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Okay so i am a 20/female and my boyfriend is 33/male....we have been dating for about 7 months now and I don't know what we should do on valentine's day. the reason being is that we are both financially having a bad time right now and can't afford to spend any money on this holiday, but i really want to celebrate it! so any ideas on what to do? p.s. he in not really a romantic type of guy, but he would be up for anything. please resond! thanx (link)
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Okay. I have some ideas, they might help you.
Romantic night:
If you live alone, you can cook dinner for both of you with some movie, and a little gift like a perfume or cards/chocolate. And don't forget the wine.
If he isnt the romantic type of guy, then just go out to dinner in a special restuarnt.
Since you don't have money at this period of time, and if your boyfriend is kind of crazy and outgoing. Try something like (if you have a car), drive him to a bridge/mountain, anything with a great view and get some vodka to celebrite your love acting all childish and crazy.
Or simply you can go clubbing and get drunk, AND GO ALL CRAZY.
Good Luck
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i don't know what the quote ;
" inhale love exhale hate "
means can anyone help me please ?!
hahah kthanksbyee - toriibabeyyx0 (link)
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Ok i'm not sure but i'm going to try.
I think it mean inhale love as in get/accept some love.
And exhale hate means like throw/give away the hate.
So basically accept love and use it, while you throw the hate.
Hope i helped
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There is a movie like from the 80's or early 90's about this guy and I think he was either raised by dolphins or somehow learned to communicate with them and then i think at the end he died or something or went to live with them...I feel like he died or drowned I cant remember, it was when i was little but I always wanted to see it again. Does anyone know what movie I'm talking about? (link)
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All i can think about right now is 'Free Willy' lol but i don't think it's it, is it?
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hi again I am in a sticky situatioun see i said yes to a boy i dont want to go out with him now i want to break up with him and i dont want to break our friendship our him never talk to me ever again he is very nice but i dont want to go out with him please understand (link)
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Ok. I hate this kind of situations because someone always get hurt without a reason, so it's unfair.
But as long as you feel you need to break up with him, do it without thinking twice.
But abour becoming friends, as many times as you say/believe it's not going to be weird/awkward, well you're very wrong.
Relationship in the world, start as friendship and then goes to relationship but never goes back to friendship, so when your going to break up with him, your breaking the relationship itself, so there is no going back to friendship, but that doesn't mean you can't talk at all, and be all awkward but dont you ever think you'll actually talk on the phone or hang out.
Even though if you feel from your side it wouldn't feel weird because you never liked him the way he does, then he'll feel weird about it. But what's very wrong when you ask him to be friends he won't tell you no but it's going to be very wrong and something very bad is going to happen in the end between you.
You made a mistake by going out with him in the first place now get what you deserve by loosing him.
Good Luck
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This guy I like/liked [i don't really know anymore] told me before christmas break that he liked me alot, asked me if i liked him, i said yes. and i SERIOUSLY liked him alot. And then we didn't talk much over xmas break, and I got pissed at him and we got in a fight, didn't talk for a little. and then i come home sick one day and I see that he is IN A RELATIONSHIP with his ex girlfriend [whom i might add always complained about him and said how annoying he was AND she just got dumped the week of christmas break by some guy] so rebound much? I didn't even SEE this one coming. So now ... its been like 3 weeks theyve been togehether or something, and it's like they are haunting me. [he's in one of my classes] I see him and her at the movies. in the hallway. before classes. at lunch. I just don't know what to do. AND it's always like he's wanting me to see them together. Because when he hugged her today, he looked at me and it was like intense. but i broke away from his stare. and like, they sai i love you to eachohter on the second day they were going out. YOU CAN'T POSSIBLY LOVE SOMEONE IN A DAY. it's just not RIGHT. and she picniks all of their photos on facebook saying .. i love you (link)
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He might be a jerk or have his personal reason.
First of all i think there is something to do with the fight on the Xmas holiday, maybe he didn't want to go out with you.
And i think your jealous and pissed at the same time. And for sure that girl doesnt like him.
I'm not going to tell you to move on but seriously do you think that a guy who blew you off and dated his ex is worth being in pain for? Well no i don't think so.
So forget about them, ignore them and who knows go find a boyfriend for you, i bet there is a bunch of hotties who would go out with you and don't say thats a no.
Good Luck
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so i was reading some thing on the internet about how breathing can change your metablolism, or the way you breathe can depend on how your metabolism works/how you burn calories. and it was a bunch of like breathing excersizes and stuff that you do for 30 minutes that like works on the way you breathe or something and it says its suppose to raise your metabolism. is this true? can the way you breathe have an affect on how you burn calories or how you metabolism works? (link)
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Yes i think it could be true. And you can even try.
But i remember long time in my town, they used to say something like "If you laugh too much, you gain weight". No i don't mean literally it was just a saying, so search more and try. why not?
Good Luck
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14/f -- Sorry this might be long! :(
So there's this guy from my school that I've never really talked... but Friday night, I was on Facebook and he randomly just started talking to me. So he was nice and all, but then he really started to suprise me...
-Friday night: First he kind of casually slipped in that I was really pretty. Then we talked for awhile, and then he asked me for my number, so I gave it to him (I lost my phone about a month ago, so explained to him that I probably couldn't talk on it for awhile). Then he started saying (after we had talked for maybe a half an hour) that I was really cool and it felt like we'd known each other for awhile. Then I had to leave, and I told him so, and he said, "OK bye. And I know I didn't say this before, but you're really beautiful :)"
-Over the weekend we didn't talk that much, just mostly told me I was beautiful and etc.
-Monday night: He greeted me with "Hey, beautiful :)". Also, I've been beginning to notice he talks a lot about how he treats his girlfriends (ex., holding their hand, listening to them, etc...). Then, kind of randomly, he goes, "If we knew each other better, would you go out with me?" And I just said it depended. (I like a different guy MUCH more than I like him). He started saying that he wished my phone would turn up so we could text because he had to leave soon. He was really starting to rattle some nerves... Then when I had to go (it ended up I left before he did) he says, "Ok, bye :(. I would tell you I love you, but I'll wait until we know eachother better." I just kind of laughed that off a little.
Tuesday night (Tonight): Greeted me with "Hey, beautiful" again. I didn't want to start going through teh usually ruintine where I can't even joke with him cause he's giving me so many compliments, so I tried changing the subject (Social Studies). Then randomly he goes "So, how far have you gone with a guy?" Now I was seriously getting either mad or freaked out (maybe both?) So I just said, "Uhm, not very far." and he just says, "So just kiss, and that's it?" and I said, "No, not even kiss. lol." (I've never even had a boyfriend, but I wasn't going to tell him that!) and he just says oh. So after a minute of not saying anything, he goes, "Maybe I could be your first one?" And I was thinking, OK, HOLD IT WISE GUY!! But instead, I said, "....lol??" and he goes, "I'm was being serious... so could i?" But luckily I didn't have to answer cause one of my best friends got on and I told him I couldn't talk.
Ok, now before I go on, I think I should let you know that I am 99.999887% sure this guy is a player. He has asked three of my best friends out, calls my OTHER best friend beautiful, and just broke up with this other girl. My friend also asked him if he liked me, and he said I don't know. Who knows what else he could be doing? I asked him awhile ago if "he is usually like this with girls" and he said no. Then I said "are you sure?" and he goes, "yeah I'm sure. What do you think I'm playing you or something?"
So I really need help. It's not that I don't feel safe around him or anything... no, not that at all... it's just he kind of... creeps me out a little? I mean I would really want to be friends with him, he seems like a nice guy. I just don't want to be...whatever he wants to be. I can never be, just, friends with him--I can never joke or say anything about myself (like, wow, I'm dumb!) without him rushing to my defence, or talk about anything besides my ex boyfriends... the thing is, I've never had a boyfriend!!
My main questions are:
1.Do all/ most boys act like this when they want to seriously go out with a girl?
2. How am I supposed to tell him I don't like him in a way that won't make things akward between us?
3. Is this a really bad situation that I should avoid at all costs?
Thank you so so SO much for taking the time to read this and answer1 Any kind of help is appretiated!!!
THANK YOU!! (link)
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Ok. I'm going to tell you about something i experienced myself, then advice, then answer your questions.
First of all i had a creepy guy like him long time ago, asking me about sexual stuff. He was a player, he wanted to sleep with me and he even admit that, i didn't know him so well and we kind of spoke randomly, he started it. He is the hottest guy in school and couple of others school. He has the hottest girlfriend in town. So i wanted to be clever, i mean he keeps on calling me asking me to go over his house again and again. It was kind of getting annoying but i wanted to give him a lesson and i didn't want to give up. So one night we were chatting and i got used to his dirty talk, so i pitched in to see what is he going to do next. That asshole asked me to strip for me, but i refused and my excuse was so lame. So he thought that if he stripped for me on the camera i will for him afterwards and i made sure he actually believes that, so HE DID STRIP FOR ME. I got my camera and recorded all of that.
You just described a manwhore right here "He has asked three of my best friends out, calls my OTHER best friend beautiful, and just broke up with this other girl. My friend also asked him if he liked me, and he said I don't know."
So what's the problem? You either play him and give him a lesson, but if you can't and it's not your personality DON'T EVER SPEAK TO HIM AGAIN.
All he wants is to kiss and blah blah
So if you don't want to do anything with him, then don't talk to him.
Good Luck
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Okay,first off i haven't had a boyfriend in 2 years,(15/f.blah.whatever)and it only lasted a month. I know people always say "love yourself before you can love someone else"- i do, and i have great friends and i'm really happy.I know i dont need a guy to be happy- Its just I reaaaally want to be in love! Its not helping that all of the sudden theres like romance everywhere,but me, all aloonnne!its like taunting me haha.I keep envisioning meeting "the guy of my dreams" at like the movies or the mall-because i heard if you do this you can attract it to happen-but none of it works!I can't be set up with people,no no no. I'm not ugly,i have a great personality. Its just the fact that its impossible for me to ever meet a guy anywhere! So i guess what i'm asking is- How can i meet guys at like the mall or something like that? And have you ever had a -love-at-first-sight thing happen to you? If you have,what happend? Thanks so much for the imput and advice! (link)
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Okay. I'm going to try helping you but I'm also going to warn you
It's nice that you want love but the more your looking for it, the less chance you have to find it.
But how to meet guys that i can't answer because i have no idea where do you live?
So be yourself
BUT
Also you have to be carefully because sometimes when someone needs/wants love badly, they meet someone and develop little feelings they get confused and think thats love
So make sure your actually in love and i don't think love-at-first-sigh exist
Good Luck
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My dad's side of the family Hate me and they treat me and my mum (they dont like her either)as if we are dirt, and im getting SO sick of it!
My dad is getting really annoyed too, because my Grandma was like 'lets take Sh***(sister,17), Kri****(cousin,18), and Ni***(cousin,8) and Ho***(sister,6) to America to visit the family.'
No mention of me, and i'm nearly 15.
My dad got SO angry, and now he wont speak to her properaly any more, because, tbh, i dont likemy grandma that much, and she has Turberculosis, so im abit worried.
WHat do i do? shall i just take it and leave it? Do I stop talking to them?
WHAT?!?!
Please help :( (link)
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Okay i have this problems with my family, dad and mom's side but not all my mom's side
So i'll give you few advices
Don't let it get to you
They don't like you then don't like them not that you mentioned you like any of them
At least your parents are on your side so don't worry about it
and Don't talk to them it's like you need them
But don't be mean either so if they happen to be nice later and apologize, accept it
Good Luck
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the other day, my husband left his e-mail inbox open on the screen. well, curiosity got the better of me...anyway, i saw that he and a male co-worker have been exchanging pictures of women that they see in public places, ie, backsides of fully-clothed women in grocery stores who are innocently shopping and have no idea that men are taking pictures of their backsides. i am repulsed and embarassed that the peeping tom is my husband. should i say anything to him or should i act like i don't know anything? (link)
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I'm very sorry to say this but apparently your husband is a pervert who is spying on a lady and sending pictures of her to a friend.
I think you should apologize for getting into his personal stuff but also ask for an explantion
You also have to ask yourself if you can stay in a marriage where your husband thinks about someone else than you
and also ask yourself if it's okay on your dignity that your husband is doing such behavior while your his wife
Good Luck
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Well, ive known this guy for years but ive never really been great friends with him, a "hello" in the corridors at school is as much of a friendship we have. The other day he added me on msn instant messenger and he was talking to me and flirting, he asked me if i wanted to go for a walk with him, i said i was busy (which was true) and i was sorry. I dont know if he was asking me out or just being friendly. I dont know if i like him like that either. ( we are both 16)
What should i do if he asks me out?
Please help!! (link)
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Well. The guy seems nice why don't you give him a chance?
Go out with him on a date why not? Do you like anyone else? I think that's a no
So say a yes and enjoy your evening and get to know him
Good Luck
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im having my room re-done in purple.
so if you know of any purple room accessories such as a comforter, curtains, wall decor, stickers, bathroom stuff, etc, etc
please give me some links, i appreciate your help.
i dont have much luck googling for stuff like this.
i like anything sparkly, shiney, metallic, or royalish.
thanks :D (link)
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Oh!
I found those links for you
http://www.thepurplestore.com/furniture.shtml
http://www.nextag.com/purple-furniture/shop-html
http://www.shopping.com/xDN-furniture--purple___plum
www.thepurplestore.com/bedroom.shtml
I hope it turns out good =]
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I've never understood the whole emo cutting wrists thing at ALL. But when I think about it, I get sick and almost throw up. LIke right now. So don't think I'm trying to learn how. I just don't understand how and why. Do they do long cut marks or what? No idea.. please inform me. (link)
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Well in my opinon either way it's stupid (No offence to anyone who is so called *Emo*)
Some people are an outcast who wants to be *Emo*, so they start cutting their wrist and show it of to people so they can be called emotional and be *Emo* but those people are called more like *Posers*
Some people they feel alone or ignored, so for attention they cut it and show it of to people to get ATTENTION
Some people use it for suicide, when your heart is weak and you cant jump off a bridge then cut your wrist, this is what they think
Some people likes thrill so they cut it but my advice to those people play boxing if you want thrill
I hope I helped
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ok im 14/f and i have known this guy that since 6th grade. 7th grade we had this fling. we would hang out after school and do intiment stuff then he told me if i gave him a few days to think he might ask me out. but then he wound up going out with this girl who was supose to be my friend. but 8th grade came along and they were together for the entire year. they were almost to their 2year aniverery but they broke up. and now he wants to do a fling again and im all for it. but im afraid hes going to break my heart again. any advice? (link)
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Guys like him don't get a another chance, so don't give it to him
And your friend dont deserve to be hurt, i mean it's been 1 year you know
So you blow him off and maybe date someone else aftewards and please ignore him
Good Luck
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Theres this guy who im really in love with and hes in love with me too. we have been dating for 6 months but have been best friends for a year. we hang out everyday and i love him with all my heart. However, he has trouble believing this. He says he knows he loves me but doesnt know how i could love him. He thinx it must be infatuation or something but i know for sure that its not. He was previously a player but has changed. but he has a low view of himself. Its really sad to me that he hates himself so much that he doesnt think anyine else could love him. How can I make him believe that its the real thing not just infatuation or lust. i want him to know that i really do love him more than anything (link)
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Oh we are dealing with self-confident here
Well you see you can always cheer a person up
Try something like a gift, (Not expensive but special) tell him something clever like "I love you, no matter what and if you beileve it or not"
Be a sweet heart GUYS CAN BE SENSTIVE TOO
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I can't get turned on! I DON'T KNOW what it is! What happened?! Am I thinking too much about it?? Is there something wrong with me?! HELP ME!! (link)
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Okay i'm not sure this is going to help but i'll try.
I had the same problem for months, going insane and keep asking myself WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? or AM I A LESBIAN?
Well apparently nothing was wrong and i'm not a lesbian
The problem is not you, it's the oppsite sex
EXAMPLE :
I was in a club 57 rated on the best clubs of 2008, so i was drunk and this jamican dude which was very cute asked me to dance and i did, but all he did was touch my body and treat me like a whore, and then he start kissing my neck but i wasnt turned on which was weird and the weirdest part is there to come. I pushed him away because it was awkward for me in the middle of the dance floor and said "I'm sorry but i have Ashthma" i said that and walked away i know you're thinking is she alright? well yeah i am, he is the horney guy making girls feel awkward
So i think there is a story behind you not getting turned on and if you think about it, you're not the problem
Good luck
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hey i am 17/f and im having some problems with these girls. well one of them, her name A was in my class last year. and her other friend b sits with her at lunch well one day i smiled at B b/c i thought me and her were still cool. but then she and her friends including A started talking about me. i got really angry and upset. well i ended up going on facebook yesterday and i messaged her and i said "hey you and your friends need to stop talking about me" and then she messaged me calling me a dumb bitch saying that im not the center of attention and im the last thing that she and her friends would talk about me and said i was ugly, and we went back and forth saying things to each other. and she said that im too scared to say stuff to her face. and today i didn't b/c i didn't want to instigate a fight. and she never came up to me. so im wondering did i do the right thing by telling her nicely online for and her friends not talk about me? and also should i show the school the conversation she had with me? b/c im really mad at her and i really don't know what to do.. help! (link)
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Hi. I will tell you some life experience and then advice you of my own opinion
Well, whenever a girl would talk to me, i used to ignore it and sometimes do something just like you, but i would end up lost, some people would say "yeah whatever" and stuff related to that but the truth is, it's never whatever. Some people would tell you it's stupid that she is getting to you but the truth is you're not mad and pissed because of her, you're mad and pissed mentally because you lost
My advice is get back to her, not show the conversation that is stupid, you shouldn't do that
You might consider this violence but think about it and read it twice
When you see her at school, be confident and step up to her
Say something like "You and your friends should stop talking about me and if you don't then i'll kick your ass" or if you mentally not confident enough to do that then you should say something like "If you have a problem with me, then here i am show me what are you going to do about it"
Look you don't have to be mean to be strong neither have to be weak to be nice
No she called you a "dumb bitch", don't give someone a chance to play with your feelings or hurt them. It's a saying we have here in my country "Eat her breakfast before she eats your lunch"
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I've been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months. We're both 14 and he's my first bf. For a while things were great, but lately, there have been times where he's with his friends and me at the same time and he acts like a jerk. When I started talking to him about it, I realized that he has no self confidence whatsoever. He started saying that the only reason he has friends is because he's funny and he's funny by being a jerk so if he changed he wouldn't have any friends. Then the conversation progressed into the fact that high school is pointless becuase he's not smart enough, won't get into college, will end up with a really bad job or no job and will be a failure in life. He says he's made too many mistakes and he's just not good at anything. He thinks that there's nothing to look foward to in life besides eventually getting old and dying. I've always been a determined and optimistic person and I try so hard to talk some sense into him and get him to enjoy life but its not working. I think it's the way his parents raised him. He's just kind of accepted that he'll never amount to anything. He's always afraid that I'm going to realize what a failure he is and break up with him. I just don't know what to do. It makes me sad that anybody would feel that way about life, especially someone I care about. What can I do? (link)
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Okay. I see that your dealing with a drama queen
1. You should never forgive a guy who doesnt treat you right in front of his friends, i'm sorry to say this, but thats very wrong
2. About his school future, you should let him work, because no one is stupid, i mean your his girlfriend , give him lessons, talk him into it
3.If you love him, no matter what you'll never break up with him, even if he is going to pick up trash for living
4.If you think you need to break up with him and your feelings are not there anymore, dont wait do it because you will always feel guilty and never do, as soon as you do it, the less you hurt him
Good luck :D
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Heey. I'm 16 yrs old and a jr in HS. Ok so I met this really cool guy when I was in the 6th grade and we went out on and off throughout these years. Its crazy I know. We barely used to see eachother before but we recently got backtogether on november because he told me he loved me and I was the only one. So the last time we hung out was a week ago he took me to a resturant and we had a lot of fun. Then after that he never called me back. I called him lots of times and left him a text but he never wrote back. Then I called him on monday and he answered and told me that he had left his phone in his school and a lot of other excuses for why he didn't get to talk to we this whole week. So then I found out that he had blocked me from aim and he had an away message basicallytalking about a girl that he loves her smile and everytime he sees her it makes his day. I doubt it was about me. And then while we weren't talking that week he changed his mood on myspace to "in love" so anyway when we got to speak I told him to do what he wants to do(this was texting by the way) so I called him and he didn't answer so I texxted him back saying not to ignore my call and pick up but he didn't want to he just wanted to text. So then I said "do what you want to do because we were fine and then you got like this and before we tried it again you said that it wasn't going to be like last time but it is now" and he said "so its over I guess. I wasn't going to break up with you but that's the way you want it" so then all I could say was ok and he never wrote back after that. So I don't understand we were so good we spoke all the time and then we went down hill. And he doesn't even bother trying to talk to me. And before we started dating again he begged me to get back together with him like a million times. Btw we were on and off for like 3 yrs bbut this time he told me he was going to try his best and things will change. But I don't know what to do please give me advice. I've known him for so long its hard now to actually get over him for good and I'm extremly hurt. I know this was long so I'm sorry I'm really desperate. Thanks so much if you read all this. (link)
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Okay. Look this guy is bi-polar
or
he is a jerk who is playing with your feelings
or
a immature guy who doesnt know what he wants
Maybe you drove him away with calling him too much, i mean you kept on calling him for 1 week
and he isnt a man enough to answer your call he prefer texting dont ever go for guys like that
Sometimes people would tell you "to get over someone date someone else" maybe its true or maybe its not
so move on, dont talk to him, treat him like shit or more like treat hom how a guy like him should be treated
Or u can move on with dating someone else and better than him
Good luck
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17/f
well i've been dating this boy named josh for a year and 3 months, and i absolutely love him to death..but recently this boy named paul started texting me and i have a crush on him, its like more than a crush. what should i do? i can't get paul off my mind.
i told josh, that paul has been texting me & he got all mad and asked me not to text him anymore, so i said i wouldn't. but i can't stop texting him, its rediculous. (link)
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LOL? Well paul might be your forbidden fruit
Look your problem is you don't know what do you want.. !!
Or you can say who do you want .. !!
Well listen to me carefully you might like paul alot and you lost your feelings towards josh
Or you might be just carried away with confused feelings and you think you like paul and everytime josh tells you not to talk to him you do it because It's forbidden
You have to decide between josh and paul
And if what your saying is true and you really love josh to death then listen to him and STOP texting paul
Good luck
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