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I have a really hard time talking to boys (except for my guy friend). Whenever guys approach me, my mind just goes...blank. Even if I don't have a crush on him. Like when I'm going to drama there's another guy going down to the chorus room right next door. This guy's named Greg* who has a girlfriend, and it's just really awkward. We're headed in the same direction, and since it's so weird for me, he think I like him when I don't. Then he blocked me on AIM and that junk. Or some guys are just trying to hang out with me, and I just go really weird. Does anyone know what I mean, and what can I do to stop this?

*name has been changed to protect privacy ;-) (link)
well, it's becuase of the self confedence that you lack. see when guys see a women with low self esteem, they tend to gang up and try to take advantage of her. What you need to do is voice it out and tell them what you really think, then the jerks will back off knowing the dominace of the female. kinda like the discovery channel type of thing. Just ride the current and when the tides change use it and tell this greg that you're not intrested and remind him that he has a G/F. hope it helps


I dont have time for anything but school. Im taking hard classes this year (Im a sophmore in high school) and I literally dont have time for anything, sometimes including church =(. Im always like "If I dont get 50 things memorized today then Ill have to memorize 100 tomorrow.." Im just always thinking about school and I dont have any fun anymore. After this year Im not taking hard classes because my youth is being wasted (if that makes sense), but what do I do about it NOW? (link)
well, like most asians you're stuck, but if you can manage your time wisely you can make things work out. the thing is, is that even though you may be taking hard classes it will pay off later in life. You will be successful and get a really high paying job, and then you'll be able to have fun anytime you want. If you still wanna not take hard classes at least have 1 or 2 depending on you're schedule. that way it's not so much stress. You're a lil ways in too deep in this one, but don't take it too hard. I know a couple people who went insane, one person ODed on speed cuase she tried to study as fast as she can. just be careful and manage wisely


how do i improve my looks and updo the things im lacking in?

-weight
-way too light eyebrows
ect. (link)
well, you could buy face cream, drink plenty of water, the body works better when you drink water. Exersise three times a day, guys like chicks with a nice toned firm body. and that's about it, hope youre personality's as good as you're body in the future. ^^ take care now


I have yellowish Asian skin, long, almond-shaped brown eyes and coarse black hair. Can anyone give me makeup tips? Pleeease don't suggest brown eyeliner. It just doesn't look good. (link)
na na na you don't need make up, you sound cute already. Here's my intake on "makeup" make up, to me, means make up a fake person, who puts on a thin mask and pretens to be someone they're not. I mean sure on accasion there's birthdays, clubbin, jewl hists. most asian girls with your kinda skin don't need anything hun. hope it helps


ok i was using this little electronic razor thingy to comb out my eyebrows so theyll look neat. The thing was off. I was doign it for a while and then i wasnt paying attention and accidently turned it on WHILE IT WAS ON MY EYEBROW now theres a lil blank spot it the middle of my eyebrow- is there any way i can cover it up? please help a.s.a.p ♥anonymous (link)
hahahahaha o man, that's pretty funny. c'mon think about it, wouldn't you laugh too? take a while and luagh.... c'mon.. a lil giggle? ok, as for you're answer you scould always lie and say you had battle axe lessions at the Y and the guy clip your brow. Or you could tell them that you fucked up and messed youre brow. Chick kinda like guys who are a lil clumsy, ever notice in the reality shows that the clumsy guys are the favorite? it's cuase people like to see him. Don't call into the catagory of the " dumbass" or the "clumsy guy" just say, " yea i fucked up.. oops" then laugh. Confedence makes the man my friend.


Ever since my parents have said no games and no music the internet is boring. Starting my own website is boring. The only thing I can do online that I know of is update my blog so what can people do online besides gaming, chatting, and listening to music? (link)
well, depending on how you look at it, this could be a good oportunity. If you have photo shop then the days will become minutes. Beleive me photoshop could pass the time, it can be a lil boreing but i guess in a situation like this you kinda have to use what you have. If not enough funds on the photo shop then you could always take up drawing, sketching, make youre own comic or something. There's also MMORPG's like Ragnarok online, that shits addicting, but you havta pay to play after the 15 day trial. Hope this helps


ok, so yesterady, I got some boxers from Hollister, & they're a little to big (in the waist, & then length) & so, I was wondering how I could wash them & they would shrink some?

thanks (link)
yea, wash em, and then leave them in the dyer for a good hour or two. usualy works.


Im not really fat, like huge. But Im 13, 5'oft and I weight about 127. Im very un happy my weight, and honestly would love to loose to 10 pounds. I asked a question once on here and some guy told me it was a bad idea to split up my workouts in too, like exercizing in the morning, and then in evening a little.. And anybody else have any tips to help me loose weight? im deterimed, but clueless.
thank you I RATE! (link)
well that's easy, just work out three times a day, drink a lot of water so it will help out youre skin complection, 5 servings of fruit and other healthy meals. jogging or walks don't hurt either, it's the lil activities that amkes the diffrence, hell i've been doin it and i am skinny ^^ hope it helps


This guy that I really like in my senior class has been dating this girl who behind his back makes fun of him. He is so in love with her, he'll buy her a dozen roses for no occasion and bring them to school for her. I also heard he spent hundreds of dollars on a bracelet for her birthday. I know what she's been saying behind his back because she's in my french class. The other girls wanted to see her new bracelet and she just rolled her eyes and said "this is the THIRD one he's bought me"!. She is such a superficial bitch. She's also said she's only with him because his family has money. She's also a bigot, I've heard her making derogatory comments about homosexuals and african americans. I also heard she's cheating on him. I don't know what he sees in her. She is very popular and pretty, but has the personality and kindness of a dead squid. He would be heartbroken if he knew what she said about him and did behind his back. He is such a nice guy, I feel sorry for him. Should I tell him or just keep my mouth shut? Or, before I forget, HIS friends make fun of him behind his back for how hard he's fallen for her. (link)
wow, i would talk to him as quickly as possible. Tell him everything and if he doesn't believe you bring proof, if you don't it will crush him later when he finds out the hard way. happened to me before, good thing i figured it out on my own. you're a good person to show concern, most women whouldn't care


How do you know when you're about to orgasm? I feel like I'm getting there, yet I never seem to be able to reach it. Maybe what I'm feeling isn't the precurser..

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well, when you masterbate and you keep on goin till you can't take it, then it's natural that you realse, its a natural thing that can't be explain but keep jerkin it till you'll know when you get there


14-f. Okay, well I have this problem.. I was dating this guy named Mark that lives about 15 minutes away from me.. who's 15. We were dating for a month & he broke up with me because we don't see each other that often. I've liked him for a few months & I still like him now. We still talk and he said that maybe we can start dating again once he gets his license (he's taking drivers ed)Well, the things is, I'm really worried that a year from now I won't have the same feelings for him. My other problem is, I've been best friends with this other guy named Ethan from the same town as Mark & well I've dated Ethan 2 times. I consider him my first true love. The only problem is.. he treats me differently while we're dating then when we're just friends.. like he finds these stupid reasons to fight with me all the time.. and well I think Ethan likes me again, and this whole time.. I've liked him & Mark. I've liked Mark for a few months.. and well I've liked Ethan for about 10 months. I really don't know what to do. I want to be with Ethan yet I don't want to get hurt, yet I want to be with Mark.. because I deffinetly want to be with him when he gets his license. It's really hard. Some of my friends don't like Ethan, yet some of my other friends don't like Mark either because well.. he takes dance class & likes to sing. That honestly doesn't bug me because he's the sweetest guy in the world, while Ethan just hurts me. I really don't know what to do. I'm stuck in the middle & I just need some help. Please help me & I'll rate you! I promise!! (link)
well, it's not that hard, ethans a jerk and most girls are attracted to that. It's a fact also, i've experimented with it while at school, the more jerky guys are the more women cling on. Sure you can deny it but you wont be sure am i right? if this guy hurts you and you don't like wit then why are you with him/ let me guess you're thinking " i don't know...' right? listen to the voice in youre heart and it will tell you what to do, you know the answer but afriad to tell it. just think and think hard. do it for yourself


what have you gotten for valentines day in the past... that you liked? (link)
I wouldn't know... no one's ever given me anything


hey ok im 17/f this is kinda complicated well lets just say im stuck... well ok about 3 weeks ago i saw my x from when i was 16 and we went out about a year back then we never had a serious relationship we only kissed but i grew to love this guy so much.. and we broke up when we moved into sixth form i missed him so much and out of the blue 3 weeks ago he texted me saying do i wana come round so i went to his house and we started kissing, hugging each other and this time i really felt a connection we was kissing with emotion and he told me he loves me and that hes missed me for a year. now he does not seem to communicate with me much.and if he does he does not say he loves me anymore!! i told him i am afraid when he goes to uni of losing him and he just said.. its inevitable we will break up.. i don't know what to do now some of my friends say to leave him alone and he will come to me when he is ready but then again will he? ohh and when i was at his house he said he will do anything for me and he ended up stripping but i didn't so i saw his penis alittle bit..but we never had sex and we never did anything. so what i am asking is what shall i do now???? he says he loves me but he can't love or be loving at this time in his life!!! help.. someone plz (link)
i can understand what you're going through. It seems he has a mission to fallow though. Same with me, i can't love, not emotionaly i never learned how to. i know it may sound impossible to hear but it's true, my guess is that he really does love you but something is calling him first. He will come back for you when it's all over, i'm pretty sure he will only time can tell. as for sex, i'd suggest you should wait till you're married, i know it's youre life n' all but still, just be safe on it ya?


hey last sunday (of this week), a guy i really like asked me out and i said yes. i dont know how to tell my parents. my mom has said im not allowed to date or go on dates until im 16 or 17. how do i tell them with out getting in trouble? (link)
what momma wont know wont hurt her. besides why go on dates anyway? that requires money. Why not just meet at school and hang out there? play it on low key till then, then when you get older just tell her that "you found someone"


my computer has like ZERO fonts. only the regular ones. my friend has a whole lot of her computer, is there any websites that are FREE and you can just click a button and the fonts will be downloaded to your computer and you don't have to click each and every font you want? i will rate 5's for good answers (link)
could go on google and type in font tests, think they could help you out there


Can you record songs and stuff with the Audiovox 8910 and set them as your ringtone? (link)
i think you can but it's a lil complicated, i know you can depending on the phone you have. seen a friend of mine do it


Last night, I went out clubbing with my best friend and some other people, including a guy friend of mine, I'll call him "Brian". Brian has always told me that he's bisexual and I'm cool with that and we get along great. He's always treated me like one of the guys, but last night, he got pretty drunk and he started touching me inappropriately. It wasn't anything particularly sexual, just holding my hand and putting his hands on my waist, but I was really confused. I'm not attracted to him or anything, but it's got me really confused. It was just the alcohol talking wasn't it? My best friend also said he held her hand as well. (link)
it's said that when a man is scared or drunk the real self comes out of the shadows. keep that in mind hun


I'm a straight A student and I'm going to be graduating this year from middle school. I can't wait! The most difficult thing for me right now is choosing the high school I would like to attend next year. There are so many things I would love to try out for next year. For some clubs, I know I will definitely join. I love all these sports, track, hockey, lacrosse, basketball, and so forth... Some sports only have a boys' team which kind of stinks. I've noticed that a lot of people are in more than one club and more than one sport... and are still a straight A student. I'm just wondering... How can someone manage their time with all of this going on? -- Thank you. (link)
they're usuing opportunity costs, simple economics. they're also using they're time wisely im proud of you being a stright A studen't damn i never did, i just got Bs and A's but hey good luck in you're future. Manage youre time wisly and carefully


hi people

well you know parents they should help u grow up and stuff but i am 13 yƩars old and i dont need stupid parents like mine! they wont leave me alone they say: brush your teeth ever morning dont forget to wash your hair and then when we eat my dad always goes like: your holding your spoon uncorrect blablabla and i am not aloude to say anything than! well i dont know if every parents are like these and by the way once my mom said: dont listen to your music to loud and why dont you listen to jazz and not hip hop I LOVE HIP HOP! well what should i do now? please help! (link)
parents parents parents, what a bunch of hardasses eh? well the reason why they act lik this is mainly cuase their parents did the same. the way you're feeling is how they used to feel too. It's another way of revenge cuase they're old enough. I know it sounds cruel cuase my moms an alcholic, and im probably goona get back too. So they say no Hip-hop eh? well to be honest all that rap and hip-hop sounds like the same thing; big cars, being black, ganstas, hoes, bitches, bling blong and all that jazz. why not have a CD player and listen to it while walking to cool, ot\r when they go to sleep play it on you're cd player low while i unno playing games. i did the same when i was in middle school. just find some weak points in the parental system and expose it for youre advantage. Hope it helps


ok so i like this guy right? but the problem is he's like the most popular guy in the grade. and he's so hott and he's so sweet and he's like my perfect guy. and everyone says that he would go out with me and that he just won't right now because he's like my exboyfriends really good friend. i really want him to realize that i like him but idk how to let him know without coming on too strong and stuff..
-confused. (link)
emotions.. one of the hardest things inside the human body to face off. Well you really like this guy right? the only advice i would make would be to let him come to you. just say hi a couple times and pretend you're not interesting like a hard to get type of thing. I mean acknowlege him a couple time so he may think he has a chance. then later on he'll come out of shi shell. hope it helps. with a lil time, things fall together.




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