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aroused by my cousin?
I think my cousin touched me in an inapropriate way
we were playing frisbe and i had the frisbe, he ran over and takled me,,,this is how our family plays it, and like he touched my breast and me "down there" i couldnt tell if it was an accident,
and when he did i had this really good feeling wash through me like i actually enjoyed it...but i didnt cause hes my cousin, but i never had a male touch me there before,,,,should i feel akward around him,....was this good feeling natural...or was i sexually aroused by my cousin??
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Okay, lets recap.
He tackles you, then "accidentally" touches you in a place where he shouldnt be. I don't think it was an accident. You were aroused by your cousin, but thats okay.
Never be alone with him, he might try to do something worse, i think you know what i mean.
If another "accident" happens, talk to your mom. If you dont want to tell her, talk to your guidance counselor.
If you ever feel uncomfortable around your cousin, walk away.
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If you've never been touched like that before, you are going to have mixed feelings.. whether you enjoyed it or felt molested. Since it's something new that you haven't experienced, it's going to feel good in a weird way.
I can't tell if it were an accident or not since i wasn't there, but if he's not making a deal out of it then don't bring it up again. I find it strange that he touched your boob and down there. Was it the same time or at separate times? That could be an accident but if he purposely moved his arm towards down there it's a bit strange. What positions were you in when he touched you? Like how did he tackle you? Did he just run up to you and try to grab the frisbee out of your hands [where your hands by your crotch or boobs?]
Just consider that. I mean if his hands seem to go out of place.. and it wasn't needed, he probably did it on purpose. Also think about "touch" and "grab". Grabbing is not easy to cover up. If he tackled you and fell, there's no reason to grab your boob.. haha I think he wanted to touch you, because he touched you in two private spots. If it bothers you, speak to your parents about it. You don't have to. If it happens again, you need to tell him to stop. You shouldn't let your cousin touch you inappropriately like that. You should enjoy it with someone who isn't related to you that way.
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