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whats an easy way to lose about 1 1/2 to 2 pounds a week , without doing any thing drastic?

mypyramid.gov

Give this site a visit. It has a lot of stuff to help you. It's nothing drastic just some simple ways and tips to help you loose weight.

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this sounds really really silly..but i hate my boobs. they are huge, and it makes me feel out of shape. they`ve always bothered me, but just recently they`ve seemed a lot bigger than normal. does anybody know if theres an way to "decrease" the size of them? like does exercise work? or what you eat or w/e?

Since I'm a guy I have no idea. But I asked my girlfriend and she said there isn't a way to decrease them.

But why would you want to? That's hot.

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Ok so i like this girl, but she has a bf and i got her a present a while ago but i couldnt bring it to school since i barely see her...so i wanna hang out with her to give it to her but she told me she shouldnt really hang out with me because she has a bf and she doesnt want him to get mad at her..first of all we wouldnt even hook up cuz she has a bf, he wouldnt find out because he lives 45 minutes away and what difference does it make....so my question is what should i do?

You need to leave her alone.

Imagine yourself in her boyfriend's position. Would you want another guy hanging out with your girlfriend? Would you want another guy giving your girlfriend a present?

I have a girlfriend and I wouldn't like it if she hung out with another guy and accepted a present from him.

It's okay to be friends but that's it. She's already taken so unfortunately you just have to find someone else.

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ok welllll....do guys findd it weird when girls play video games? or is it cool? and do guys like it when girls are girly but still "boyey"?

P.S. boyey is not a real word..i just made it up...fyi

I like it when girls can play video games and do stuff that guys do but still be girly.

That would make it much easier to find things in common, talk about, and hang out.

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There is this guy that i like but i dont know if he likes me. We talk like evryday for at least like two hours. We are either talking on the phone, texting, or talkin on MSN. But he is always asking me if i like him. But these past like two days i have been trying to talk to him but he wont pick up his phone or text me back or e-mail me back. What is going on? Does he like me or is he just mad at me for the moment? What should i do?

I agree with my sis, 4everMyself2 and Thief.

He may be busy. So don't over react.
When he has time and he wants to talk to you, he will call you.

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ok ive been going out with this guy for a month and b4 he was like one of my best friends. ive gone out with guys befor but i never let them kiss me sumthing always stopped me like it was too soon or something and after a week of being togather he asked if he could kiss me and i let him he n e ways we started making out and i let him grab my ass and shit and we have gottin to 2nd base i love him and i dont know if i went to fast or something i dont want to ask my firends cuz its just between us we dont want people in our bussiness i noe that was kinda long but did i go to fast or is it ok ?? please help ill rate high

Everyone has their own pace.

I don't think you went to fast because that something that was holding you back with the rest of the guys wasn't their with this guy.

As long as you are comfortable you are not going to fast.

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where is the best place to get a air brushed shirt at...i need websites...thanks

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Well, I kind of asked this question before, but I'm changing it a little. I want to know how I can publish my poems, either online, or in the real-world like a book. I want to know which is better or which is cheaper. I got really good answers the other day, but they didn't fit this question.

There are a lot of poetry sites that could help you.

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if i realli like this guy is it wrong to ask him out??

Nope not wrong at all. It makes it a whole lot easier for us.

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I have a band and my friend just invited the boy i have a major crush in the band and we aren't doing so well is it me or what

makk

Ummm... I don't understand what you are asking. There isn't much detail in this.

Are you trying to say that the guy doesn't like you?

I recommend rewriting your question and then I will try to answer it.

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Alright, so there's this guy...and i like him. And one of my best friends said he asked her (feb.8) if he should ask me out. She told me this on the 10th and its the 15th and he still hasn't asked me out and I'm pretty sure he knows I like him. And I'm guessing he likes me? I'm just wondering what you guys think about this whole situation.

Ps. He dated one of my friends and he didn't ask her out/break up with her himself but that mighta been because he didn't know her too well at all..

At the end were you trying to say that someone else did the asking out and breaking up for him. If so then he is extremely shy/childish/immature whatever you want to call it.

He probably likes you. But he might keep you waiting for a while.

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What can I get my boyfriend for Valentine's day?

You can never go wrong with a gift card. Or you can get a CD, card, and candy.

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do guys like if a girl has her belly botton peirced? why or why not

Yeah that's hot.

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ok so i like this guy right? but the problem is he's like the most popular guy in the grade. and he's so hott and he's so sweet and he's like my perfect guy. and everyone says that he would go out with me and that he just won't right now because he's like my exboyfriends really good friend. i really want him to realize that i like him but idk how to let him know without coming on too strong and stuff..
-confused.

This probably isn't what you want to hear but its the truth. He may not go out with you because he's close friends with your ex. I don't know about him but my friends and I don't date each other's ex-girlfriends. We look at each other's ex-girlfriends as left overs which is something none of us want, no matter how hot they are or how good their personalities are. Keep in mind this my personal opinion the guy you like may be different.

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I am a 17/f in my senior year in high school. I am not very popular, and hang out with the loser, or nerd crowd. The few friends that I have are not very nice to me, but I put up with them because I would rather have some mean friends then none at all. Well last week, one of my "friends" told the most popular guy in our class that I was checking out his butt. ( This wasnt true, but because my face went red they all assumed it was). I was mortified and just walked away. All my friends laughed at me, and the guy just looked uncomfortable. There was just me and my two friends, and him. He had none of his popular friends there to witness this. Well anyways, the next day I kept catching him staring at me. When I would look at him he would look away. This would also happen in our english class. Well on friday, we had a grad council meeting in the cafeteria. He was there, and when no one else was looking, I had to walk by him. This is when he gave me a huge smile, in kind of a sexy, flirtatius way. I was shocked and never said anything. Anyways, my question is: do you think he may really like me? I find it hard to believe because he's the class valedictorian and jock, and can have any girl in school. I also heard he doesnt have a gf right now. Or do you think he's just playing a trick on me?

He might like you. Or he may just be messing with your emotions because he know he has the power to. So don't act like you are all excited and stuff because then he will most likely think that he got you wrapped around his finger.

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15/f
what kinds of things should i put in the card to my bf?

-quotes
-lyrics
-something to actually SAY to him.. i really have no clue..
anything is appreciated.

Don't put any of that stuff in it. Don't over do it, keep it simple. Just put how you feel about him and leave it at that.
example:
I love you "his name is"
Happy Valentine's Day
I guess a little more detail would be better but not to much.

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I made this thing for my boyfriend, and I wrote "I love you" on it, but I have room to put his name under that.
Do you think I should personalize it or just leave it as "I love you"?

It doesn't really matter. Most of us guys don't really care about that kind of stuff. If you do put his name on it, don't decorate it because that's to much.

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this guy I like asked me to my schools valentines day dance. I accepted, but im nervous becuase of one thing- grinding. Everyone will be grinding with eachother and Ive never done it before and im not sure if i would feel comfortable with it. My question is, what do i do if wants to grind with me? x0x

Most likely he will want to grind with you.

If your not comfortable then don't do it.

If you are comfortable then do it. There is a first for everything.

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I have been with my boyfriend with my boyfriend since, but I broke up with him like 2 days ago. I still love him! He cheated on me, but
I think that was my fault. I really miss him, but friends told me to just ignore him. I don't want to! I want to go out with him....what should i do?

Does he tell you that he still likes you?
Does he treat you better than the rest of the girls?
Has he apologized more than once?
Is he treating you better than before?

If you answered no to most of these questions then he isn't trying to get back with you. So just move on. Because if you don't then he is going to think he has you wrapped around his finger. I'm a guy trust me it's best to move on.

If you answered yes to most of these questions then he is trying to get back with you. Let him know that you want to give it another try. And just see how things go from there.

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Your sister is a total babe. Just had to get that in there.

Anyways my girlfriend says that we need to spend more time together. But I don't always want to spend time with her. I like hanging out with the guys to. So I was just curious to know has your girlfriend ever said anything like this to you or is it just my girlfriend?

Keep your thoughts about her to yourself because I would rather not know.

My girlfriend claimed that I spent to much time with my video games than her. So I gave up a little time from the video games for her. After that I didn't hear anymore complaining.

So its definitely not just your girlfriend.

edit: Like i said keep your thoughts about her to yourself
i guess you do, suprise her and i'm sure she wouldn't like knowing that you keep talking about how my sis' looks.
Oh yeah i don't think its a good idea to spend to much time with your friends on Valentine's Day.

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