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my boyfriend and i want to have sex but the only problem is, i think i'm too small down there. it took months before him fingering me with one finger felt okay. i told him to try two fingers the other day and he said he couldn't get them in and it hurt.
is sex going to be possible at all? i mean i know girls wayy younger than me have sex.
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Gentle stretching will work fine, and after all, you're capable of giving birth, so you should definately be capable of intercourse. Take your time, but you'll be fine eventually.
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I know alotta of people with this problem. You guys just need to finger more and it will eventually stretch, it will take longer than normal but it eventualy will. You can also start to have sex like start by putting it until it hurts too much then pull out and just keep working on it at different times. It may also help to finger maybe efore you have sex but that may be too much for you.
Thats all the advice i got hope i helped good luck hope it works out for you.
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I was very small too. Just spend a couple of months with fingering. Also try fingering yourself to make yourself less tight. I know some girls tried using the ends of hairbrushes. Work from one finger to the next. Of course two fingers will hurt. But just bear with it until you feel you can't handle it anymore. My boyfriend and I worked on this for months until I was comfortable with having three fingers in. My first time didn't hurt either. It's better if you enjoy it and it's not all about making yourself less tight or it's going to be uncomfortable. If you enjoy it, it will be easier to slip a finger in. It also depends on how long you do it and how many times a week. I saw my boyfriend a lot over the summer so yeah. If he fingers you one week, then once the next .. you will end up being tight still. There won't be a big difference.
So just take your time, you don't need to hurry. And if it's not working, you might need to see your doctor and see how that goes.
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hello darling,
i think that sex at your age is way too young. but after all, it is your life. not mine. i am not going to control it for you. and if you want to know, just ask him if you think it will work.
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