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mean girls
ok, so im a 13 year old girl, and i have been having some problems with these girls in my school. there are these two girls in my class, and they are SO mean to me and my friend. one of the girls used to be soooo nice, but then she started hanging out with the other girl, who is considered "popular" at our school, and she has completly changed! we used to be friends, but now they are just mean to me and my other friend. i'm not saying that i want to be friends with them again, because they are complete bitches and i hate them, but how can i stand up to them or just show them that i really dont care what they say to me, or what they think about me?
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they sound like snobby bitches to me & im glad you already know that they're not worth being friends with. by saying something to them, it's showing that you can stand up for yourself and they will probably leave you alone. your friend and you can do it together for more courage. dont let what they say get to you and when they say something SHOW that you dont care .. just brush it off or ignore it. you could also ask them if they have a life - why do they spend it trying to torture you? because it's not working - so they're just wasting their time. it really depends on wahat they are saying to you and some other personality traits of the girls are but there are limitless possibilities. whatever you DO say to them, dont yell or anything. just say it ina calm tone of voice iit'll really get to them & show that you dont care about them AT ALL. the fact that you already KNOW you dont care what they think or what they say is already a big step; now all you have to do is get them to STOP by saying something. we learned in school that most bullies that bully will STOP if the victim stands up for themselves or isn't bothered by it - its takes the " fun " out of it. well, anyway <33 good luck! hope i helped.
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