, so i just ignored them.