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im really curious about sex i want to do it and know what it feels like i dont know what to doi think about it a lot any ideas??

Ok well i have said this to a few people and i'll say it again !

i havent had sex but heres something for you

-Wait for sex.
Although it's one more thing to wait for...
It's one less thing to worry about.
It's one less kid you have.
It's one less teen mom.
It's one less teen dad.
It's one less complication in your relationship.
It's one less hospital bill you will have to pay.
It's one less uncomfortable conversation you will have with your parents.
It's one less mistake.
It's one less statistic.
Wait for sex.
It's one more reason why you can be proud of yourself.
It's one more good label you can have [virgin].
It's one more person able to have a white wedding dress.
It's one more planned pregnancy.
It's one more love story.
It's one more good choice.
Wait for sex. There are pros and cons, weigh them.
You have the choice, but you can also have the consequences.


MuchLOVE
xoxxo

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2 days ago my boyfriend fingered me. I woke up today and had some light red bloody discarge. Also a burning sensation when I pee. It's not my period because I had it about a week ago. Could it be from a rip maybe that's causing me to bleed? Should I be worried? Or pregnant?

Err ! yeh maybe a rib or he kinda scratched it or something by his nails i dont really know,
But i do know is you CAN'T get pregnant if you get fingered its impossible !


MuchLOVE
xoxox

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15/f
billybob is 17

soo billybob..
i liked him awhile ago, then i kinda forgot about him..
then this year, which is my sophmore year and his junior, we started talking
and its already the second week and we got really close..
but latetly ive been really upset and he asked me twice today if i wanted a hug and i said idk..and he didnt give me one anyways..
he usually meets me at my locker twice a day..but today he didnt show..
me friends all think he likes me and im not sure of how to act around him..
i think i like him and i dont want to date him if its going to end up like my last relationship did, but he makes me smile and i appartently make him smile alot..but im soo scared! so if you could help me out before 7 tonight that would be great!

Hello !
Well if you like him and he likes you GO FOR IT !
We're only teenagers this is life we have to go through pain and you reject him you will regret it just go out with him have fun while it lasts (Hopefull it lasts for long =])have fun as a teenager like they say live as if theres no tomorrow :D


MuchLOVE !
xoxox

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I have this like obsessive thing about someone like jumping our fence and like knocking on the back door. It freaks the hell out of me, and I turn on the alarm for the house. I babysit at night for my little brother, and my dad doesn't like to have lots of lights on, so I have our two lamps on, and the dining room light dimmed. I don't know why I get so freaked out, maybe it's the whole Kelsey Smith thing, even though that happened awhile ago, and it was at Target. I remember watching the news the same day that the whole Kelsey Smith thing started, and they also said that there had been some break ins about 30 minutes away from the area that I live in.. why am I so freaked out? I go to the kitchen to make my brother's milk, and I have like this feeling that there's like someone on the deck, watching me. I know that might sound weird to you, but I don't know why I'm acting like this.. I guess it all started when my brother grew up (He's like 19 months old) and my mom wanted me to watch him from 4-10 (my dad and my mom work nights).

We have a small rectangular window above the kitchen sink, so when I'm doing the dishes, I do this thing where I glance up and look out the window, and think that someone's there..

What's going on with me?

OMG ! i know what your going through
There was a shooting near where i live and it was on the news and it got to me so bad that i would sleep in my sisters room for nearly 5 months and im 15/f stupid huh ? You will get it over it dont worry so did i i talked to a few friends about it and they helped me out and my mum said to me DONT WORRY they wont come near us unless your involved the person they shot must have done something bad to them nothing bad happens to a person unless there involved in something or done something bad trust me and unless your gonna walk at night by your self which you wont LOL,DOnt worry like that girl said just turn up the music lock all your doors and maybe close the curtains trust me or watch a comedy movie =] or just be around your brother alot =]


MuchLOVE !
xoxox

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i need an angry revengeful song .. perferably with the word FUCK repeeated in it .. haha any suggestioons??
thanks in advance!!!

Hello !
Well all i can think of is


Eamon-Fuck It (I Don't Want You Back)
And
Frankee-Fuck you right back


xoxo
MuchLOVE !

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is there anything thats like photoshop but its free and I can downlad it?

Hello !
Well there is a website where you can download photoshop for free it has all types of photoshops and other things but their only 30 day trials though

http://www.soft32.com/download_346.html

http://www.photoshopsupport.com/resources/photoshop-cs.html

http://apps.corel.com/int/au/trials.html

muchLOVE!
xoxoxox

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is it possible to put a cup to the wall and press your ear against it and hear what people are saying next door? like in a hotel and stuff?

like what kind of cup

Hello !
Haha yeh it is :D cause i've tried it well for me it worked with the clear crystal glasses they work pretty good =]


MuchLOVE!
xoxooxox

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Ok well..

My bra size is an A, but now i have like a big red line on my boob when i take it off now because there's like a cresent part of my boob that it doesn't fill.

I should try a B but...it may fit for the width of my breasts but my breasts won't, FILL the bra, like go out enough.

What's your bra advice for me?

Hello !
Well a push up bra is really good it will fill it and its also comfortable.


MuchLOVE!
xoxox

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Are there any other ways of getting music for your iPOD besides buying it from iTUNES and stuff? Is there a website I can get music from? Anything? PleaSE?

Hello !

Limewire or ares
www.aresgalaxy.com
Their pretty good though you have to download the songs and transfer them to iTunes =]


xoxox
MuchLOVE!

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K i was wondering because i am only thirteen and i dont want to get my girlfriend pregnant. When she puts a condom on me niether of us know whether to put the latex over my balls or not. the condom definitely fits since i dont have a very big peter. so all i want to know is if i have to put the condom over my balls or not. thx in advance

WHAT THE HELL !
Your 13 for crying out loud what the hell are you doing ?
And condoms are for your penis last time i heard it wasn't for balls
Maybe you should think about it before doing anything you don't even know how to put a condom on !

muchLOVE!
xoxox

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well, i have this teacher, in high school.
I think she might have a grudge on me!
It all began like this... i was in class and she said we all needed to listen, althought i was still writing, she came up to me and started shouting that i don't listen, she then told me to put my pen down, i did ad said 'ok'. She got in a really bad mood and sent me out for the whole lesson.
My next lesson i came in and said 'sorry am late miss, my school bus was late. She said 'oh so now you own a bus'! and told me to sit down
The next lesson, i was sitting with my mate dana, and she shouted saying 'don't talk oh you will be moved' so i stopped.
The next lesson, she said come and sit next to me
and i had to do that for the rest of the year!
There's loadz more...
sometimes when she hands out exsam papers she missed me, first and second times and mistakes but i think she did that 6 times to me.
Once my friend asked for a pen, and that reminded me i needed one so i put hand up about 35 secs after my friend put hers up, and she shouted saying that i should ask earlier!
Then i was wearing a blue jacket and told me to take it off, i did then this girl went passed her with massive hoop earings and bright green jacket-even this girl i did'nt know said she has a grudge on you! There LOADZ more!
I MAY JUST BE THAT AM IN THE WRONG, BUT I REALLY THINK THIS TEACHER GOT SOMETHING AGAIST ME, MY FRIENDS THINK IT AND MY BEST TEACHER SAID SHES BEEN TALKING ABOUT ME SAYING I BEHAVE BAD(MY BEST TEACHER WAS SURPRISED COS AM AN OKAY STUDNET)
I HAVE TOLD MY DAD AND HE SAYS HE'LL TALK TO HER BUT AM NOT SURE IF ITS ME OH HER!



SORRY ITS SO LONG :(

GOSHH ! what a B****
Its not you at all its her i mean why does she only notice you out of all people? and why didnt she tell the other girl to take her jacket off and her earings and im sure she saw you put your hand up ages ago but just ignored you i think your dad she talk to her if it dosn't work go tell a principal and get your friend to be your witness LOL im sure they will do something about it my sisters teacher is >==( LOL and cause my sister laughed cause her friend made a small joke and her teacher told her to write a 500 word essay on why she was so ammusing (why the teacher was so ammusing and my sister wasnt even laughing at her) and my sister told the deputy principal and now shes expelled.


xoxo
muchLOVE!

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If I had a scar 5 months ago, didn't use any special medication but now i use a scar cream, will it still even heal at all?

Hello !
Well,it depends on how good the cream is,if it's good it might heal quickly and if not it might take a while but im sure it will go or it might not be so noticable if it dosn't go.

I had a scar too and i used this cream Scar Treatment - Heal Scar Tissue

It's really good took 3 weeks for me mine wasnt big it was medium sized heres the site for it actually.http://www.amoils.com/scars.html?gclid=CNDW38G6iI4CFQligwodZkiAEQ

xoxox
MuchLOVE!

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This happened about and hour after the story I just wrote about so I want to keep it separate.

SECOND PART OF STORY: My mom asked me how much I paid for the purse that I had to buy today because the one I came up with the zipper broke. Jokingly I told her 3 dollars. She said no you didnt. I told her that I paid 12 dollars. She said that she could tell that I paid more than 3 dollars. This got me upset and the reason it got me upset is because the purses I buy in New York City are inexpensive ($2.00) but dont look it. I said to her are you implying that my other purses look cheap. She said no but they are not the same quality, and she knows they are not the same quality because she brought one as well. She said the labor is not the same and the material is not the same. She said look at the purse you brought today is tapestry and the ones that you buy in New York City are not tapestry, and look at the handle on the purse you brought today - it is made better. I said to her you never saw the ones I brought at Value Depot. She said no but they are not the same as the LeSportacs purses that she has. I said are you implying they are not nice or cheap and she said no she isnt.


MY QUESTION: Am I overreacting and if my mom said the above to you how would you interpret it. I mean is she saying that my purses that I buy are not pretty or nice or good quality

Hello !

Nahh i don't think you are i kinda think your mum is no affence i mean she shouldn't have told you a whole story on how much she didnt like and all.

Yeh i would've been kinda upset aswell but i would have said Ok mum i get it i know your point but i like it wheather you like it or not and it may not be expensive but i like it thats what i would've said instead of making a whole story about it.

I'm sure your mums gonna get over it and so will you don't worry =]


xoxox
MuchLOVE!

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this question was deleted since i posted in like 7 months ago.. so ill re word it:

so think of your dream house and tell me something about it, something special or crazy. and dont tell me "it has a living room"..tell me something different about it, that makes it unique, like how the hall, is a hall of mirrors or how the fifth floor is a paintball range or something. or even somthing about the outside, how all the windows are shaped like bongs or your secret garden right before the bar on the beach.
:)
things like that.. be creative!

Haha LOL !
Well i dont really have on but i'll tell you my cousins one haha
Well
The hall has to be big and has to have 2 big tv's and a huge stero and the windows big !

The kitchen has to be big too with everything in it including dishwasher,sink,fridge,stove,oven,toaster,microwave,popcorn maker,hotdog maker,icecream maker,vegetable steamer LOL shes crazy i know and the sink has to be double

Bathroom for downstairs has to be Medium sized with one toilet and a medium sized sink and a towel rack and a small window above the toilet and a big mirror

Upstairs she wants 6 bedrooms 1 for her son(shes still young she just thinks shes getting a son) 1 for her daughter 1 for her pets and 1 for her and her husband and one for all her kids toys and a game room and the 2 bathrooms upstairs with BIG spas and 2 mirrors and a place to put all her make-up.

The garden has to bug LARGEE ! with a HUGE swimming pool a deep end and shallow and it has to look like a beach not exact but a little bit and she also wants a gym room with everthing there is at a gym she wants it there and her garage has to be doubled.


LOL ! shes very picky for a 17 year old xD
MuchLOVE
xoxox

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There is a guy that i have known ever since kindergarten and ever since that we have been in the same class for 6 years and I kinda have a feeling for him. Should i ask him out or should i wait
??

Hello !
Well,maybe you should tell him first because it would become a huge suprise for him if you just ask him out and he might say no cause he didnt know and he hasnt had time to think about it maybe you should tell him you like him and wait a week and then go for it and just spend alot of time with him.


MuchLOVE
xoxo
Hope he says yes :D
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whats considered child abuse? physical and mental. like is it just your parent hitting you? or is there much more to it?..
thanks..

Hello !
Well i found a few sites

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Child_abuse

http://www.childabuse.org/about%20child%20abuse.html

http://www.stopchildabuse.com.au/

http://www.preventchildabuse.org/index.shtml

http://endabuse.org/programs/display.php3?DocID=9916&gclid=CL_z5MXOho4CFQ4bYAodRWgY2A

MuchLOVE
xoxox

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whos sings the song "put a lil umph in it"? i think thats what its called and i think ashanti ft. in it but im not sure!

Hello !
Its by
Jagged edge ft Ashanti

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Hey Im A Girl..
And Im Confused...
What Do Guys Want In A Girl...?

Hello !
Im not a guy but yeh xD
I think it depends what type of guy it is cause theres some that go for looks,personality and so on.

I think guys go gor whats ina girl then her looks to be honest.


MuchLOVE!
xoxoxox

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what do people mean when they say ayooo? is it mean like "hey you" or what?

Hello =]

Haha ! LOL love that saying
My friend always says it and she means hey you by it.



MuchLOVE!
xoxox

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okay, about a month ago a guy i liked asked me "whats up" and i was like "nothing" and then i said "whats up" and he said "nothing" LOL. its funny looking back now but back then it was sooo awkward.

do you say "nothing" or do you launch into a full account of what you've done all week? im confuseedd. btw this applies to people you're not total strangers with BUT don't really know well enough to give a full account of everything that's happened in the day.

honestly, i think there should be an unspoken social rule that acquaintances dont say "whats up" to each other. =[

thanks in advance lovess

Hello !
I usally say Not much you ?
Or sometimes if anything good happened during the day i'll tell the person abit about it.


MuchLOVE!
xoxox

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