well, i have this teacher, in high school.
I think she might have a grudge on me!
It all began like this... i was in class and she said we all needed to listen, althought i was still writing, she came up to me and started shouting that i don't listen, she then told me to put my pen down, i did ad said 'ok'. She got in a really bad mood and sent me out for the whole lesson.
My next lesson i came in and said 'sorry am late miss, my school bus was late. She said 'oh so now you own a bus'! and told me to sit down
The next lesson, i was sitting with my mate dana, and she shouted saying 'don't talk oh you will be moved' so i stopped.
The next lesson, she said come and sit next to me
and i had to do that for the rest of the year!
There's loadz more...
sometimes when she hands out exsam papers she missed me, first and second times and mistakes but i think she did that 6 times to me.
Once my friend asked for a pen, and that reminded me i needed one so i put hand up about 35 secs after my friend put hers up, and she shouted saying that i should ask earlier!
Then i was wearing a blue jacket and told me to take it off, i did then this girl went passed her with massive hoop earings and bright green jacket-even this girl i did'nt know said she has a grudge on you! There LOADZ more!
I MAY JUST BE THAT AM IN THE WRONG, BUT I REALLY THINK THIS TEACHER GOT SOMETHING AGAIST ME, MY FRIENDS THINK IT AND MY BEST TEACHER SAID SHES BEEN TALKING ABOUT ME SAYING I BEHAVE BAD(MY BEST TEACHER WAS SURPRISED COS AM AN OKAY STUDNET)
I HAVE TOLD MY DAD AND HE SAYS HE'LL TALK TO HER BUT AM NOT SURE IF ITS ME OH HER!
SORRY ITS SO LONG :(
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Work/School Relationships? Jeanne answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 4:09 am: Wow, that stinks! It sounds like this teacher really has it in for you. And now that she has this bad attitude toward you, anything you do is going to look bad in her eyes. Maybe it was something you did, or some way you acted?? Or maybe she has just pre-judged you without giving you a chance, because something about you (looks, clothes, mannerisms) remind her of another student who gave her trouble in the past? So she's assumed you're the same way?
Whatever the reason for her attitude, you're going to have to deal with her for the rest of the year. So it would be best to get things straightened out right away.
I think having you dad talk to her would NOT be a good idea. Even if he is really nice about it, she will take that as a personal attack and it might actually make things worse. I think it would be much better if YOU talked to her about it!
Try writing her a note. Say something like, "Dear Miss _____, I think we've gotten off on the wrong foot, and it's really been bothering me. I really want to do well in your class this year, and I'm afraid I may have done something to make you think I don't care about your class. I just want you to know that I am going to try my best to be a good student."
Another thing you could try is asking her for help with the work, perhaps after school. That may help soften her up a bit. When a teacher gives a student one on one help, they get to know the student on a more personal level, and they tend to feel more friendly and sympathetic toward them.
If none of that works, then have your dad talk to her. And if THAT doesn't work, have him talk to the principal. Maybe you can be transferred to a different teacher?
coOokiie answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 2:18 am: GOSHH ! what a B****
Its not you at all its her i mean why does she only notice you out of all people? and why didnt she tell the other girl to take her jacket off and her earings and im sure she saw you put your hand up ages ago but just ignored you i think your dad she talk to her if it dosn't work go tell a principal and get your friend to be your witness LOL im sure they will do something about it my sisters teacher is >==( LOL and cause my sister laughed cause her friend made a small joke and her teacher told her to write a 500 word essay on why she was so ammusing (why the teacher was so ammusing and my sister wasnt even laughing at her) and my sister told the deputy principal and now shes expelled.
Cmilner1607 answered Wednesday August 22 2007, 2:17 am: Maybe this teacher didn't mean to single you out so much you're right. Or, since you made her mad once she automatically takes her anger out on you every time. The right thing was to tell your father. Have him talk to her for you. Since she clearly isn't interested in you. Just try and be calm about this. If you know you're a decent student then you have nothing to worry about honey.
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