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Talking to boys
I have a really hard time talking to boys (except for my guy friend). Whenever guys approach me, my mind just goes...blank. Even if I don't have a crush on him. Like when I'm going to drama there's another guy going down to the chorus room right next door. This guy's named Greg* who has a girlfriend, and it's just really awkward. We're headed in the same direction, and since it's so weird for me, he think I like him when I don't. Then he blocked me on AIM and that junk. Or some guys are just trying to hang out with me, and I just go really weird. Does anyone know what I mean, and what can I do to stop this?
*name has been changed to protect privacy ;-)
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Yes I know definetly know what you mean. You are very shy around guys but remember that it will pass. When you start to be around guys more often you start to relax. It is not going to take a day to feel secure about yourself but it will happen. Just be patient and even if you don't feel confident around guys, fake it. Also some guys like the quiet girls. Remember that you are beautiful, intelligent and sexy.
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I have the same problem. I'm really shy and I have extremely hard time talking to not only guys, but girls too. I'm just afraid I'm gonna say something wrong and they're going to think I'm weird or something. But anyway, just be confident [= Keep your head up high, smile. Just say whatever comes to your mind. If you like their shoes, say it! If they think you're weird, screw them! [= lol, just be outgoing. In the end, you're going to want a guy that's going to like you for who you are. So, just be yourself [=
Hope i helped <3
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I used to be really shy in middle school, but I kind of got over it when I got to HS. I think what helped me is that over the summer between 8th and 9th grade, I went through a complete change, appearance-wise. Maybe that's not your problem, but I always feel way more confident when I feel like I look good. Just walk on by that Gary kid, act like you don't even notice him there. Walk with your head up high and try to believe that youre hot and any guy would be lucky to have you! =)
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Kali
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well, it's becuase of the self confedence that you lack. see when guys see a women with low self esteem, they tend to gang up and try to take advantage of her. What you need to do is voice it out and tell them what you really think, then the jerks will back off knowing the dominace of the female. kinda like the discovery channel type of thing. Just ride the current and when the tides change use it and tell this greg that you're not intrested and remind him that he has a G/F. hope it helps
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hey um jsut remember " i am hot and confident " it always works for me = ]. try not to be scared. cait ♥
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