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i'm wondering if my husband's recent actions are cause for me to be upset
the other day, my husband left his e-mail inbox open on the screen. well, curiosity got the better of me...anyway, i saw that he and a male co-worker have been exchanging pictures of women that they see in public places, ie, backsides of fully-clothed women in grocery stores who are innocently shopping and have no idea that men are taking pictures of their backsides. i am repulsed and embarassed that the peeping tom is my husband. should i say anything to him or should i act like i don't know anything?
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I'm very sorry to say this but apparently your husband is a pervert who is spying on a lady and sending pictures of her to a friend.
I think you should apologize for getting into his personal stuff but also ask for an explantion
You also have to ask yourself if you can stay in a marriage where your husband thinks about someone else than you
and also ask yourself if it's okay on your dignity that your husband is doing such behavior while your his wife
Good Luck
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You should probably say something to him, as well as apologize for going through his inbox.
However, what he is doing is pretty low, but more importantly, dangerous and illegal. If he gets caught, it could be very embarrassing for him, and possibly dangerous or get him into legal trouble.
Use THAT angle. If he doesn't have the sense to see that this is disrespectful and inappropriate to be taking these pictures of strangers, point on that it's dangerous and risky behavior as well.
One of these days, he'll get caught, and if he's lucky he'll get a swift kick in the balls. If he is unlucky, he might find himself sitting in a cell having to explain to a police officer who probably wont share his twisted sense of humor.
Remind him that not only are you disgusted by his poor judgment and bad behavior, but you are concerned for the risks he is taking in doing something so stupid.
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