K so you are not the "bad guy" here. He should NOT have been talking to that girl like that while your going out .. thats not right & disloyal. he may feel like you invaded his privacy by going into his phone & texting her back (well, even if it was your frind) but you should just tak to him and say look, im sorry for invading your privacy & i should have stopped my friend from writing that. but it hurts me that you would talk like that with her while we're going out. - be upfront with him, tell him how you feel, but make sure to tell him your sorry for what YOU did, and it hurt you what HE did. goodluck

EDIT / i didn't mean they were whatever .. thats just how the saying goes. but as far as loosing a friend over a boy, it's just not worth it in the long run. =] sorry bout that.


nooo! friends are forever boys are whatever.. at least that's how the saying goes. your friends will always be there for you, dont loose them over a boy/girl.

they sound like snobby bitches to me & im glad you already know that they're not worth being friends with. by saying something to them, it's showing that you can stand up for yourself and they will probably leave you alone. your friend and you can do it together for more courage. dont let what they say get to you and when they say something SHOW that you dont care .. just brush it off or ignore it. you could also ask them if they have a life - why do they spend it trying to torture you? because it's not working - so they're just wasting their time. it really depends on wahat they are saying to you and some other personality traits of the girls are but there are limitless possibilities. whatever you DO say to them, dont yell or anything. just say it ina calm tone of voice iit'll really get to them & show that you dont care about them AT ALL. the fact that you already KNOW you dont care what they think or what they say is already a big step; now all you have to do is get them to STOP by saying something. we learned in school that most bullies that bully will STOP if the victim stands up for themselves or isn't bothered by it - its takes the " fun " out of it. well, anyway

it's called skin & it's by the rascal flatts =]

no; it won't get deleted unless you go to the email sent to you & do what it says (which would cancel it). otherwise, your safe! =]

this happens to a lot of people including me! try using shaving cream (venus has good shaving cream) instead of soap because it's more moisturizing (hahah is that a word?) on your skin. ( = hope i helped.

it's true that chocolate is bad for dogs, but he won't die from just one reeses peanut butter cup! dont worry! just try not to let him eat chocolate again, but a little thing like that is not a worry (=!

Yes, but they do need some carbs, so don't cut them out completley.

it's kind of limited but you can work at a fast food place, reffing for a sport (my friend did it when she was only 13 & they pay about 70$ a game as my friend said, but you have to get trained), and i think you can like bag stuff at Acme or something. go around to any of these places and get applications. goodluck.

it would probably help you loose weight, but wouldn't you get bored of eating the same exact thing every day? you don't have to be that strict to loose weight. using the calorie counting method and having 1200 - 1400 calories a day and running on the treadmill like you explained. watch carbs too. eat healthy things like you said above, not a lot of junk food. if your hungry, a small amount of nuts is very filling& healthy. just try to be active as much as possible .. maybe take walks around the neighborhood with your friends or little things add up. goodluck

yes, you will be able to fit in them. i wear a size medium & i fit there, though i only bought like one thing there bc i mostly shop at abercrombie & fitch. they have sizes from like xs - xL in kids, so you should be able to fit

a lot of people i know who have acne use Proactiv & they say it really helps.

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goodluck

you really should talk to her. you don't want to loose a friendship over that.. she might just be a sensitive person (crying) i know im sensitive and i tend to tear up.. but you should talk to her and maybe you need a little break from each other.

i was just looking through the site and ofund this question too.. i already wrote you a long answer on the other one. i'm not on a bad diet, i am on a healthy diet eating all my meals & eating healthily, and exersizing more. my mom knows, and i have her body and she went through the same things when she was younger. im not loosing insane amounts of weight because im not like majorily overweight or anything, i'd just like to loose prob 10 more pounds or so, so i could look average by summer. you don't have to be worried about me and i am glad that you care. i am telling you this and what i told you in my other answer because i know i can trust you and you have told me that you are here for me. if we ever talked abotu it in person which would be very very hard for me, i wouldn't wanna talk to all 3 of you. probably just you. but, i just wanted to ask you, what do you mean i don't dress for my body type? am i supposed to wear clothes i don't want to wear just bc im a little bigger right now? like idk. im sorry if you dont care ab any of this or dont wanna here it. but you seem like you care and are concerned so imm explaining this. anyway.. i mean im not sure how i feel about talking in person but mariss i hope you know we can talk about anything. i just dont want it to be that whole 3 to 1 thing.. and i don't see why it was neccesary to tell megh and kris, as i already said i'd much rather just have this talk with you or any of this with just you. you are my best friend and i wouldn't talk to any of my other friends about this. my weight is my business.. you are some of my best friends, but.. it makes me uncomfortable to know that all of you guys know and im kind of rambling but ....... its hard for me to explain anything but if you want to i guess we could talk some time but im just warning you i dont know how it will go ill try not to get offensive but i may get embarassed and insecure and who knows what else.. im trying to be understanding and i hope you can be too. im sorry im telling you all this through advicenators and gohs maybe i shoudlnt be doing this maybe you should delete these after you read them just in case someone else will read them but ... im not mad at you or anyhting, i hope yhour not mad at me and if you want to talk yah idk what else to say this is way too long.. but thanks for caring.

if she is a good friend, she will understand & accept you for who you are. before you talk to her, say i am trusting you to keep this a secret, it is important to me and our friendship that you don't tell anyone. if she is a good friend she will try & help you get through your problem and she'll care about you, so she will accept you & not tell anyone. call her on the phone and say, hey JANE (whatever her name is), i gotta tell you something maybe we can hang out tm? or something if she says why can't you tell me now, say i rather tell you in person

i know what you mean. this girl is probably insecure and doesn't have many other friends. be nice to her, but encourage her to branch out. explain to he rthat you have to and want to hang out with your other friends, too, etc.

i, personally, don't mind lending friends money, but they don't ask for it all the time or a large amount. the next time she asks for money, say, "maybe we shoudl wait until you payed me back for the other times," or, "i'm running a little low on cash. do you have that money you owe me?" that's not mean & if you're good friends, you should be able to talk about it. you could try to begin hanging out with toher people too so you don't have to hang out with her every day, every weekend. hope i helped

you don't have to talk to me.. i really can handle this myself. it's good to know that you are there for me, but i am doing what i can and i am doing it the right way. it's something that is just in my genes, if you look at my family .. i mean, i know it's probaly hard for you guys to understand you are lucky and don't have that problem. but you know, i have to work just to become normal & yeah it is hard. ever since i was a little girl it's been an issue, and it is the most sensitive subject i have and my biggest insecurity. even if i eat the exact same as you and whoever else, i guess i just have a slower metabolism and i put on weight when you wouldn't. im active & i dont eat excessive amounts, i am trying to eat really healthy and exersize as much as i can. i know this probably isn't the right way to discuss this with you through advicenators and all, i realize this now and you may not even want to here all of this but i want you to understand even though its hard, and i would try to talk about it in person or other places but .. its really sensitive for me and i can't just bring it up in a conversation, ya know? and i don't really want to its embarassing. but i don't need people telling me im overweight.. the doctor even told me that i was normal weight for my height and such, but that doesn't mean that i'm happy with my body. i know im not skinny, i never will be skinny. i just want to be average and look good. yes its hard for me but i'm exersizing and eating right so that i can wear what i want and feel comfortbale with myself. its hard for me and i am trying to be as honest with you as i can so i really hope you don't take offesnse to any of this im just trying to explain, sorry that this is so long.

-sara.

yes, you should confront her about it. personally, when ever i find out something liek that, i kinda of hold a grudge without meaning to until i get it off my chest and talk to them about it. if you are good friends, you guys should be able to talk about things like that & it will even make your friendship stronger. just tell her what you know, how you are feeling, and tell her it hurts you when she does those kind of things.

it's normal for this to happen.. when you first get your period, it's irregular. when i first got mine, i was about 11 and i got it one day, then didn't get again for a long time - longer than you haven't had yours. so dont worry about it, its completley normal & will become regular eventually!

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