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My gf and me not opening up to her
So my girlfriend and I have been going out for about a month now (we are 16 years old). She is a very open person and shares a lot with me, but I am not so open of a person. So always complains that I am not contributing enough to the conversation when ever I talk to her. I am not sky or anything around her, I am very confortable around her. I need some advice, how is a person suppost to open up to another person? I want to, I just don't know how. :'(
PLease help.
Cya when I see ya,
Hebasquash
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try talking about things that you know about, that always helps me when around girls. also, if you feel that it is hard starting conversations, before you see her, brainstorm some conversation topics.
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I love this question. If she is a girl that feels comfortable enough to talk to you about everything going in her life, and if you feel like you can trust her, start out small like you have. If there is something she mentions that you feel like you could relate to in your life now or in the past, tell her about it if you feel comfortable. Ask her a question about something you've gone through and see if she has ever experienced it. See if you can find some common ground! :-) I might can think of more later, but lemme know if this helped you any. Good luck and I hope I helped!
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Don't worry, it will happen when you're comfortable. Some people can easily speak what's on their mind. Just remember, opposites attract. You'll come around when you're ready. If you desperately need to soon, then i suggest trying to tell her an intimate secret or story from the past that you dont share with many people. Treating your girlfriend like a best friend is the best way to be open with her, because best friends share everything.
hope i helped
peace
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Hmm i'd like to say it takes time for you to feel more comfortable around her. If you try and make yourself feel and do things you dont feel comfortable with..you're going to have a bad relationship. PLus youre a guy and guys have harder times opening up and stuff. Just try to feel more comfortable opening up but if you don't feel right you should wait because time will tell!!
Good luck&I hope the relationship goes good!
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