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Hello!
My good friend and I are gonna hang out.. (both girls) just a girls night out.
We cant drive yet. We are kinda sick of the mall and we want something to do that hott guys are at. No clubs are anything like that.
Any suggestions?
thanks
I know you want to go have a girls night out. But you can't always look for guys. Have fun anyway, (time passes by quicker when you're having fun). I'm sure there could be any hot guy that can pop up in a min. or so, like your'e sitting there talking to your friends and then your turn around and you see this fine guy just walk in..
See me & my friends, waited looking for guys and nothing ever happens, so the next time we say:let's not look for guys this time, let's just have fun anyway w/out guys, but the next thing you know we run into a bunch of guys that night and ended up having fun. So don't just go lookinq, scoping for them cause that'll make you look desperate. Don't notice until it happens. && even if you can't drive, just make sure when you go you get dropped off at one place that has alot of stuff to do..
Good places to hang out: THE PUBLIC POOL (most def.) THE BEACH THE BOWLING ALLEY MICKEY D'S THE GYM (def.) if there is A local FAIR going on in your town. && thats it. That's the best. & I hope this helps, sorry so long!
I have been having sex with a guy for about 5 months now that I have been really good friends with for years. I love him very much. I also lost my virginity to him. He is 21 and I just turned 18. He doesnt want a relationship but he hasnt exactly been acting like a friend to me either. I do everything I can for him, but he wont go anywhere with me.... just his apartment when no one else is there. He has had less and less contact with me lately, and acts like he cares, but my best friends (who are friends with him too) tell me he is using me and its a waste of my time and to stop talking to him totally. I dont know what to do and how to completely stop talking to him if thats what I should do. It hurts so much. When I try not to talk to him, I end up talking to him within a matter of days. But he doesnt call, we barely see eachother, we just text all the time cept weekends because then hes out with his friends getting trashed and doing drugs. I am going over to his apartment tomorrow to talk to him and hes making me dinner (like he always does). What do I do?
You love him? , are you sure, because it sounds like to me that he's not treating you right. The best thing I can tell you, is to stop all communication with him. All this guy seems to want is to hook-up and he goes to you because he knows you'll give it to him. Your're friends are telling you right,you're just wasting your time. You deserve someone better, and he doesn't deserve a good person like you. I know you may be tempted to talk to him, but try not talking to him, stay busy go out with a bunch of your friends, have a girls night out.Either Cancel the dinner with him tommorow, and just call him, and tell him in your best words,that you don't want to see him anymore, and that yall are not going anywhere. Or you could talk with him and ask: are we going anywhere, are we going to have a relationship? do whatever you feel, but these are my 2 best options. you deserve better. sorry so long. hope this helps.
hey. i have liked this guy for a while..last year i liked him and everyone thought he liked me but i wrote him a note asking him if he did and he never wrote back & my friend would bother him about me ( which i didn't really like.) we're both shy & even though he is popular he is pretty quiet and is kinda known for not showing alot of emotion. this year, we still look at eachother and make eye contact alot and one of my best friends thinks he might still like me. me & the guy never really talked so i don't know what to do. how can i tell if he likes me? last year i thought he did but then some stuff happend and i kinda gave up..but i still like him and i need some advice on what i should. thankss ♥
So you wrote him and he didn't right back? Hmm.. ask him again but this time do it in person. If you're not really sure, then this is a good way to find out. To tell if you like he likes you, there is subtle and more sensible signs like you said he already has made eye contact so thats one. If you don't really talk, talk to him even if you are shy. Get to know him, see if he's the right one for you and if he's not, hey there's plenty of other dudes around. So my best advice, don't wait around too long waiting for him, if he's not giving the "i like you" vibe move on. Don't spend so much time on liking one guy.
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Here is some tips I got from Seventeen magazine I just read the article yesterday.
1. Fill your cup- with sode or juice. Nobody will notice that ther is no booze in your cup
2.Take a fun role- like a candit photo taker or DJ/ To stay social and a SOLID reason for you to remain sober all night
3.Bring a friend-who doesn't plan on getting drunk, That way you can still have fun when everyone else is drinking alcohol
3. Water- helps prevent dehydration so you wont get sick the next day.
ok when i told my friend i was getting my hair permantly straighten she said NO it will damage your hair and everything. But dont they put vitamins in ure hair so it isent damaged?
if theres a website on this please give it to me :]
thanks
PERMANENTALEY straighten? To me I think that is a complete no no.. I've had thought about this issue since my hair is naturally curly, and people have told me: 1. when you pemanetley straighten your hair it won't go back the way it was , like naturally curly, you can't scrunch it or nothing. But I do suggest you look at this site. Hope this helps. http://www.hairfinder.com/hairquestions/permanently_straightening_hair.htm
like i dont have a good relation ship with any guy right now because i just moved. well ever since i moved i wanted to have sex with my ex. i dont even like him that much any more. but everytime i see him that "feeling" comes back. I am very christain i just dont no why i am havin these thoughts?
any help?
Have you already have had sex? or just this question seem to have crossed your mind? It's normal to have these thoughts, & I think just about everyone has them. If you don't like him that much then maybe you shouldn't even be thinking about having sex with him. Do it with someone you love , I'm not going to preach and say "wait til marriage" kinda thing but it's worth the wait , to wait for someone you love. Don't worry about having any relationship with a guy. Just be friends, keep yourself busy in the new town, you just moved there, there is alot things that I'm sure you could do that could keep your mind off of this. There is other guys just make sure that they're worth giving that up for. Hope this helps, rosie.
I have SUPER straight and thick hair. I have tried to scrunch it many times but that never did any good. So i put my wet hair up in a bun and sleep with it. It does get curly/wavy - ish but it never lasts. I put tons of hairspray but only the top part of my hair would stay scrunched, the bottom/inner part would be dead straight. So any products or tips that would make it scrunched the whole day and have the wet look? Thanks.
The wet look is not old, I still do it, it works well for spring and summer. But do whatever hairstyle you feel like. I use Tresemme curl mousse and hair spray. It works wonders. Or use John Frieda's Curl around shampoo and conditioner. Hope this helps.
13/f
Its that time of age when everything changes!
I've been getting a lot of discharge lately& yes I've already started my period.
I just need a way to keep myself clean and odor-free down there.
Any HOME REMEDIES or certain ways to clean down there?
That's normal if the dicharge is white but if it is foamy and is comes as green or yellow then it is an abnormal discharge. See a gyno if this happens.Other than that if it white,then its just healthy its getting the bacteria out. The way to keep yourself clean is just use regular unscented soaps, don't use anything with perfumes and stuff like that, it will irritate it and can cause more bacteria. Don't use douche either, I've used it and then I was told that it wasn't good. Make sure that when you wash you used clean panties after it. Hope this helps.
Can I get peoples honest opinions if you kill yourself where and how do you think you will personally end up. When I was 17 I had a 22 year old boyfriend I didn't call him for about 3-4 weeks and the next thing I knew he was gone and practically married my heart can't take it I haven't heard or seen hm face to face in a year. How will I get over this.
I don't mean to be a preacher, and sound like the others but trying to commit suicide, is not a good decision to even think about. Think about your family and your friends,how would they feel,you think it would end all the pain for you if you ended your life, but think about the pain that it would put on your friends and family. I don't know if your Christian or not but God gave you your mother that brought you into this world, your'e a gift to your mother. You need to live your life, I've been through this, I was 15 and he was 19 ,I was young, he didn't call me, he kind of left me. He was gone too and never made contact with me, but I managed to stay busy with school, and get involved with some clubs in school. Stay busy and also ,go to your friends for help that's the first people I would go for help and comfort. They got me throught it and I moved on. KEEP YOUR HEAD UP! xoxo Rosie.
how can i make my hair wavy after i shower? and how can i scrunch it? :]
When your hair is damp use Tresemme mousse and then use the hair spray, to scrunch it use your fingers/hands and squeeze your hair in-between your hands like your gripping something. Or use a curling iron. Hope this helps. xoxo Rosie.
14/girl and I have flat hair. GRRRR! I do not want to change shamppoo. Does anyone know how I can increase my hair volume without buying another shampoo? I use Sunsilk for volume, but it gives me static instead. HELP!
I use a Tresemme`mousse, mousse which comes out almost like spray-starch foam , I have naturally curly hair but get mousse made specially for your hair it'll work, also, when I blowdry my hair and ready to straighten it I use a large round brush,http://mpimages.hairboutique.com/_images/products/conair_brush_90060_350w.jpg it gives you good volume .A curling iron will give it volume also, I use all these tools for my hair, that's why all my friends are like "your hair has so much volume" "how do you get it like that". Hope this helps xoxo rosie.
how do you make a boy like you? like he already likes me and he tells me that all the time but there are about 5 other people in love with him and i dont want to lose him but i cant go out with him because my mom wont let. i see him in the halls and stuff and we hang out with my friends and him on weekends but what can i say/do?
thanx!!!!!!!!
Bottom line, you can't make a guy like you. If he likes you, he likes you. You said he likes you no problem but there is 5 other people in love with him, hmmm... Make sure that this guy is not a player. He could be doing/saying the same stuff to all the other 5 girls. Just look into it, see how he flirts with other girls, if he talks to all of them the same and you diffrently than it's you he really likes. But if you find he's saying some of the same stuff to you and the other girls than he's just a player. You don't need that. Why does your mom not want you to go out with him?, does she think he's not trustworthy? Or is it that she won't let you date him at all?.. If it is cause that she's thinks hes not trustworthy, maybe your mom is right. If she won't let you date him at all and he is a trustworthy person, tell your mom to get to know him, let him come to your house and introduce him to your mom, make sure he is polite. Hope this helps, this is the best I can do, and sorry so long! -xoxo Rosie
ok, my boyfriend is 21 and i am 16, and i was reading about the age of consent laws in my state and this is what it said...
FLORIDA 18
The age of sexual consent is 16 for adults who are under 24 years of age,
or if the adult that is 24 years of age or older is married to the minor.
does that mean he cant get into trouble if we are dating and/or do anything sexual?
I live in FL and you can't get into trouble for dating him but if you have sex with him, he could get charged for statutory rape, even if you give him consent. I know, it's stupid but it is serious esp. in FL.
so i have this fried and she has a boyfriend joey. and he is head over heals for her but he pretty much controls her life. he wont let her do anything. he even wont let her hang out with me. ive told her that he is insane and she said that she would break up with him or talk to him but i dont think she has even talked to him. i really dont know what i should do. should i just stop talking to her. and she has blown me off multiple times to hang out with him.
It sounds like to me that your friends boyfriend is overprotective and controlling. You need to look into this, and tell your friend to watch out because if he is overprotective of her, he could get violent if she doesn't doesn't do the things he says. If it is that way, (like is he hitting her?, telling her not to wear this ,and do that) then your friend needs to get out of this relationship. A guy who is controlling like that can get abusive, and that's not healthy for your friend.She needs to get out of this relationship, quickly. Just tell her to break it to him gently, that it's not working out, and be careful if he does get violent, call the closest adult or somebody for help. If you want, you can be there with her. Just like be outside or something while they're talking, and if things get violent call the cops.That's the best advice I can give to you for your friend, hope this helps. xoxo Rosie
So my boyfriend and I broke up like 2 weeks ago and Im VERY happy about it!!!
But i realized i hate him LOL.
I want some good Break up songs....
Funny ones...
MEAN ones.
I hate you ones.
Fuck you ones....
Ideas?
Please!!!
Eamon- I don't want you back
F*ck You Right Back ( girl version) *funny*
I'm Gonna Make You Miss Me - 3LW
Hit 'Em Up Style (Oops!) - Blu Cantrell
There You Go - Pink
Since You Been Gone- Kelly Clarkson
I hate everything about you- Three days grace
Cry Me A River- Justin Timberlake
What Goes Around Comes Back Around -Justin Timberlake
i went out with my boyfriend for around 7 weeks, i dumped him because i thought he kept lying about alot of stuff but the main reason was he was really pressuring me into doing stuff with him and i just wasn't having it. now a week after i dumped him he decided he was going to get together with one of my friends *we're not really that close* but she's very immature nd said to him she doesn't wnt a relationship she jst wants some fun so he was up for that and one thing led to another *they're not together but they have done stuff with each other* i'm not jealous because i really dont wanna get bck together wif him he really makes me feel sick...... i'm so angry wif him and her because i feel lyk she's totally contridicted what i have said and him because i fink he's just a slut.....
i really don't no why i'm so angry nd am sorry its long but can someone please tell me why i'm gettin lyk annoyed by this
You are probably feeling just angry and a lil hurt. But you have evry right to be angry with him. He's the one who is immature. Pressuring you to do stuff with him? If he was mature and if he liked you, you wouldn't be pressuring you to do stuff with him. Don't do anything that you're not comfortable with until you're ready, you shouldn't ever be pressured into making a decision quickly. Take your time. You're "friend" is the one making a mistake and she does know it and she'll probably end up regretting it later. Ignore your so- called "friend" if she was your friend she wouldn't have done that AT ALL, even if you aren't jealous. Trust me, She's not your friend.
is he a solo artist or a group?
A group.
There's this guy that I've known for almost 5 years now. We've been pretty good friends for about 4 years. I've liked him for 2/3 years =/. we never went out and we don't see eachother that much, since he doesn't go to my school. We've always been good friends but we never really hung out. About a month ago we started getting close over AIM and hung out. When we hung out he kept flirting with me. he always gives me compliments and sometimes tells me he loves me, etc. sometimes he tells me he wants to hook up and stuff like that and we joke around about doing stuff. we talked about what would happen if we ever went out, and he said that we're way too close. i feel the same way. I kind of want to just be very good friends with benefits. Lately though, i've been running out of things to talk to him about. We already know a lot about eachother so i can't ask him a lot of questions that can start a conversation. help?
I think he likes you, he just doesn't want to ruin the friendship. That's how me and my best guy friend were. Hooking up and being friends with benefits doesn't sound to good at all, it could ruin the good friendship that yall already have, and I doubt any of you wanna ruin that. So when you are ready to strike up a conversation, don't be nervous, have a boost of confidence ask him anything. Talk about you and him. etc.. Hpe this helps, ♥ rosie.
I like this boy who has a girlfriend.
We know eachother very well, we even had sex and stuff many times[dont lecture me on that please]
His friend told me 2 times that he likes me but doesnt want me to know.
He likes his girlfriend and me alot,says his best friend who doesnt seem like a liar.
He usually walks by my class ,and i thought that was only because his girlfriends class is right near mine.
He full well knew she wasnt going to be there for a few days and he still walked by and he knows my class is right there because we like stare eachother down.
I dont know if Im just thinking things or what.
Boy who has a girlfriend.
Forget him and move on girly, girl. He's just leading you on. Trust me, I learned my lesson I've been through this before. He may like you but maybe not enough to break up with his girlfriend. He's not committed to his relationship with his girlfriend, so what makes you think he'll be committed to you?. That's not fair what he's doing to you or his girlfriend. She's probably in the dark about this.I learned the hard way & it may take some time for you to get over him , but time will heal. And maybe before you know it a new love will blossom for you. Good luck!
i feel like my boyfriend is making me sad all the time. all of these girls that he's friends with tell me that he likes THEM and he's going to cheat on me for THEM. at first i didn't believe it, but then i found out he hung out with them yesterday and it made me feel hurt.. he did invite me to the movies but he said he could only stay for a half hour so i decide i didn't want to go and he said "i love you and i wanna see you" but after hearing what those girls told me, i was too hurt to see him. he said he's sorry if he hurt me and he loves me.. i asked him if he liked kayla [the girl who said he was gunna cheat on me for her] and he said he MIGHT like her. and i said why? and he said "because she actually showed up to see me." now i don't know if i can trust him because that girl said that he wrote a song for her and sang it to her and told her that he loved her. i don't know who to believe
JERK ALERT!! -Your boyfriend should not be the one to make you sad he should always be the one to make you happy not sad. It can matter what all the other girls said if he said he "might like another girl".He shouldn't have ever even said that. It sounds like to me he's playing games, and likes to shoot down your self -esteem, you don't need a guy like that. If you're honest with yourself, even if you love him, that this relationship is not working out the way its supposed to be, get out of the relationship and save yourself from the heartbreak, you deserve someone better. hope this helps.