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turn MEE on!!
I can't get turned on! I DON'T KNOW what it is! What happened?! Am I thinking too much about it?? Is there something wrong with me?! HELP ME!!
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Okay i'm not sure this is going to help but i'll try.
I had the same problem for months, going insane and keep asking myself WHAT IS WRONG WITH ME? or AM I A LESBIAN?
Well apparently nothing was wrong and i'm not a lesbian
The problem is not you, it's the oppsite sex
EXAMPLE :
I was in a club 57 rated on the best clubs of 2008, so i was drunk and this jamican dude which was very cute asked me to dance and i did, but all he did was touch my body and treat me like a whore, and then he start kissing my neck but i wasnt turned on which was weird and the weirdest part is there to come. I pushed him away because it was awkward for me in the middle of the dance floor and said "I'm sorry but i have Ashthma" i said that and walked away i know you're thinking is she alright? well yeah i am, he is the horney guy making girls feel awkward
So i think there is a story behind you not getting turned on and if you think about it, you're not the problem
Good luck
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okay you need to there is nothing wrong with you
you need to experiment some try different tecniques and poitions,or even an dance like belly danceing or exortic dancing when you find that person believe me he or she will turn you on so high it will be hard to turn you down just keep your thoughts in the right places and you just might find the way to get turn on..
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No there is nothing wrong with you, Sometimes it takes longer with different people to become turned on. Try different things, to be honest...It took me awhile to find out what turns me on. Try touch, kissing etc. Try different things. Don't worry, There has to be something that will work ;)
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This is a very broad question/statement but have you tried everything? You can look at porn, or you can find out for yourself what gets you going. You should explore, try toys - go to a sex shop. Read a sex book with your 'partner'. If all of this doesn't work then you've probablly lost your sex drive and should consult a doctor. Good Luck!
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