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should i or shouldnt i?
ok im 14/f and i have known this guy that since 6th grade. 7th grade we had this fling. we would hang out after school and do intiment stuff then he told me if i gave him a few days to think he might ask me out. but then he wound up going out with this girl who was supose to be my friend. but 8th grade came along and they were together for the entire year. they were almost to their 2year aniverery but they broke up. and now he wants to do a fling again and im all for it. but im afraid hes going to break my heart again. any advice?
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He is an ass stay away from him u are 14 thier are tons of guys that are better that you can be with forget him
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Guys like him don't get a another chance, so don't give it to him
And your friend dont deserve to be hurt, i mean it's been 1 year you know
So you blow him off and maybe date someone else aftewards and please ignore him
Good Luck
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Don't go back to him. Show him he had his chance and he blew it. Honestly he might just be keeping you around without the lable of 'relationship' for security reasons because he may have low self-esteem. He wants to appear as if he always has a girl (which would be you inbetween relationships) and once he actually gets a girlfriend he forgets about you. Be stronger than that and make him look like a coward as he did to you in 7th grade. Good Luck!
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I wouldn't do it. There is a chance he would hurt you and in life you obviously will get hurt more than once. This guy doesn't want a relationship with you obviously he just wants this "fling" and he changed his mind over some other girl and was going out with her for a year. This is my opinion but I think you should go look for a better guy. Trust me, there are so many good guys out there who would really like you. Good luck!
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Fling (intimate stuff) Not (girlfriend/boyfriend stuff). As much as you want to do this fling thing. I wouldn't, he's looking to use you. If he had really "liked" you, he wouldn't have dated a "so called frend!"
You'll just get your heart hurt.
Have a fling, but do not create emotions for this guy.
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