hey. i have liked this guy for a while..last year i liked him and everyone thought he liked me but i wrote him a note asking him if he did and he never wrote back & my friend would bother him about me ( which i didn't really like.) we're both shy & even though he is popular he is pretty quiet and is kinda known for not showing alot of emotion. this year, we still look at eachother and make eye contact alot and one of my best friends thinks he might still like me. me & the guy never really talked so i don't know what to do. how can i tell if he likes me? last year i thought he did but then some stuff happend and i kinda gave up..but i still like him and i need some advice on what i should. thankss ♥
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? ohxthexdrama answered Wednesday March 14 2007, 6:44 pm: well if youve liked him for so long, you are probably getting impatient. hahah i understand. but i wouldnt be so concerned RIGHT NOW with if he likes you or not. just start talking to him more in the halls or in class (if you have any classes together). then once you guys start talking more, maybe invite him to go hang out at the mall or go see a movie. if you arent comfortable going to the movie/mall with JUST him, invite a big group of you/his gal friends and your/his guy friends. that way theres kind of an insurance that there will be no akward moments. haha. but if he rejects you right off the bat, dont give up hope, he may just be too nervous or honestly busy. (:
then after all that if over and done with, you will probably have some idea about if he likes you or not. but if there are no DEAD givaways, then ask him. seriously, guys dont mind. but, if you, like e, dont have the courage to do that, check out his sight for some signs that he likes you. www.links2love.com (:
sami_murdaa answered Wednesday March 14 2007, 4:41 pm: you should really go up and talk to him. i know its easier said then done. or just message him on myspace or something of the sort. you should just come out and tell him how you feel so u dont go on wondering and regretting what it could have become. [ sami_murdaa's advice column | Ask sami_murdaa A Question ]
phatdopelove answered Tuesday March 13 2007, 11:57 pm: So you wrote him and he didn't right back? Hmm.. ask him again but this time do it in person. If you're not really sure, then this is a good way to find out. To tell if you like he likes you, there is subtle and more sensible signs like you said he already has made eye contact so thats one. If you don't really talk, talk to him even if you are shy. Get to know him, see if he's the right one for you and if he's not, hey there's plenty of other dudes around. So my best advice, don't wait around too long waiting for him, if he's not giving the "i like you" vibe move on. Don't spend so much time on liking one guy. [ phatdopelove's advice column | Ask phatdopelove A Question ]
whoaxbabe answered Tuesday March 13 2007, 8:37 pm: Just start talking to him more. That's the easiest way to figure out if a guy likes you. Start saying hi to him at times, & see what happens from there. Sometimes in class, you can start a nice conversation too :] Then you guys will talk more & you'll for sure know if he likes you or not.
kiran answered Tuesday March 13 2007, 6:40 pm: Well yeah whenever a girl likes a guy they want to know if the guy likes them. And alot depends on the type of guy is is and his personality. Like you said the guy was quiet right? So he might be harder to to tell. Flirt with him a little bit and see what his reaction is and if it seems good he'll probably flirt back or he just might not know what to do. Here is a web site that might help you.
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