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I was molested as a child. By a male friend of the family and by my father. I lost my virginity with my boyfriend on the 15th & we have had sex about 6 times since & I still haven't had an orgasm. Could it be because I was molested? Is there something I could do?
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usually being molested as a child leaves an emotional scar and can psycologically show up as Traumatic Stress Disorder, which can cause unnatural reactions to common things. I suggest seeing a psycologist.
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It really depends on how old you are. if you 22 or younger than that's why b/c most females don't have an orgasm till there in there mid 20's so don't worry just wait.
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i cant tell you hes doing something wrong but its not your fault and it is not the fact that you were molested as a child have you tried to play with your clitoris while he is in you alot of females have an orgasm by clitoris stimulation or four play for /uite a while before intercourse try this stuff and i will check back with you i will do some reserch on this and i will get back to you on this
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Yes it could be possible but that might not be it. You boyfriend might be really bad at it too so it all just depends.Go to therapy it will help you alot.♥
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It could be. Subconsciously, you could associate all men with your father and that other guy. You may deep down think sex is wrong. Or your bf may just really suck at it.
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Well yes it is possible. I don't wanna be all psychologist like but here we go. Being that you were molested you could just not enjoy sex, so you don't orgasm. Could also feel kind of disgusted with yourself and sex in general, and don't think you deserve to have fun with sex, hopefully thats not the case, because sex can be fun with the right person and right time. I think if you really thought about what was holding you back, you could deal with it on your own, but molestation is a big thing, I suggest talking to a really great friend and working through it, maybe even your boyfriend. If you can't trust anyone or talking to a friend just doesn't work, i would suggest therapy. I'm soryy this was so bloody long. Good luck, and I hope you find your answer.
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well ive only taken one psychology class, but yes that is a very real possibility. your best bet, is therapy. then again there is always the possibility that your boyfriend is just bad at it.
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