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can this get ANY worse ?!
This guy I like/liked [i don't really know anymore] told me before christmas break that he liked me alot, asked me if i liked him, i said yes. and i SERIOUSLY liked him alot. And then we didn't talk much over xmas break, and I got pissed at him and we got in a fight, didn't talk for a little. and then i come home sick one day and I see that he is IN A RELATIONSHIP with his ex girlfriend [whom i might add always complained about him and said how annoying he was AND she just got dumped the week of christmas break by some guy] so rebound much? I didn't even SEE this one coming. So now ... its been like 3 weeks theyve been togehether or something, and it's like they are haunting me. [he's in one of my classes] I see him and her at the movies. in the hallway. before classes. at lunch. I just don't know what to do. AND it's always like he's wanting me to see them together. Because when he hugged her today, he looked at me and it was like intense. but i broke away from his stare. and like, they sai i love you to eachohter on the second day they were going out. YOU CAN'T POSSIBLY LOVE SOMEONE IN A DAY. it's just not RIGHT. and she picniks all of their photos on facebook saying .. i love you <3. like PLEASE. I can't take this. I'm so lost. Please help ! Am I wrong to think that he is a jerk ... that what he did was really an asshole move ? Any advice on what i should do ?! [don't tell me to move on or forget him please, I know I won't be able to fo a while...]
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He might be a jerk or have his personal reason.
First of all i think there is something to do with the fight on the Xmas holiday, maybe he didn't want to go out with you.
And i think your jealous and pissed at the same time. And for sure that girl doesnt like him.
I'm not going to tell you to move on but seriously do you think that a guy who blew you off and dated his ex is worth being in pain for? Well no i don't think so.
So forget about them, ignore them and who knows go find a boyfriend for you, i bet there is a bunch of hotties who would go out with you and don't say thats a no.
Good Luck
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You weren't in a relationship, so he had every right to get into one with somebody else. It sounds like you're jealous. The only reason he would flaunt it is if he's:
a)angry with you
b)trying to make you jealous
Either way, he doesn't sound like a really great guy. Try to avoid him and stop and think if he's really trying to rub it in your face. I mean, it would be pretty difficult for two people to coordinate a constant show like that. Just try to start getting over it. It doesn't sound like it was really ever that serious anyway.
And to answer your first question. Yes. You could be without food, clean water, school, proper housing and health care like most of the world. It can get worse.
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you should do your best to ignore them. I'm not telling you to move on because only you can make that move. But ignore them and be the better person - they could be doing it on purpose, or it could just be a coincidence.
The best thing to do for yourself is to let it go and ignore them .. change your routine if you have too so you dont bump into them.
Dont look around for them - and if u happen to see that they r coming your way - just dont even look over at them - you know they r there no need to look at them lol
If he likes you, he will come around - because your not giving him any attention ;)
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