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curious
im really curious about sex i want to do it and know what it feels like i dont know what to doi think about it a lot any ideas??
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First of all, condoms are great for protecting against STDs but they CAN break so before you have sex, even if you're planning on using a condom, I would advise going into a clinic and getting started on birth control pill. If you are under 18, you can get them for free and your parents don't need to know about it. You have to be on them for about 2 weeks before its safe to have sex.
Second of all, you are ready to have sex physically at an early age, but you are only ready to have sex emotionally when you have decided that you want it to become a part of your life, and that you are sure you don't want to be abstinent till marriage.
Sex is different for different girls. For some girls, the first time produces a lot of blood, and for some, none. For some girls, the first time hurts a lot, and for some, it barely hurts at all. The first time doesn't feel as good for girls as it does for boys, so its not something that you want to rush into if you're not sure you're ready.
If you have a steady boyfriend, sex can be a good way to make your relationship closer. However, if you are single, going out and finding a random boy to take your virginity is a huge mistake.
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Ok well i have said this to a few people and i'll say it again !
i havent had sex but heres something for you
-Wait for sex.
Although it's one more thing to wait for...
It's one less thing to worry about.
It's one less kid you have.
It's one less teen mom.
It's one less teen dad.
It's one less complication in your relationship.
It's one less hospital bill you will have to pay.
It's one less uncomfortable conversation you will have with your parents.
It's one less mistake.
It's one less statistic.
Wait for sex.
It's one more reason why you can be proud of yourself.
It's one more good label you can have [virgin].
It's one more person able to have a white wedding dress.
It's one more planned pregnancy.
It's one more love story.
It's one more good choice.
Wait for sex. There are pros and cons, weigh them.
You have the choice, but you can also have the consequences.
MuchLOVE
xoxxo
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try not to think about it so much. just know that when the time is right it will happen. but dont just leap into something just because your curious. wait until you are ready mentally and physicaly until you decide to have sex. also dont just go with the first guy that asks. wait until you really care about the guy and think your going to be with him for awhile.
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