I'm Victoria. I haven't been on this site in a while. If you have received advice from me before and liked it, please feel free to ask more questions.
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A father finds his son praying at night. 'God bless Mommy, Daddy, and Grandma. Ta ta Grandpa.' The father finds this odd, but doesn't think too much of it. The next morning the grandfather dies. The father remembers the night before, but doesn't say anything. That night, the son prays, 'God bless Mommy and Daddy. Ta ta, Grandma.' The father hopes that nothing happens to the grandmother. Sure enough, the next morning the grandmother dies. At this point the father gets really scared. That night, the son prays "God bless Mommy. Ta ta, Daddy". The father stays up all night long, frightened. Early in the morning he goes to the doctor to make sure everything is fine. When he comes home, his wife is waiting frantically in the driveway and yells "Honey, come quick! The milkman just dropped dead on the porch!"
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"Cowards die many times before their deaths: the valiant never taste death but once. Of all the wonders that I have yet heard, It seems to me most strange that men should fear, seeing that Death,a necessary end, will come when it will come."
-Caesar Act II line 31-37
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" So our stories have made you sad, you tell me. Yes, this I can understand...but tears are not the right response. For every painful story there is one of beauty, one to learn from...You must never forget the art of enjoyment, otherwise the pain of survival will crush you."
-Gasper, a guerilla with the Guatemalan National Revolutionary union.
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hey I have a question. What is the diference between a christain or a cathloc? I always thought that they were the same in general. but sence being on this site I have noticed people say they are in fact diferent.
and one more thing can somebody tell me what a pagan is? not to be rude or anything. i know that that is a religion but do magic or something.
so answering my question would really be helpful.
signed
confused Christain (link)
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well, from the view of a pagan, cathlocism and christianity are the same, but catholocism is just like a nother sect in christianity, like baptist, lutherns, etc. all the other sects were created when they broke away from the catholic church, and started the protestant reformation, which martin luther, and choice others started, because they felt that the catholic church was either too overbearing, or was corrupted. sorry for the little history lesson, i felt it was important to get my point across*lol*. but catholicism, as i see it, is just another sect of christianity; they have the same core beliefs (i think), but handle mass differntly, and i believe they read a different version of the Bible, not the King James Version. I hope i helped, and if i confused you even more i'm sorry.
Much Love,
Victoria
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Hey,
is there anyone that is pagan on here that i could talk to?because i am pagan and i dont really know any other pagan people.(by the way for anyone who doesnt know what paganism is its a religion or you can ask me about it,gc__gerl224) (link)
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Do you practice the craft, as i do? and if not thats cool, i'll still talk to you and be ur friend! *lol* i know a few pagans, but it depends on what religion you practice, if you tell me more, i could really help you, and no i'm not trying to be nosy. but if you do practice wicca, go to www.childrenofartemis.com well, happy pagan hunting!
Victoria
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dear, any one
one of my friend is a gay/lisbaian
person i dont think its tht bad but it goes alout against my religion is it wrong of me not to care even tho my religon says that they will not go to heaven at least thts wat my mom says but im 16 and 16 a very confussing age
*The confussed 16 year old* (link)
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you're friends with that person for a reason right? you can tell your friend why you think its wrong ( and i'm sure they have heard it b4), but don't force it upon them, its their decision, love them for who they are, and the wonderful qualities they have. i'm not asking what your religion is, but just about every religion says that we have to love another as we love ourselves, not in those exact words, maybe, but the principle itself. you have to respect your friends decision, you don't have to agree with it, but respect it, because you love them.
Victoria
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Hey see I knew this boyfor about 8 years now and he went away when we was10 years old then he finally shows up yesturday and expects us to re be friends...... and I hardly even reconize him.!
so what should I do?? PLZ HELP (link)
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Well, I think you should explain to him that things have changed, and that both you guys need to "re-learn" about each other, i mean 8 years is a long time, and if he really wants to be your firned, or claims he is your friend, he'll take the time to do it. go tot he mall, or invite him to dinner, take the time to get to know each other all over agian, but both you guys have changed too much, that might pose a problem, but for now, take things one step at a time.
Victoria
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How do you know when a guy likes you for you and not just your body? Ya know, cause some guys now-a-days feel intimidated by a girls mind and become lil punk asses!!! *wink*wink*p-boy!*
LOVE the THOMAS SISTERS! Ü (link)
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wear baggy clothes, and don't show off your body ( if you usually do) when your around him, and see how he reacts. also, when you talk to him, make sure hes intersted in the conversation, not just smiling and nodding, make sure he can keep up with you. and if he tries to shut you up when your talking to his friends cuz he thinks ur supposeed 2 be some trophy, leave him.
Much Love,
Victoria
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am i considered over weight if i'm 5'2" and 120 lb.? i'm not fat fat, but i have a gut. my thighs are big too, but my arms and legs aren't. (link)
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Well, i'm 5'3" and 150lbs, so you should be okay. maybe you just need more muscle tone, and no ur not overwieght, if anything, you should be the right size. and you think your thighs are big? honey, i'm thick all the way through! but your just the right size and don't think twice about it, and don't try to comform to societies standards, they change all the time and are made up for all the wrong reasons.
Much love,
Victoria
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does anybody know any jobs that will allow 14 year olds to work for them
like there's a harris teeter (grocery store)
and a walgreens (pharmacy)
opening right up the street from me
also a blockbuster and bank of america
does any1 kno if any of those allow 14-15 year olds to work there
also if u know any other places that aren't in food service, i don't wanna work anywhere like McDonalds or anything (link)
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hvae you asked around your neighborhood? thtas how I found work, or work found me. don't worry, lawnmowing isn't neccesarry. And if your neighborhood sucks, go to www.teens4hire.com and see what they have. its also a good idea to search on the web in general. b ut if you do decide to work in your neighborhood, its best to work for older people who are nice, they are more sincere. i hope i helped!
Victoria
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ok here's the thing i hav this rlly gourgeous sister and everyone tells me omg ur sister's so hot ....... u dont looko like her. i am constantly comparing myself to her like weight and clothes and sports.she is super skinny im not saying im fat or anything cuz im not
but still she can get any guy she wants i can it always seems that she's better than me. (link)
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Its kinda like Daria and Quinn, you know the show "Daria"....? Anyhoo, don't keep comparing yourself to her. Admire her for her beauty, but don't be jealous and don't try to imitate her, you are your own person. I'm sure ther are some good qualities about yourself, just let them shine brightly. To get even better advice, watch "Daria", it comes on Noggin, she would know what to do. *lol*
Victoria
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Is anyone here psychic? I think psychic people are fascinating. I would love to be Psychic! If anyone here isn't Psychic but has read a helpful book about being psychic please tell me. Thanks ;) I know I'm weird but so what?:) (link)
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you just can't be a psychic out of no where, it really takes time to open up that inner part of your brain....what you should try is dream interpretation, thats what i do, and it works, but not for everybody, just get a dream dictionary and go to town. another suggestion is scrying, its hard to explain via email, but go to a search engine and type in the word "scrying". i hope i helped!
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Me, and my friend have been fighting alot. Lets just say her name is ellie, well ellie and me have been best friends since the 3rd grade, so now thats about 4 years of being best friends. but now shes starting to get a little bossy, saying stuff like im getting to comfertable with her family like i dont say thank you enough. that kind of stuff tho i am fine with. but this morning she started to say that i was getting to comfertable again, and saying was acting really bitchy and all i did was i was hangin out with her brother, and her neighbor, but i was leaving her out. But besides this morning shes been fighti with me over a lotta little thing, and im starting to get really stressed out. i dont kno wut to do anymore. PLZ PLZ PLZ HELP ME. should i break the friendship, or try to work with it. im starting to feel like i cant breathe. (link)
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well, if you guys have been friends since 3rd grade, you guys have changed alot....i'm sorry to say it, but i think you guys have grown out of each other, you could try to make the friendship work, try talking to her about why she feels this way toward you, and if that doesn't work out, end the friendship on positive terms. don't feel bad, this is about the time when most friendships break up, but remeber the good times you've had together, and even if you guys are no longer "best" friends, continue to be there for each other.
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