Do you have to visit a Gynocoligist [sp?] when you get birth controll pills?
No. Just talk to your regular doctor about it. I got the pill without taking a pelvic exam or any other one. You don't have to be sexually active for it either. My doctor took a blood test and prescribed me the birth control pills afterwards. I got it for my long period and acne.
Once you become sexually active, it's SUGGESTED that you go see your Gynecologist.
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Ok I want my son 2 have a uniqe name that starts with a " M " but that not very known one of a kind I want it cool, uniqe, cute, and maybe even emo a little plz I need help by the way it has 2 a boy name
Maddox [Or Matt]
Mikel
Mason
Manix
Marco
Myles
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i just turned 13 and my penis is 5 inches is that normal?
Yes. The average is about 6 inches anyway. You stop "growing" by 18 so you have some room to grow more. :]
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Well my boyfriend wants me 2 give him a blowjob [a really good one] I just want 2 know from a mans/boys point of view about what some guys like I just hope I do what he likes and I want 2 know what I can pratice on besides another guy because I don't want 2 cheat on him
Ask him what he likes... :]
Usually a guy likes it when you pay more attention to the head with your mouth and that you use your tongue too. Pay attention to his shaft with your hand. Personally, my guy likes it when I randomly deep throat. He also likes it when I use a combination of my mouth and hand.
It's okay to take your time to experiment. You can't really practice on anything, because an object won't give you the reaction you would be looking for. You don't need another guy to practice on. Just practice on your guy. You are new to him and you don't know what he likes. It isn't good to just guess and continue the same technique. Try different things and look up on some sites. Look at his body and notice his reactions. My guy's legs or toes would twitch/curl. His breathing would quicken and he would make noises similar to moans. You'll know if you are doing something he likes. If his body language isn't strong, then ask him. I guess I'm weird and I really wanted him to have a good time, so I kept asking him what he liked after. So they just get better every time.
You know.. I'm sure your guy would like any bj you give him. I don't think there's a perfect one, as long as he gets it, you know? That's like perfect enough haha. You can try licking under the head. I heard that guys seem to like that. But if you aren't giving him a handjob while you are giving head, you should try that. It's like twice as good apparently.
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hey. im 15 and want to have sex with my boyfriend i have been going out with for a year. the thing is i have heard it hurts your first time. are there any masturbation techniques or objects i can use to make myself be able to be pleasured? this way, i figure, i wont be as tight and it wont hurt. please none of the " your too young to be having sex" speach. i dont need any of it.
thanks in advance.
I heard it hurt too and I was afraid of that, but it didn't hurt at all for me. I think it's because those girls have never masturbated or got fingered much, or because they weren't ready. My friend tried using the end of a hairbrush to make her less tight. You just have to work on being less tight. You should let your boyfriend finger you a lot working up to 3 fingers or more, that's what worked with me. It does take weeks or months for you to be comfortable with that. It's best to not skip many days of that or you'll become tight again. So if he's not around, you can try masturbating? There's really no techniques, just be turned on enough for you to get something in [your fingers or an object]?
Also make use your boyfriend takes it slow. It's best if you don't think too much about it when it's about to happen. You don't want to be nervous because you may not get 'wet'. Just be relaxed. If your muscles tighten up, it will hurt you. So talk to your boyfriend about what you want, he has to understand that it may hurt for you and that he can't get lost into his own pleasure.. and go rough or anything like that.
Fingering should be enough, since usually all males have larger fingers than females do.
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if you have split ends and you split them is that bad for your hair?does blow drying your hair really cause split endds?
It makes it worse. When you have split ends, your hair is damaged. You have to get it trimmed or it would get worse. A trim is the only way to fix or mend split ends.
Heat will give you split ends. Blow drying, curling, straightening, hot water, too much hair products are harsh on your hair. Also use a wide brush to comb your hair and a wide tooth comb when it's wet.
My hair was so fried and frizzy because of it. If you are going to use heat, don't put it on the highest setting.
Try a leave in conditioner when you are blow drying your hair. A deep coniditioner should be used twice a week if you want to "prevent" split ends.
My split ends give me knots since I have wavy hair. =\ It causes my hair more damage to comb out the knots.
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Okay so when a guy pops your cherry what exactly happens? Like does it just bleed right there and then thats it? like how much will it bleed? or does it like consistantly bleed for a while like a period?
like what is it like exactly?
He just breaks through a layer of skin, the hymen. It may bleed right there or later. For me, i never bled. Some girls just don't. You bleed just a little or a lot, almost like a light period.
It tears and bleeds a little. Nothing else to it :] You may notice it or not. My friend had to change her sheets, so it's different for everyone.
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How long/big should your penis be to be considered normal??????
14/m
The average is around 6 inches.
any size is considered normal though.
Apparently you have to wait one or two years after you stop growing in height to know your final penis size. So when you are about 18 or so, you would know.
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my moms telling me if i dye my hair when im on my period it will fuck it up or whatever.. is that truee ?
&& alsoo. my hairs died black & im trying to dye just the top part of it like a dark/lightbrown if i usedlight ash blonde would it work ?
No it won't. Or my hair would be screwed up now.
No you can't dye over dye. It just creates a layered mess of colors. You need to go to a salon and get your hair lightened. They will bleach it for you. I strongly suggest you get it done at a salon instead of at home. I've always been interested in hair and I was willing to experiment. If you do it by yourself and have no knowledge of the chemicals you are using, your hair will break or be fried. I had to cut my hair short.
Don't ever dye your hair black. It's bad news seriously. Because it will take a while to fade and you can't dye any color over it. If your natural color is a brown, you should use a colour stripper called "Color Opps" I'm sure it's in like Walgreens or Walmart. It has no damaging chemicals in it. So it's almost like a bleach, without killing your hair. I dyed my hair black too and it took most of it out. You should get two boxes if you are willing. One box on one try and the second box if the first didn't completely get rid of the black. Bad side of it, it smells like rotten eggs. If you wash your hair with shampoo, the smell would get it out in a day or two. But it's so much easier to use than bleaching.
So you can go to a salon and they will most likely do a great job, but it would be expensive.
Or attempt to do it yourself in a less damaging way for about $25
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How long does it usually take a guy to orgasm during oral sex? I did it for my boyfriend today and he said that I did really well but it felt like I was doing it for a while and he didn't orgasm.
It depends on how turned on he is. Make sure he's completely turned on so it won't take "too long". It really depends. Sometimes I think my boyfriend holds out because he likes it haha.
It could take about less or just about 10 minutes or to half an hour. Honestly I don't mind. It does feel like you are doing it for a while. Just experiment with techniques and ask what your boyfriend likes. Now it's easier to give oral. He likes it when I use my mouth & hand.
Sometimes the guy won't orgasm.. no matter how great it was.
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17/f
my boyfriend and i want to have sex but the only problem is, i think i'm too small down there. it took months before him fingering me with one finger felt okay. i told him to try two fingers the other day and he said he couldn't get them in and it hurt.
is sex going to be possible at all? i mean i know girls wayy younger than me have sex.
I was very small too. Just spend a couple of months with fingering. Also try fingering yourself to make yourself less tight. I know some girls tried using the ends of hairbrushes. Work from one finger to the next. Of course two fingers will hurt. But just bear with it until you feel you can't handle it anymore. My boyfriend and I worked on this for months until I was comfortable with having three fingers in. My first time didn't hurt either. It's better if you enjoy it and it's not all about making yourself less tight or it's going to be uncomfortable. If you enjoy it, it will be easier to slip a finger in. It also depends on how long you do it and how many times a week. I saw my boyfriend a lot over the summer so yeah. If he fingers you one week, then once the next .. you will end up being tight still. There won't be a big difference.
So just take your time, you don't need to hurry. And if it's not working, you might need to see your doctor and see how that goes.
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Can an extremely soft bed give you back problems?
Yes it can. I grew up sleeping on a somewhat firm mattress since I was little. It's what makes me feel comfortable.. so every time i sleep over at my friend's house.. her whole family has soft beds and honestly, i never sleep. i stay up all night because of it. my back is stiff and i always have to make my boyfriend give me a back rub :x
You have to find a mattress that conforms to your pressure points and supports the natural curves of your spine. So nothing too soft that you see a mold of your body and nothing too hard to make you feel stiff.
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what/(did) are you getting your boyfriend, wife, husband, or girlfriend for.....
there birthday?
christmas?
&& valentines day?
=] thankkkk YOU =)
ps. anyone know any cute sites to make love crafts?
with like paper glue and stuff lol thankss.
Christmas: i got my boyfriend various things from hot topic. I like it when he wears tight-ish pants, so i bought him a black pair haha. I bought him a band t-shirt, some tribal earrings and skull Vans.
Valentines Day: last year, i made him a "vintage" like heart card & got him a stuffed animal dog holding a heart. you can make a vintage like heart by cutting out two different colors, layering it and buying some lace..and making a border around the heart.
Birthday: I'm thinking about getting him some video games, maybe a t-shirt or a skateboard.
Crafts-
Collage: Print some pictures out with you two together. Put it on various sides of the paper. Cut out words to describe your relationship and paste it inbetween the pictures.
http://www.getromantic.com/funstuff/content.shtml?crafts/tissuepaperflowers.shtml
http://www.enchantedlearning.com/crafts/valentine/curvedenvelope/
You can go up on the internet and find some pictures. Like so, for V-day:
http://z.about.com/d/honeymoons/1/0/6/B/2valen_moon.jpg
Try to draw it in your own style or print it out and trace it.
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my sister really needs to find a new hairstyle, but i dont know what to suggest, she has long dark brown hair, like to her butt long, its naturally straight, and shes got this cute heart shaped face, does anyone have any suggestions?!?
She should cut her hair just below her boobs so it's not a very drastic cut. I think long layers would look great, starting at her cheekbones. Blunt straight across bangs wouldn't flatter her face at all. No bangs or long wispy/side bangs.
Also, a body wave or a perm would look great.
http://z.about.com/d/beauty/1/5/p/F/Katieholmes.JPG
http://images.askmen.com/galleries/actress/rachel-bilson/pictures/rachel-bilson-picture-6.jpg
http://l.yimg.com/img.tv.yahoo.com/tv/us/img/site/55/62/0000035562_20061027012942.jpg
http://www1.istockphoto.com/file_thumbview_approve/1344621/2/istockphoto_1344621_seaside_portraits_heart_shaped_face.jpg
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How do you make her cute little figurines?
http://www.queenofdorks.com/sculpture.htm
I have e-mailed her a long time ago but received no response. :(
Her site page says: "All of my sculptures are made using sculpey clay and are painted with acrylics."
So does that mean I can use any color sculpey clay then bake it in the oven (Bad idea? Should I borrow my school's kiln instead?) and then color them with acrylics? I have no background in art so I do not know what order I should do the steps in or what to use.
I also visited her DeviantArt http://www.queenofdorks.deviantart.com/ but to no avail. I would like to make little figures for my friends on Christmas! Thanks in advance!
Yeah there's oven bake clay and air dry clay. Just go to a craft store and see what they have.
I think an oven could work. I looked up on a site and it said it won't harden until it's baked at 130 C in an electric oven. I'm not sure if it's safe to use for clay and food though.
So maybe you can ask an art teacher. I was in a clay class back in middle school. You should start off with something simple as a heart as a test and experiment with tools.
I remember using these:
http://www.multifilla.com/images/Product_highlights/11piece_clay_tools.gif
http://www.sculpturetools.com/chavant/cart/chavantmodelingsfw.jpg
and sponges.
Also if you aren't finished with your work, make sure you put it in a bag and let all of the air out so you can save it for later. you can't leave it for days. I made that mistake and my work harden and water wouldn't help fix the cracks. Air drying works to harden but it still.. it could break easily =/
So put it in the kiln then you color them.
I've only worked with clay, not painting them though.
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I think my cousin touched me in an inapropriate way
we were playing frisbe and i had the frisbe, he ran over and takled me,,,this is how our family plays it, and like he touched my breast and me "down there" i couldnt tell if it was an accident,
and when he did i had this really good feeling wash through me like i actually enjoyed it...but i didnt cause hes my cousin, but i never had a male touch me there before,,,,should i feel akward around him,....was this good feeling natural...or was i sexually aroused by my cousin??
If you've never been touched like that before, you are going to have mixed feelings.. whether you enjoyed it or felt molested. Since it's something new that you haven't experienced, it's going to feel good in a weird way.
I can't tell if it were an accident or not since i wasn't there, but if he's not making a deal out of it then don't bring it up again. I find it strange that he touched your boob and down there. Was it the same time or at separate times? That could be an accident but if he purposely moved his arm towards down there it's a bit strange. What positions were you in when he touched you? Like how did he tackle you? Did he just run up to you and try to grab the frisbee out of your hands [where your hands by your crotch or boobs?]
Just consider that. I mean if his hands seem to go out of place.. and it wasn't needed, he probably did it on purpose. Also think about "touch" and "grab". Grabbing is not easy to cover up. If he tackled you and fell, there's no reason to grab your boob.. haha I think he wanted to touch you, because he touched you in two private spots. If it bothers you, speak to your parents about it. You don't have to. If it happens again, you need to tell him to stop. You shouldn't let your cousin touch you inappropriately like that. You should enjoy it with someone who isn't related to you that way.
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ok, this is a really dumb question, but what are the bases? like, i know first is a kiss, and fourth is sex (i think) but what are the rest of them? thanks
This is what I grew up with:
1st base: French kissing, basically making out and feeling up the girl
2nd base: Anything below the waist [fingering, handjobs]
3rd base: Oral sex
Homerun: Sex
it's different for everyone so if someone is asking you how far you've gone with bases.. just ask what the bases are.
it seems to change every year.
i remember it being.. like
1st: french kissing
2nd: blowjobs
3rd: fingering
Homerun: Sex
at one point.
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Ok well today he said that he likes this expensive sent thats $70 but he doesnt want to spend the money on it.
so i was thinking of getting it for christmas but if i get him that i wont be able to afford anything else.
its CHANEL ALLURE HOMME SPORT Great Sport Set
if that helps at all just thought i might share.
and his parents are prolly gonna be getting him his normal kind so idk if i should still do this :-\
I think you should get him something else. If his parents are going to get his usual set, then it might be insulting that you "went out of your way" to get him that. Also, you won't be able to afford anything else so it's best to get him something just as great at a good cheaper price. Or ask him what else he likes or wants. I would just save up to get the set later for like his birthday or as a random gift, much later than Christmas. So for xmas, you'll have some other money to spend on other gifts.
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Ok I have NO IDEA what my sster did but take a look at this:
http://s143.photobucket.com/albums/r155/wind_miko/?action=view¤t=untitled.jpg
I know, crazy eh?!
Does anyone know how to fix this? This kinda happened to me once but the whole blue bar just moved up to the top, not one on the bottom and one on the side like how she did it.
When i had a similar problem before, I just moved my arrow around the blue bar until my arrow turned into a 4-endnded looking arrow which allowed me to move it back.
Which i tried with this problem but nothing shows up.
Okay I just moved mine to that side and put it back just as easy. You have to click it and hold it, and move your arrow to the bottom. It should work that way.
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There is this guy I like, we flirt all the time, sleeps on my jacket, and he even got jealous when he saw a picture of another guy on my binder,and asked me if he could rip it up. Only one problem, he has a girlfriend. Everyone says they are g/f and b/f but he's says they're friends. So is he just flirting with me or he likes me? Should I go for it or forget him?
Whoever is saying he has a girlfriend, you need to find out who she is and talk to her. You need to confront her about it. "Are you ____'s girlfriend?" Simple as that. If she says yes, you can tell her how the guy is acting OR not. If she's not, then I'll be sure to go for it.
Or you can ask the guy if you three can hang out and observe their behavior?
You don't want to rush into something without getting your information straight. You don't want to be part of some drama. So you need to talk to some people about this 'girlfriend' and how long they have been dating [if they are], where they hang out, and if this guy talks about her around 'everyone'.
You could go for it, but if there's a girlfriend.. you know she's going to be angry at you.
he might be just flirting with you and he could like you, but if there's another girl in it, then it's not worth it.
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