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Okay.Well.I have this friend ok.And she's almost 13.And she is in absolute love with this guy.And this guy is almost 17.But this guy is dating someone already.This guy also kisses my friend all the time and makes her think that he likes her when he really doesn't.He only does that so she doesn't kill herself.But it's hard for me because I tried telling her this and she wouldn't listen to me and now she hates me..and me and her were best friends for almost 4 years.And now she's letting this fag in the way of it.What do I do??? Because anyone i ask has no answer for me :/

I would telling her that you just don't want to see her get hurt, because a 12 year old dating a 16 year old is way out of the question. There is to much of an age gap. There are many differences in how a relationship is pictured between a 12 year old and a 16 year old, for this reason, try doing all that you can to help your friend overcome this unfortunate crush.

It is also scary to think that she would kill herself over a stupid guy. If you are worried that this will literally happen, talk to an adult that you trust, like your parents, a teacher, or a counselor ASAP, because doing so may be able to save your friends life.

You have to just keep trying and trying. If she keeps getting mad at you, that usually means that she does actually have doubts about the guy.

Do not stand there and watch your friend become played like that.

If you really care about your friend and don't want anything bad to happen to her, then I trust that you will make the right decision.

Best Regards,
Mariah

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what exactly is that? lol, would a person be a pathetic, lonely loser for using it?

I'd say, if you have the time to waste, and have nothing better to do, then you should use that website.

Although, getting involved with websites like this often leads to procrastination, so only use it if you don't easily get addicted to websites and if you have some spare time to waste.

Best Regards,
Mariah

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my thighs arent that skinny, but i would like them to be more bigger so when i wear jeens i feel moe comfortable ( o yeah my legs are long and thin so it looks awkaward to me)

To make your legs "bigger", I would suggest taking up the sport of running, playing tennis, or playing another sport that works legs. Because you don't want to fatten your legs; you'd much rather have them be muscular and toned.

I would try doing some leg exercises as well, like lunges and reverse lunges with and without using weights. Also be sure to eat healthy meals that follow the food pyramid, as well as your dietary needs, as that will also help you build muscle.

By doing all of this, your legs will not only be "bigger", but will also become more muscular and toned.

Best Regards,
Mariah

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