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Two guys.. I'LL RATE YOU!!
14-f. Okay, well I have this problem.. I was dating this guy named Mark that lives about 15 minutes away from me.. who's 15. We were dating for a month & he broke up with me because we don't see each other that often. I've liked him for a few months & I still like him now. We still talk and he said that maybe we can start dating again once he gets his license (he's taking drivers ed)Well, the things is, I'm really worried that a year from now I won't have the same feelings for him. My other problem is, I've been best friends with this other guy named Ethan from the same town as Mark & well I've dated Ethan 2 times. I consider him my first true love. The only problem is.. he treats me differently while we're dating then when we're just friends.. like he finds these stupid reasons to fight with me all the time.. and well I think Ethan likes me again, and this whole time.. I've liked him & Mark. I've liked Mark for a few months.. and well I've liked Ethan for about 10 months. I really don't know what to do. I want to be with Ethan yet I don't want to get hurt, yet I want to be with Mark.. because I deffinetly want to be with him when he gets his license. It's really hard. Some of my friends don't like Ethan, yet some of my other friends don't like Mark either because well.. he takes dance class & likes to sing. That honestly doesn't bug me because he's the sweetest guy in the world, while Ethan just hurts me. I really don't know what to do. I'm stuck in the middle & I just need some help. Please help me & I'll rate you! I promise!!
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well you should start thinking about you .... if ethen is mean than he is problly he is not going to change ...but mark is nice and he will treat you better ..... you can still be friends with ethen and maybe if things dont work out with you and mark .... than you can ask ethan if he wants to give it another chance hope i helped !!
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okay hunn, well if you really like mark then i think you should deff. date him. it sounds like ethan is just looking for someone to hurt. you dont want you to be that someone. and even though you can get some of your better opions from your friends, nothing is better than your own opion about a guy than yourself. and maybe a little advice here & there. if you really want to be with mark then nothing should ever hold you back. but if your feelings are stronger for ethan and you want to be with him more, than go ahead and make yourself really happy =) but make sure you talk to him about how you feel, and don't like him take control on the relationship. though becareful you don't want to loose anyone. and no matter what know that it isnt for your friends its for you, and whatever makes you happy should make them happy.
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ok this is really hard, but you should always chose the one that will never hurt lie & make you cry. So whatever one fights with you more is most likely not the one. Who cares what for friends think because you wanna make yourself happy not them. Maybe you should take some time off of both of them & have time for your self & just think. Or just think which one you know will treat you right & not hurt you.
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well, it's not that hard, ethans a jerk and most girls are attracted to that. It's a fact also, i've experimented with it while at school, the more jerky guys are the more women cling on. Sure you can deny it but you wont be sure am i right? if this guy hurts you and you don't like wit then why are you with him/ let me guess you're thinking " i don't know...' right? listen to the voice in youre heart and it will tell you what to do, you know the answer but afriad to tell it. just think and think hard. do it for yourself
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this eathan guy sounds like a jerk as where mark sounds like an idiot for breaking up for not seeing each other.... hmm id say go with mark... he seems nicer and sweeter.
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hey woah you got a situation on your hands. well what i would do is have a talk with the both of them seperately tho not together. choose the one that is willing to try to get along with you. cait ♥
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